Fellow members and self-bondage lovers.
I want to take a moment to thank all the people who E-mailed and responded to me with Questions and comments regarding self-bondage and your kind words.
I had no idea so many people practice self-bondage in their life, I hope I answered your questions and concerns to your satisfaction.
The one thing that concerned me the most is the people that think that self-bondage is somehow wrong or taboo and if you do it you must be weird.
I have been in the bondage scene for over 10 years and have met a whole lot of people who are into the bondage scene, I have had many partners over the years and have found that the majority of people interested in the bondage life have never found a person to share with or to embarrassed to reach out.
Even though I have had a lot of bondage encounters of the years, I always come back to self-bondage, as my main love.
First I believe when most start getting curious a bought bondage they fantasize to a point and try a little bondage on them selves, I started this way.
Even when you have a partner, the scene never goes like you thought it would, I have met men who said they were into bondage and when the time came they didn’t know what they were doing and only wanted to fuck you and have a beer. I believe bondage play is 80% mind game and fantasy (you must be put in the correct frame of mind to make it work.)
Most partners seam to rush to much for me, I like to take it slow and build up to the climax.
My current friend has learned how I like to do bondage and builds the scene as he goes, and its wonderful. But I still go back to self-bondage. Why!
1) I can do it anywhere and anyplace I want.
2) I can choose the time to start and finish.
3) I choose what will happen to me and the duration of the session, I think 2 hours is good.
4) The bondage is real and what I wanted.
5) I am alone with my thoughts and fantasies.
6) When I am finished I take a shower and whatever at my pace.
I love to talk with others on any bondage subject, I am not selling anything, you don’t pay me for a web site, and I am not looking to hook up, I love to help people both men and women venture into the bondage world.
I have done a lot of self-bondage and can advise you on the best and most safe way to play.
E-mail me anytime!
Bound to you!
Cindy
Thanks for your acceptance to a newbe
Thanks for your acceptance to a newbe
If your not playing on the edge, your taking up to much space...............................
Play safe and have fun...Now Where did I put that damn Key!!!!!
CINDY123@BAK.RR.COM
Play safe and have fun...Now Where did I put that damn Key!!!!!
CINDY123@BAK.RR.COM
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