Hi,
I am new to self bondage. My wife is not interested at bondage, so after I found self-bondage (a day ago..) I was immediately hooked. After watching all kink porn for 2 decades I can't imagine how this one was not found anywhere before this. For now, I have no much gear to work on, except some ropes, belts, ties and handcuffs and butt plugs. I am looking to get huge orgasms from this and I am planning to get prostate massager, ball gag and nipple clamps at least to get on track. I think the best thing while being bound is to feel the sensations quite different form being free and to lose the ability to control. I have some time alone so I can workout these things while kids and wife aren't present. Not sure how far this can go, compared to being bound by a lady domina, but looking forward to it. I bet it's way better than the regular missionary.
If there are suggestions how to make p-spot orgasms while being bound, happy to try those. One of my fantasies is being bound and getting first teased, edged and then forced to orgasm mercilessly several times. I am also interested about spanking and pegging and I think anal play is something I will involve for this for sure. Another thing is that I need to hide gear from my kids at least, also practicing self bondage will be challenging, though I can lock me up behind two doors so I get some sense of peace during late nights.
I noticed there are some scenarios in the forum, but got way too excited and couldn't help myself to sign in here and start the journey. Feels good to write this stuff, right after 30 years of first bondage experience (a little playful event with friends, which turned out quite different for me). Oh, I'm dripping already
Hello kinksters!
- Shannon SteelSlave
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Re: Hello kinksters!
Aloha from Bound Anna, psarmanch
Bondage is like a foreign film without subtitles. Only through sharing and practice can we hope to understand.
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
Re: Hello kinksters!
Welcome to the forum.
Never confuse your ambitions with your abilities. If you can't free yourself, who will?
When your helpless, you have no choice but to wait.
When your helpless, you have no choice but to wait.
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Welcome to the forum!
Jenny.
Jenny.
Helplessness is a doorway to the innermost reaches of the soul.
If my corset isn't tight, it just isn't right!
Kink is the spice of life!
Come to the Dark Side - we have cookies!
If my corset isn't tight, it just isn't right!
Kink is the spice of life!
Come to the Dark Side - we have cookies!
Re: Hello kinksters!
Welcome!
There's a fine line between cuddling and holding someone down so they can't get away.
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons - for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons - for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
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Re: Hello kinksters!
psarmanch, Just remember to keep one eye on safety and doing a dry run is often a good idea for anything new.
That's my excuse and I'm sticking to it.
Re: Hello kinksters!
Yes this goes safety first indeed. My first test is to keep clothespins for an hour. Thought I would be nice on a way home from work. Watching all the scenarios I thought why not trying to sit on Lego bricks during bondage. Just currently sitting on a floor, for 15mins now and defitinely needs more/bigger blocks to get more uncomfortable.bounddosster wrote: psarmanch, Just remember to keep one eye on safety and doing a dry run is often a good idea for anything new.
Re: Hello kinksters!
Welcome to Bound Anna, psarmanch.