Re: Punishment for using safeword
Posted: 16 Apr 2021, 15:18
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I think you should have that right. I met someone in the hospital (when a friend was in that ward in the same department for suicide attempt) whose wife is sickly jealous: he was not allowed to look at any woman, on the street or at the clerk when he paid the bill. As a result, he had gone under it himself and ended up in hospital. So don't let it get to the point where your health starts to suffer.Lotharjulz wrote:Honestly I don't feel like I'm lacking in anything other than just wanting to get some me time once in a while unencumbered and without punishment afterwards.
As Lyn wrote, we change over time. Adapt your relationship accordingly. For example, I am getting older and I should therefore not try to run another marathon against a younger person.Lotharjulz wrote:Truth be told I'm on antidepressants as well already. They are quite effective, however, I feel like they may have contributed to my desire for more freedom lately. Kinda an ironic response.kinbaku wrote:I think you should have that right. I met someone in the hospital (when a friend was in that ward in the same department for suicide attempt) whose wife is sickly jealous: he was not allowed to look at any woman, on the street or at the clerk when he paid the bill. As a result, he had gone under it himself and ended up in hospital. So don't let it get to the point where your health starts to suffer.Lotharjulz wrote:Honestly I don't feel like I'm lacking in anything other than just wanting to get some me time once in a while unencumbered and without punishment afterwards.
As Lyn wrote, we change over time. Adapt your relationship accordingly. For example, I am getting older and I should therefore not try to run another marathon against a younger person.Lotharjulz wrote:Truth be told I'm on antidepressants as well already. They are quite effective, however, I feel like they may have contributed to my desire for more freedom lately. Kinda an ironic response.