Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
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Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
Hello everyone,
Please call me either Jessie or Jessica depending on your preference. It has been a long time since I participated in any kind of online forum. As someone who does not like having too much of an online presence these days, I am nervous about putting myself out there again. I do, however, believe in the importance of leaning into discomfort in order to better oneself, so here I am. I recently graduated from college and moved out of a shared bedroom into a shared apartment with my very own room. As someone who has been into bondage since the age of 5, a calculation based on the awakening I experienced watching Xena: Warrior Princess on TV, I'm overjoyed to now have the freedom to pursue all of my kinky desires in a private space. This is especially true now since COVID has limited everyone's ability to engage in BDSM events in my area. So, I am here to join in the conversations, get ideas, and offer support if and when I can.
Thank you all,
Jessie
Please call me either Jessie or Jessica depending on your preference. It has been a long time since I participated in any kind of online forum. As someone who does not like having too much of an online presence these days, I am nervous about putting myself out there again. I do, however, believe in the importance of leaning into discomfort in order to better oneself, so here I am. I recently graduated from college and moved out of a shared bedroom into a shared apartment with my very own room. As someone who has been into bondage since the age of 5, a calculation based on the awakening I experienced watching Xena: Warrior Princess on TV, I'm overjoyed to now have the freedom to pursue all of my kinky desires in a private space. This is especially true now since COVID has limited everyone's ability to engage in BDSM events in my area. So, I am here to join in the conversations, get ideas, and offer support if and when I can.
Thank you all,
Jessie
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Re: Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
Welcome to Bound Anna, Jessica. Feel free to discuss anything, and I promise not to tell. Shan'
Bondage is like a foreign film without subtitles. Only through sharing and practice can we hope to understand.
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
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Re: Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
Welcome to the forum!
You don't need to feel uncomfortable here - you're among friends, people like yourself, who seek others like themselves.
Feel free to mingle and browse, have fun, and be safe.
Jenny.
You don't need to feel uncomfortable here - you're among friends, people like yourself, who seek others like themselves.
Feel free to mingle and browse, have fun, and be safe.
Jenny.
Helplessness is a doorway to the innermost reaches of the soul.
If my corset isn't tight, it just isn't right!
Kink is the spice of life!
Come to the Dark Side - we have cookies!
If my corset isn't tight, it just isn't right!
Kink is the spice of life!
Come to the Dark Side - we have cookies!
Re: Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
Welcome to the forum. You can always rely on Jenny to settle you in, (she has cookies) and the rest of us are friendly, if happily kinky.
Never confuse your ambitions with your abilities. If you can't free yourself, who will?
When your helpless, you have no choice but to wait.
When your helpless, you have no choice but to wait.
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Re: Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
Nope that didn't hurt.JIMDINI wrote: Welcome to the forum. You can always rely on Jenny to settle you in, (she has cookies) and the rest of us are friendly, if happily kinky.
I'm always here too, Jessie. Just a private message or reply away.
You have more greetings from others who are equally as wonderful coming, so I'll step aside.
Bondage is like a foreign film without subtitles. Only through sharing and practice can we hope to understand.
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
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Re: Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
Welcome Jessica, have fun and stay safe.
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Re: Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
Welcome! you're having the luck (freedom) I expect to have when I graduate from college soon
Like jenny said, we're all among people with the same kind of desires
Have fun and stay safe!
Like jenny said, we're all among people with the same kind of desires
Have fun and stay safe!
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"Bondage is about freeing your mind to experience something greater."
"There are 10 types of people in this world. Those who understand binary numeric system, and those who don't."
Re: Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
Welcome!
There's a fine line between cuddling and holding someone down so they can't get away.
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons - for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons - for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
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Re: Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort
welcome Jessica. if you just need to talk os tell me what to do just ask.