Nervous about up coming SB session

[rexter]

I've done essentially this a few times using this attachment instead of the M-Gasm.

I'm not sure if it's the attachment or not, but the sessions aren't exactly torturous. I chose that one over the M-Gasm due to the reviews on both items. But it's reasonable to assume that the problem is failing to stimulate the head fully. I'm just not sure-- though 1st orgasm occurs quickly, just like in your session. The other problem is becoming flacid-- it seems like maintaining erection would go a long way toward the desired ultra-sensitivity which I haven't really had happen. I have never taken viagra or similar pills, and am reluctant to do so. Cock rings seem like a reasonable idea-- but I tried that last session and although it did help maintain somewhat, it did nothing to achieve ultra-sensitivity.

Another interesting attachment is this which I'm also considering. It's tempting to try another non-M-Gasm just due to price and reviews, and this one does seem to put the stimulation exactly where needed for torture.

What do you think?

One other difference is my timings are rather different. One big difference is that I don't go very long "ON" because when I initially programmed it, I was worried. Also, I know the timings fairly well and one interesting thing about the sessions is my 2nd orgasm usually happens at the longest "ON" setting. I think that's largely due to knowing it is coming next more than any other reason. Also, I have a dimmer attached, which I set as late as possible. I have a long initial "ON" which I know the exact details of and a 4 minute "OFF" following. That pause is just so I can finish everything else before the 1st real "ON" begins.

There will be an approximate 20 minute wait period

Why do you need any significant wait before the first "ON"?

Anyways, thoughts and comments are welcome, and after I report back on this new timing setup it'd be really cool if you guys gave me more ideas for timings and I shall report back on them.

I'm still working on getting the desired effect, so I haven't gotten too serious about investigating timings.

[james_carmen]

Hey Rex, I'd hazard a guess at the sessions not being torturous because of the attachment, I've tried the attachment you linked above, it doesn't stimulate the head. I'd highly recommend the M-Gasm... it works! Flaccidity isn't an issue inside the M-Gasm, I don't use lube inside it so it hangs on to your member very well, the way I've got myself strapped down not being able to move the hips at all prevents the possibility of slipping out.

As for the second attachment you linked, if the material is the same as the first one, I didn't like it since I found it too hard and you couldn't use it without lube ( well i couldn't anyways). With plenty of lube though I'd think it looks like it would stimulate the hell out of your head. Just consider how to keep it there when you get softer.

The reason for the significant wait in my timing before the start of the session is the anticipation. I use a walk-in closet for my sessions so no windows, it's pitch black (I use a flashlight to get bound then toss it). I also put in earplugs so I can't hear or see, it really makes you lose sense of time after a bit.

I recently came up with a solution to the problem of knowing your timings exactly. I came up with a couple devious timings, and got a couple identical timers, each timer with a different program. So when I select one to use, I don't know which one I've got till it's too late, and especially with the sensory deprivation it's challenging to identify since time's a little lost on me too.

[rexter]

Hey Rex, I'd hazard a guess at the sessions not being torturous because of the attachment, I've tried the attachment you linked above, it doesn't stimulate the head. I'd highly recommend the M-Gasm... it works! Flaccidity isn't an issue inside the M-Gasm, I don't use lube inside it so it hangs on to your member very well, the way I've got myself strapped down not being able to move the hips at all prevents the possibility of slipping out.

Well, I've acquired an M-Gasm and tested it several times now. Unfortunately, get pretty much the same lack of ultra-sensitivity with that attachment. It's interesting that the anticipation at the final click is still awesome even though I know the end result is going to be disappointing. However, that attachment does give me hope.

I've never owned anything like that, and although using it with the wand isn't torturous for me, I have recently tried a thrusting approach manually. I can't keep that up long after orgasm. It is clear that an auto-thruster would give me the (un)desired solution. So I'm now exploring how to accomplish that. Boy am I nuts. :)

[james_carmen]

Well, I've acquired an M-Gasm and tested it several times now. Unfortunately, get pretty much the same lack of ultra-sensitivity with that attachment. It's interesting that the anticipation at the final click is still awesome even though I know the end result is going to be disappointing. However, that attachment does give me hope.

I've never owned anything like that, and although using it with the wand isn't torturous for me, I have recently tried a thrusting approach manually. I can't keep that up long after orgasm. It is clear that an auto-thruster would give me the (un)desired solution. So I'm now exploring how to accomplish that. Boy am I nuts.

what?? well clearly everyone's different then! Goodluck! guess I'm one of the lucky.... or unlucky ones. Got a new timing coming up, gonna test it. That's kinda the new thing with my setup I guess. Same setup just different timings for different effects and learning about yourself. Coming up will be a period of wait and anticipation (part of the fun as you've discovered) then 3 minutes on (Well under a minute for orgasm then remainder of torture), then one minute off, then one on, one off for about 4 cycles, then 2 minutes off. Then 2 minutes on, and at about the 15 minute after initial orgasm mark, a 5 minute on, not sure if i'll be able to cum a second time, but if i do cum in those 5 minutes I'm fucked, cause then off for 1 minute, then on for another 5 which will be pure hell if I've just came..... but there's no such thing as unbearable in bondage right......

[Tenderfoot88]

Unbearable in bondage, yes. Hence safewords.
Unbearable in selfbondage, no. Except in the morbid sense.

Just wondering - how stiff is that attachment of yours? I've tried to jury rig something similar with a traditional masturbation sleeve (yes, it's a tradition in my family ), without much success. I'm wondering if a firmer or less stretchy material would work better, because my toy is extremely stretchy and soft. Soft and stretchy is effective for its intended purpose, but makes it much easier to slide out of (or have the hitachi slip out the other end).

