How did your friends/family find out you were into SB/BDSM?

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My boyfriend knew early on in our relationship. As I said a good while ago on the forum, I created a character named Ayame. She is short, cute innocent looking girl, little over five feet and 100 lbs. She has slightly wide shoulders, a thin waist and thin hips, giving her a slightly masculine look...but besides her physicalness...

She is a bondage dom, who makes more innuendos than the rest of the crew she works with (she's a pirate...kinda.) She had to come from somewhere :wink:

I never told my parents or friends or anything. They don't know, and since I don't live with them, they probably won't find out. All my toys are in shoe boxes, and i noticed from my girlfriends...They have tons of shoe boxes in their closets. No one cares.

And...My friends and I did have an on-going joke in high school. My girlfriend was a stripper because her wallet was full of singles, my guy friend was a male porn star because of his works on computer constructing and drawing males, and I was a bondage dominant because i was too innocent.
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Amy_Tenchi wrote:and I was a bondage dominant because i was too innocent.
Never judge a book by its cover... it's always the quiet ones that are the most troublesome - you never know what's coming. :P :twisted: :P :twisted:

I was a very quiet child... :twisted:

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bound_jenny wrote:
Amy_Tenchi wrote:and I was a bondage dominant because i was too innocent.
Never judge a book by its cover... it's always the quiet ones that are the most troublesome - you never know what's coming. :P :twisted: :P :twisted:

I was a very quiet child... :twisted: .
Which is why whenever my boyfriend talks about his/my quiet, church like friends, they are apparently all tigers in bed...or something like that :lol: :lol:
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bound_jenny wrote:Never judge a book by its cover... it's always the quiet ones that are the most troublesome - you never know what's coming.
Yep! That's what they always said about me. That tends to scare some people, as they never know what you might be thinking/planning! Image

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