Re: Sleeping while in bondage
Posted: 12 May 2019, 03:23
That she sure accomplished.
Thanks. It was one of my top scenarios. Locked down to the bed most nights for months. What more could a kinky person wish for. Nice to be able to share it.Shannon SteelSlave wrote:I really have to hand it to Keyless, for bringing this thread to life for a new generation of Boundannites. Just about a whole new page of responses shared. Thanx, K.
I had a dream like that once. I dreamed that the cuffs had slipped off my wrists and I was no longer secured to the bed. I remember thinking how annoyed Mistress K would be when she found I was free. How would I convince her that it just happened and I didn't know why. Then I woke up. I was pleased to find I was still locked down and no explanation was necessary.TNTBound wrote:i have done it a couple times. my best ever though, was when i was shackled to a pvc pipe with a chain running through it that keeps me stretched out. i was dreaming that i was stuck like that and that i had just freed myself from it. i was stretching my arms upwards and then i tried to move them to the side and realized i couldnt. i tried a couple more times and then i woke up and realized i was still in bondage with about 2.5 hours left till i could actually get out. i genuinely thought i was not in bondage anymore, so waking up and finding out i was stuck was frustrating beyond belief. but that is the exact feeling i long for, to wake up and then realize that im completely helpless, where i wasnt when i went to bed. i think its the thought of not having a say in the matter is a turn on for me.
for me to actually be able to sleep in bondage though, i need to be fairly comfortable, and to just accept that i wont be able to get out (timed release), then i can usually fall asleep, but i often wake up a couple hours later, long before morning.
I think that probably applies to my wife as well.Pretend we re dead wrote:I find that I used to sleep better when I tied him up. He'd shut up, and I wouldn't hear him. Win, win. Lights out.
I guess I may have missed it somewhere but I was wondering what you did about the inevitable having to get up for a pee in the middle of the night problem or are you not old enough to have reached that yet?Keyless wrote:I’m pleased to say that I am once again cuffed hand and foot to the bed overnight. The system is the same as the one from some years ago and described way back in this thread. We stopped using the system some years ago the alarm when the went off by accident. (see this thread about the alarmed emergency escape viewtopic.php?f=27&t=8441&p=62595&hilit ... arm#p62595 ). As it was a recycled smoke alarm, that caused some difficult questions from others in the house and we stopped using the system.
I suggested to my wife that we use it again as an alternative to being in a chastity device overnight. It keeps my hands well out of mischief. She liked the idea and told me to put the straps back on the bed, this time with a rather quieter alarm! She also decided that I should be naked.I think that probably applies to my wife as well.Pretend we re dead wrote:I find that I used to sleep better when I tied him up. He'd shut up, and I wouldn't hear him. Win, win. Lights out.
I just hope there are no problems this time and the regime lasts for a good while.
No you have not missed anything. You are quite right that is a problem, which spoils things up to a point. I am able to release myself briefly to visit the loo. I have modified the straps so that I can unlock them from the bed but my hands remain cuffed together in the webbing cuffs and so do my feet. My wife has the key to the handcuffs, but the key to detach them from the bed is held in a container by a timer lock. This is set for two or 3 hours, so that I will be asleep when it expires. Most nights I wake at some point, quickly release myself, visit the loo, reset the lock and lock back up again. Fortunately I have had no problem keeping chaste during that short period. If possible, when I relock I like to have the timer set so that it will not release me before my wife is awake and gives me the key. I really don’t want to be tempted to get up before I am given the key.bounddosster wrote:
I guess I may have missed it somewhere but I was wondering what you did about the inevitable having to get up for a pee in the middle of the night problem or are you not old enough to have reached that yet?
I don't think remaining chaste is a problem when waking up needing a pee. For me, it is a damn annoyance having to get up and pee and all I want to do is get back to sleep again, not so sure I could be trusted to reattach myself though, I'd just curl up and sleep again.Keyless wrote:No you have not missed anything. You are quite right that is a problem, which spoils things up to a point. I am able to release myself briefly to visit the loo. I have modified the straps so that I can unlock them from the bed but my hands remain cuffed together in the webbing cuffs and so do my feet. My wife has the key to the handcuffs, but the key to detach them from the bed is held in a container by a timer lock. This is set for two or 3 hours, so that I will be asleep when it expires. Most nights I wake at some point, quickly release myself, visit the loo, reset the lock and lock back up again. Fortunately I have had no problem keeping chaste during that short period. If possible, when I relock I like to have the timer set so that it will not release me before my wife is awake and gives me the key. I really don’t want to be tempted to get up before I am given the key.bounddosster wrote:
I guess I may have missed it somewhere but I was wondering what you did about the inevitable having to get up for a pee in the middle of the night problem or are you not old enough to have reached that yet?
It's a strange thing about getting locked in again. The other night I somehow managed to lock the lock without being properly hooked up. I just could not sleep like that. I had to go and find another padlock to put in series with the original. I'm not sure whether I was concerned about cheating or having difficulty with the temptation to give myself an orgasm. As you are in England you will know about the current heat wave. I was left free last night and uncaged today so I can swim. I can swim caged but I don't like it much. I think I'll be OK, but I will really need locking up as soon as the weather changes otherwise I am likely to have an orgasm and be very grumpy for several days. That's not much fun for either of us. I thought I'd got used to remaining chaste but apparently not.bounddosster wrote: I don't think remaining chaste is a problem when waking up needing a pee. For me, it is a damn annoyance having to get up and pee and all I want to do is get back to sleep again, not so sure I could be trusted to reattach myself though, I'd just curl up and sleep again.
I really admire your wife, she sounds like a fun lady.
Not wishing to pry but am curious as to how you having an orgasm makes you grumpy?Keyless wrote:I think I'll be OK, but I will really need locking up as soon as the weather changes otherwise I am likely to have an orgasm and be very grumpy for several days.