[james_carmen]

Just wondering - how stiff is that attachment of yours? I've tried to jury rig something similar with a traditional masturbation sleeve (yes, it's a tradition in my family ), without much success. I'm wondering if a firmer or less stretchy material would work better, because my toy is extremely stretchy and soft. Soft and stretchy is effective for its intended purpose, but makes it much easier to slide out of (or have the hitachi slip out the other end).

The M-Gasm is pretty soft and stretchy, when I hang it free off the hitachi it stays on very well. So when it's got my member inside it pressed against me there's no chance of it coming off. I think it's softness would work better than a stiffer one, it's a little more evil i'd think since it jiggles creating a unique sensation. I've had no problems with it

[Robtex]

Hi James,

I just wanted to say this sounds amazing - I've only recently started doing sb but I'm already thinking about buying the necessary stuff to recreate what you've done here! How did the second time go in the end??

Rob.

[kirogum]

I tried a setup very similar to this, this weekend, but a bit less intense. Ice lock, spread-eagle, with a vibrator secured where it counts. It was a much weaker toy than the Hitachi, but it still felt pretty good, and I had it hooked up to a timer.

Using a timer really adds an entirely different dimension to SB play. I had mine set up to turn the vibrator on for 1 to 2 minutes at a time at first, then off for 1 or 2 minutes. Then, as the session progressed, it would stay on for 4 minutes, then 8, then 16.

I came once halfway during the session, then frantically tried to escape (in vain), and then, towards the end, I was just about to cum once more, when the timer stopped. Very frustrating, and then the ice melted and I was free.

Overall it was a fun session. Can't wait to do it again!

[hotiger]

Wow sounds really great I am doing the same thing, using however different e-stim machines and a venus 2000. Since the venus is one hell of a mchine, I got the "auto-thruster", but have to use electronic timers. 1 minute on, 1 or 2 minutes off, 2 minutes on, 1 minute off and so on. But at the same time there is another timer set to values like 3 seconds off, 12 seconds on ... At the same time the speed of the venus is randomly changing There is also a vibrator taped to the receiver coming on about every 7 minutes for 1 minute. Usually by now I can stand it for about 50 minutes unless I set the on-seconds too long; If this happens I get tortured, which we all crave for. I posted the setup here as well and now I bought a head cam and hopefully will be able to post at least some pictures

Greets hotiger

[hotiger]

I also own massager with different programs, but it suffers from one biiig diadvantage: If the power is cut it will not restart by itself, the power On switch has to be pressed again. I think all the new massagers have that problem

[batr]

Sounds damn fun. I just wish my penis was more vibe friendly. I go numb quick. It's one of the few times I wish it was a clit. My girlfriend gets off so fast with her wand.

[james_carmen]

So I've been absent from here for quite abit since the original venture, no I haven't post orgasm tortured myself to death. Though I have been slowly refining my technique over the past couple years. Recently I discovered this attachment (see link below) and the speed controller for the magic wand.

https://www.pinkcherry.ca/collections/v ... attachment

This attachment I dare say is even more devious than the M-Gasm I used to use. On the inside are like silicon tendrils all around that hold my cock-head in place. If you click through the pics of the attachment you'll notice there's a gap in the middle of them like where their tips end. So even when you go flaccid, they're cruelly hold your shaft/head in place. When you go hard, the tendrils just bend to accommodate your member while always keeping their presence felt.

So to get an understanding of my situation you'll have to read the original post (sorry). So with this attachment on the wand, I hang the whole setup horizontally from an elastic band at the wand's center with my cock head in the attachment
as I'm bound on my back. It's hung by an elastic so if I move, like try to thrust toward or away from the attachment it follows my cockhead so I have zero control over changing its grip on my head. There's a generous amount of lube inside to maximize the sensations. I've tested it extensively, even with lube there's no way to shake it loose. My first go at it I set up my timer as usual to make me wait then stay on for a certain amount of time to ensure I came then was tortured. Holy crap, it was incredible. I go complete sensory deprivation so pitch black room, and ear plugs doubled up with muffs. The startle when it suddenly comes on is probably my favourite part. The post orgasm torture is just crazy with this thing. But after a couple runs I decided I could do better.

I found that even on the low setting on the wand, the vibrations were so high that I could cheat when I flexed my cock to make the post orgasm vibrations abit less torturous and that it numbed me slightly. So I've made some changes for tonight's session.

After I get it's set up, I'll have a wait time of about an hour in darkness and silence, I'll lose sense of space and time so eventually the only thing I can feel and focus on is my cock head in the attachment. The wand is now plugged through a speed controller that I have dialed to run it at a lower intensity to avoid numbing and so I can feel the numbs shaking and sliding across my lubed up head better. And finally I've attached a small bullet vibe to the outside of the attachment that will turn on and off at random times of no more than 30 seconds at a time on or off. The purpose of this is an hour long off and on tease that'll make my cock go to maximum hardness, and since it can't hold that for the whole time it'll go soft (where the attachment will still hold it in the center of all those evil tips). Then it'll go hard again eventually and the cycle repeats, hard/soft/hard soft which for me greatly increases the sensitivity of my whole cock and head. Then eventually the wand will come on, make me come, then torture my post-orgasm sensitive head, even when it goes soft it'll be held by the attachment at the tips of those silicon rods so there's absolutely no escape.

Welp, it's time to set up, I'll let you guys know how it goes It'll be a longer write up I imagine, I like to be detailed so could be a couple days.

[TicleMeEndless]

About randomly timer... Just look at this:
https://daftsex.com/watch/423229263_456239030
Pink latex catsuit, key attached to bed's headboard with a combination lock, handcuffs behind, legcuffs, ballgag and blindfold. And of corse - magic wand strongly attached to best place. With a randomly short timer. (10-60sec works). Open combination lock behind, being blind and teased by wand - so not easy job.