About Mistress Pain

Mijalita11 · Post by **Mijalita11** » 14 Oct 2008, 18:32

Hello Everyone, does anybody know what happened to Mistress Pain?? why is her nick in black?

And if so, where I can find her?

Thank you

Mijal

Post by **bound_jenny** » 14 Oct 2008, 18:38

Check your PM.

Jenny.

teh-ah-tim-eh · Post by **teh-ah-tim-eh** » 15 Oct 2008, 23:20

where is she?

Post by **bound_jenny** » 16 Oct 2008, 03:03

teh-ah-tim-eh wrote:where is she?

Check your PM.

Jenny.

cdinbonds · Post by **cdinbonds** » 16 Oct 2008, 06:27

Well now inquiring minds want to know.

She must have been a bad girl. Shame on her!

Post by **bound_jenny** » 16 Oct 2008, 11:25

cdinbonds wrote:Well now inquiring minds want to know.

Check your PM.

cdinbonds wrote:She must have been a bad girl. Shame on her!

No, she wasn't. And it's no jocular matter, thank you.

Jenny.
Forum Moderator

DavidL · Post by **DavidL** » 17 Oct 2008, 20:48

Hey, i was wondering what was flying around in these PM's, i had some involvement with her but stopped as she seemed to be come a guest and replied to PM's a bit strangly.
Any Ideas?
D

Nuclearo · Post by **Nuclearo** » 17 Oct 2008, 21:04

All this secrecy got me interested too, hehe. I guess you really can't keep secrets in society

teh-ah-tim-eh · Post by **teh-ah-tim-eh** » 17 Oct 2008, 21:57

I reackon close and deleate this post, then less people asking.

masoboy · Post by **masoboy** » 18 Oct 2008, 00:01

What's the point of replying to people in PMs?

Post by **bound_jenny** » 18 Oct 2008, 03:28

Okeedokee...

I see that it's getting a little out of hand (as I had predicted), so I might as well set the record straight, before it gets totally out of control and people start posting things that are not very nice. I wanted to keep it within PMs so long as it remained limited in scope.

It's also good timing because I have had time to cool down. I was mad as hell about this and that is not good. I still am a tad incensed.

First, I want to be very clear that the personal details of this will not be divulged, by request of Mistress Pain. I will honor that request unconditionally.

MP had explicitly requested that her account be removed. Why? Because some people were insistently pressuring her to get her to dominate them into doing dangerous stuff. That and some people were trying to invade her privacy by trying to find out who she is in RL. Some of this might be construed as harassment.

She might be a formidable Domme in her own right, but she is also a sensitive soul who just wanted to have a bit of good, pervy fun with us. It might be obvious that she could have just refused or ignored the inappropriate requests, but we are not all made the same, and we don't all react the same way to a given situation. That has to be respected. What must be even more respected is a person's right to privacy and intimacy.

I'm not going to start a blame game or a witch hunt (and neither would I like to see anyone else start anything of that nature). We can all play Monday morning quarterbacks until the cows come home, and it won't fix what happened. We can, however, learn from our mistakes and prevent anything similar from happening again.

So I ask nicely, please respect her. Please do not engage in open speculations or post anything inappropriate about her.

Thank you for your cooperation and understanding.

Jenny.
Forum Moderator.

SouthBoundBelle · Post by **SouthBoundBelle** » 20 Oct 2008, 23:49

I am sorry to hear this. It would have been fun getting to know her. I have very little insight into bondage from her perspective and that would have been most interesting to hear about. I wish her the best.

Dinah