Is vibration a part of you SB?
Posted: 16 Sep 2021, 19:29
Personally I have to have a butt plug, vibrating dildo as mandatory, sometimes a clit buzzer. Extremely rare a session starts without 2 or 3 devices & never without any of them.
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Or both tooShannon SteelSlave wrote:SB has its own meaning to everyone. Some do it to relax, others to excite.
More often than not. After all the excitement, all my energy expended, I feel relaxed.AllieXBow wrote:Or both tooShannon SteelSlave wrote:SB has its own meaning to everyone. Some do it to relax, others to excite.
How long are your sessions? Speaking of losing interest after lets say 10 min, when you finish once, does the vibrator prevent that? Does it make you indefinitely turned on? Or does it make you finish a second time?Onixpected wrote:Years back when I started self-bondage without acknowledging what it really was, the ties were simple, and no vibration included (I was like idk 12, 13?...).
But once I experimented with vibration, it started became a must for most of my ties. My spreadeagles became far more entertaining and it seems like it doubles the excitement. It also helps me spend bigger times tied, as I don't feel "bored" like after 10 minutes or after I cum once.
I can do 30min-1hour for shorter ones, and I can do 2 hours for longer ones. But it all depends on many aspects:AllieXBow wrote:How long are your sessions?Onixpected wrote:Years back when I started self-bondage without acknowledging what it really was, the ties were simple, and no vibration included (I was like idk 12, 13?...).
But once I experimented with vibration, it started became a must for most of my ties. My spreadeagles became far more entertaining and it seems like it doubles the excitement. It also helps me spend bigger times tied, as I don't feel "bored" like after 10 minutes or after I cum once.
Well, the vibrator does indeed make me "busy" for most of the time. This is because I'm far more experienced now, and I don't cum at the beginning.AllieXBow wrote: Speaking of losing interest after lets say 10 min, when you finish once, does the vibrator prevent that? Does it make you indefinitely turned on? Or does it make you finish a second time?
Interesting thing at the end. By frustration factor do you mean the feeling of arousement ends but you are still bound? I did an overnight session where I got into a balltie and tossed the key so sunlight would be needed to find it. After a while I was a bit bored. And then my back started itchy quite badly, but I couldn't reach it. I tried to get out and end the session but to no avail. It was unpleasant but also added to the helplessness factor. I heard someone say it becomes real bondage when you actually want to get out, but can't.Onixpected wrote:I can do 30min-1hour for shorter ones, and I can do 2 hours for longer ones. But it all depends on many aspects:AllieXBow wrote:How long are your sessions?Onixpected wrote:Years back when I started self-bondage without acknowledging what it really was, the ties were simple, and no vibration included (I was like idk 12, 13?...).
But once I experimented with vibration, it started became a must for most of my ties. My spreadeagles became far more entertaining and it seems like it doubles the excitement. It also helps me spend bigger times tied, as I don't feel "bored" like after 10 minutes or after I cum once.
- -How long my family will be away from home? This is key, and what limits me the most, living with family.
- -What is the position I want to do? If it is spreadeagle or a variant (my favourite position), I can easilly do for long periods of time. If it is frogtie, or hogtie or any kind of standing scenario, I do some of the shorter times.
My dream scenario is to do the overnight spreadeagle, but I can't do that right now living with family. Some months away from now tho... i will train progressively increasing time through some sessions to finally do the overnight.
- -The equipment I want to use: Nipple clamps can't stay long for more than 30 minutes, even though I can hold them for more, I don't do it. So, if I'm doing spreadeagle with clamps, the time is 30 minutes, but without them can be 2 hours.
Well, the vibrator does indeed make me "busy" for most of the time. This is because I'm far more experienced now, and I don't cum at the beginning.AllieXBow wrote: Speaking of losing interest after lets say 10 min, when you finish once, does the vibrator prevent that? Does it make you indefinitely turned on? Or does it make you finish a second time?
We men find more difficult to have multiple orgasms than women do, specially when we do cum. Naturally after I orgasm and cum there's this period when I feel dirty, but I trained to let's say "last longer"
Also, for me, it's part of the fun that frustration factor of that time of being bound and "done" untill the arousement comes again.
Yes, that's it. That can happen sooner or later, it depends on how much you can hold the urge. From my experience, the more sessions you do you will control it the better over time. As a man, the more you can endure without cumming on your orgasms, the more intense and pleasurable it gets. Then you cum, you're frustrated for a bit, bound, feeling dirty, and eventually the arousement returns and repeat. There's nothing you can do, youre bound and helpless until the session ends.AllieXBow wrote: Interesting thing at the end. By frustration factor do you mean the feeling of arousement ends but you are still bound?
The sunlight escape method is a thing I also consider at the time I will do the overnight. It can't miss, the sun will always rise. But of course, backup is important, so that method can be the backup for the main release.AllieXBow wrote: I did an overnight session where I got into a balltie and tossed the key so sunlight would be needed to find it. After a while I was a bit bored. And then my back started itchy quite badly, but I couldn't reach it. I tried to get out and end the session but to no avail. It was unpleasant but also added to the helplessness factor. I heard someone say it becomes real bondage when you actually want to get out, but can't.
Yeah, I will try it with no problem. It's only a matter of time untill I live alone and therefore be able to do sessions more regularly and longer sessions than 2 hours. Spreadeagle is a position I am really comfortable with.AllieXBow wrote: I hope you can try the overnight spread eagle soon! Have you tried an escapable version? Where its like a carabiner instead of a padlock or whatever you use. Same physical feeling but able to release easily.
Yeah, what matters is that we can have our fun and the "punishment" just adds even more motivation to stay!Shannon SteelSlave wrote:You're well disciplined, like me. I like to make it difficult to escape, but ultimately, I know that everything is held together somehow in a way that can be taken apart again. But doing so in my games is called "breaking bondage" which includes, but is not limited to : breaking the bond, deconstructing a lock device, failing to secure keys, or forgetting to lock a lock. The severity of the punishment is based on the actual offense, and there is no "trading", like deciding to break a device and just accept the punishment in exchange.