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I absolutely love selfbondage porn.

Don't get me wrong I love seeing a guy or girl tie up, tease and punish another but seeing someone do the sort that we do, usually yes with better toys etc but still. Some stuff on xvideos and myvideo.de is good, Chimera is I think the only pay for selfbondage and to be honest a lot of stuff on there isn't great but my question,

So others watch it, and subsequently,

What site do you use, wht type do you like to see, male? female?

Amateur or professional.

What are people favourite videos from the internet and do you record yourself and have you posted it online also

I think many have enjoyed or at least claimed to my various live shows I have done, has anyone else ever done one?

Talk bout a million and one questions, maybe we can have a million and one answers :)
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gaggednheels wrote:What site do you use, wht type do you like to see, male? female?
I don't stick to any particular site. What I like is what makes me feel aroused or inspired. I pick and choose what I look at. Bondage or self-bondage, as long it makes me want to submit to it or more frighteningly for any potential "volunteer" (or victim... :twisted: ), administer it.

Not that I look at much porn... :wink:
gaggednheels wrote:Amateur or professional.
Same thing - pick and choose. The pros have a bit more skill at setting up the scene and producing a well-polished product, but there are many amateurs who can really crank up the steam. :D
gaggednheels wrote:What are people favourite videos from the internet
Usually funny cat videos, screaming sheep - that's what people like the most. Oh, porn! Silly me... Gord will forever remain dear to my heart (and a few other parts of my anatomy :mrgreen: ), but Chimera does serve the self-bondage market very well with some very nice videos.
gaggednheels wrote:do you record yourself and have you posted it online...

...live shows ... has anyone else ever done one?
No, no, no, and definitely NOT on my list of things to do. Whatever evil I do to myself (and to select "volunteers" :twisted: ) is for my personal pleasure. I'm not an exhibitionist. I don't want to have someone creepy see what I do and decide to give himself permission to participate unannounced in one of my personal pleasure sessions (or impose one on me without my prior approval or knowledge - though he may get into a spot of painful trouble on account of my physical condition and rather merciless devotion to subduing my adversary (think Devil's Brigade in stiletto heels, with a dash of Xena :shock: ). That would make for a quite entertaining video in itself.

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For me, the "self" aspect of self-bondage is really more of a necessity/convenience. I get aroused by non-self-bondage as much as self-bondage. So it's all good as long as the girl is tied up :D :gag:.

Always female, either amateur or professional.

I used to really like Restrained Elegance back when they did bondage in fancy dresses. They switched to the "normal" naked and bra + panties stuff couple years ago because apparently fancy dress bondage is too small of a niche, and they need to expand their customer base, so they made themselves into just another bondage site. I guess I happen to be in that small niche, so they lost me as a customer as a result.

Limited Audience is also quite good. I also liked Haus de Sade a lot back when it was running... I guess that's kind of almost self-bondage?

Kink.com for me is just way too much sex, and genitals. Though I've been on KinkLive a few times, and they have some pretty interesting models (as in, generally interesting people that are models). They are the kind of the girls that I would totally befriend in real life - sophisticated, nice, etc (of course, internet is not real life... everything on the internet are only figments of our imagination).
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I know some separated episodes of different websites that involve self-bondage:

- BondageJunkies.com (Ep. 1036, 1000, 1001, 1093, 1140) That's the codes I have them sorted by.
- Devonshire: DP-58, DP-351.
- BondageCafe: Episodes with the title: Curious Obsession. About the use of a self-bondage rack/bench.
- Chimerabondage
- Bound-Ivy.vom.
- Limited Audience/Quality Control (They're the same right?).

And I have some loose files, about a 150, of sorts which I can't identify. Lots of crap, but also lots of gems. :whip:
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I dont hugely understand it as Im straight but even seeing a guy do selfbondage is such a turn on for me. Yet normal BDSM porn involving a guy wouldnt really do it for me.

Likewise SB porn is a bigger turn on for me that say a girl tying another girl.

I guess thats why I love doing cam shows so much even just for one person.

Like always if anyone is interested at all to see me do Selfbondage just PM me I love showing off my oiled up self struggling :)
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I too roam around the net to find self bondage porn. I love xhamster. I have done self bondage porn and posted it. I enjoy making my own movies. It is like a time capsule of my experiences.
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gaggednheels wrote:I dont hugely understand it as Im straight but even seeing a guy do selfbondage is such a turn on for me. Yet normal BDSM porn involving a guy wouldnt really do it for me.
I'm a huge proponent of psychoanalytic film theory which I think helps explain this. Viewers of film or visual media fundamentally occupy one of two subject positions: voyeurism or narcissism. In the former, the viewer simply likes to be detached but still a part of the scene. This is why breaking the fourth wall is so tantalizing because it makes an ostensibly passive experience active.

The narcissistic experience is more interesting. The viewer imagines themselves as a character in the media. For me, as a mostly straight guy, I am turned on by similar occurrences. I think it's because unconsciously I'm putting myself in his position. Usually when I watch even girls in bondage I imagine myself in her position. Which sucks because I can't do the physical acts female actresses are capable of (and this is a part of the problem with this type of viewer subjectivity.

What do you think?
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uncannymoebius wrote:I'm a huge proponent of psychoanalytic film theory which I think helps explain this. ... voyeurism or narcissism.
Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. :idea:

For me it's pure hedonism - except in my adaptation of hedonism, it's pleasure plus pain. :whip: ...Aristippus can go climb a tree. :mrgreen:

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OH MY GOD! Jen you crack me up. I so miss your intelligence and sense of humor. I wish I was as deep thinking as yourself. I am afraid I am quite the narcissist. The porn I like is pretty much centered around the way I like it myself. Tied up in suspenders and stockings, corsets and heels. Near soundproof gags. I realize that there are too many places for sound to escape but you know what I mean. I generally pass most everything else in a blur of mouse clicks. I gravitate toward Steve Villa, JJ Plush, Serene Isley, Elizabeth Andrews, and James Bertoni for his glam material.

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bound_jenny wrote:
Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. :idea:
Haha. I love that Freud said that, of all people.
SouthBoundBelle wrote: I am afraid I am quite the narcissist. The porn I like is pretty much centered around the way I like it myself. Tied up in suspenders and stockings, corsets and heels. Near soundproof gags. I realize that there are too many places for sound to escape but you know what I mean. I generally pass most everything else in a blur of mouse clicks. I gravitate toward Steve Villa, JJ Plush, Serene Isley, Elizabeth Andrews, and James Bertoni for his glam material.
Yes the blur of mouse clicks! I think I'm the narcissist too but I think it makes porn really interesting. Being able to kind of enhance your own fantasies I think is really cool!
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I watch bondage porn in general but there are some self-bondage videos on my lists too. Mostly females but if a guy looks feminine or wears a catsuit and some nice boots to it, I won't say no. Both amature and professional. I don't have any favorite video. I do film myself or take photos during my sessions but had never uploaded them anywhere outside of sharing some with two of my friends. Maybe when I'll finally get in shape, then I'll try uploading some. As for live shows, I prefer watching videos and myself would rather make a video than do a live show.
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