Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
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Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
I love this place, but there's one thing I kinda miss...
I love being in self-bondage, but just self-bondage is not enough for me. I always want/need to feel some form of pain to distract me and keep my mind busy. Feeling the pain, not being able to do anything about it due to the bondage is what helps me..
I'm pretty sure others here feel the same, and I'm wondering what others have tried to add as "torture" element, such as e-stim, nipple clamps, etc. Perhaps even some DIY torture things. So a Self-Torture subforum would allow us to discuss these.
I love being in self-bondage, but just self-bondage is not enough for me. I always want/need to feel some form of pain to distract me and keep my mind busy. Feeling the pain, not being able to do anything about it due to the bondage is what helps me..
I'm pretty sure others here feel the same, and I'm wondering what others have tried to add as "torture" element, such as e-stim, nipple clamps, etc. Perhaps even some DIY torture things. So a Self-Torture subforum would allow us to discuss these.
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Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
I second this, but the word t o r t u r e might put some guys/gals off.
I would gladly use self-induced pain or simply nerve loading
I'm sure others (esp. native English writers) will find something poetically...
In fact, that's what we are creating: poetry in pain!
Have fun, play with pain,
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I would gladly use self-induced pain or simply nerve loading
I'm sure others (esp. native English writers) will find something poetically...
In fact, that's what we are creating: poetry in pain!
Have fun, play with pain,
f4
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Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
Ah, good idea with the name suggestion. I agree.
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Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
Hi there,
I disagree. There's no need to split the forum into even more sub categories. If it's part of selfbondage then keep it in there. We've been discussing nipple clamps, estim and other stuff at length.
jm2c,
Joe.
I disagree. There's no need to split the forum into even more sub categories. If it's part of selfbondage then keep it in there. We've been discussing nipple clamps, estim and other stuff at length.
jm2c,
Joe.
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Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
I tend to agree with Joe - it's part of self-bondage and is already discussed at length in the Self-Bondage Discussions sub-forum.
However, I wouldn't be loath to adding a sub-forum within the aforementioned section (like Funny Things in Everything Else). Of course, this is all subject to approval by Anna (who might see a database issue or some other complication).
But in my opinion, it's not really necessary.
Jenny.
However, I wouldn't be loath to adding a sub-forum within the aforementioned section (like Funny Things in Everything Else). Of course, this is all subject to approval by Anna (who might see a database issue or some other complication).
But in my opinion, it's not really necessary.
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Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
Then there's this: (from the Rules, Disallowed subjects post.) (See Anna, someone does read them!)
"Torture:
No stories or discussion about torture are allowed. Discomfort are allowed but please try to use the word discomfort instead of torture."
So maybe a "self discomfort" sub forum. Kinda doesn't have the same ring to it though.
"Torture:
No stories or discussion about torture are allowed. Discomfort are allowed but please try to use the word discomfort instead of torture."
So maybe a "self discomfort" sub forum. Kinda doesn't have the same ring to it though.
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Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
"Self-Torment"???
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Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
This I agree with.bound_jenny wrote:I tend to agree with Joe - it's part of self-bondage and is already discussed at length in the Self-Bondage Discussions sub-forum.
I see nothing that would prevent me from creating such a subforum. But I do not see that it is needed right now. If we get more threads on discomfort techniques then I will change my mind and create it.bound_jenny wrote:Of course, this is all subject to approval by Anna (who might see a database issue or some other complication).
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Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
OK, if not a sub-forum, then just start a new thread (a single one) and have everyone
post their... "Extreme Stimulation Methods" there...
Kinda like the chastity thread... Emalock(?)...
post their... "Extreme Stimulation Methods" there...
Kinda like the chastity thread... Emalock(?)...
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Don't ask, we both wont understand the answer...
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Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
I also would avoid using the words "torture" or "torment" in the name for the sub-forum or thread. Suggestions like "Extreme Stimulation Methods" or "self discomfort" would be better but can sound rather dry and technical. However, a name like "Pleasure and Pain" or "Pleasure Pain" might actually arouse people's curiosity.
That is- IF such a thread is needed; so far, aside from estim or nipple clamps which relate to self-bondage quite well, there hasn't been much discussion along the lines of "Floggers vs Cats", "The Dangers of Singletails" or "Lucite Rod Canes".
That is- IF such a thread is needed; so far, aside from estim or nipple clamps which relate to self-bondage quite well, there hasn't been much discussion along the lines of "Floggers vs Cats", "The Dangers of Singletails" or "Lucite Rod Canes".
Re: Suggestion: New subforum self-torture
That may be because it is hard to use those sorts of things in self bondage, at least if you are really restrained. Would be a good topic for the bondage section though.Natale wrote:That is- IF such a thread is needed; so far, aside from estim or nipple clamps which relate to self-bondage quite well, there hasn't been much discussion along the lines of "Floggers vs Cats", "The Dangers of Singletails" or "Lucite Rod Canes".
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