What to wear for selfbondage?

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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby kinbaku » 26 Jun 2020, 13:10

Andrea Loves Bondage wrote:The chair was set up in the basement, and the keys to all the other locks were up two flights of stairs, which had to be negotiated blind while wobbling on heels. At the time I had 6” pumps, so I quickly lost the heels on the trek upstairs. It would be so much more fun in unremovable heels.

I have already prepared the chair in the basement. :twisted:
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby BlindMike » 27 Jun 2020, 09:32

gaby wrote:Ok. I could see to several of us like to wear lingerie, high heels, stockigns...

Anyone who like to wear boots in selfbondage? :?:


Hell yes, boots are essential.
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 27 Jun 2020, 14:12

BlindMike wrote:
gaby wrote:Ok. I could see to several of us like to wear lingerie, high heels, stockigns...

Anyone who like to wear boots in selfbondage? :?:


Hell yes, boots are essential.


Yes indeed. The only problem for me is that ropes damage the boots...and I like ropes too much :cry: :lol:
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby bound_jenny » 27 Jun 2020, 23:26

BlindMike wrote:
gaby wrote:Ok. I could see to several of us like to wear lingerie, high heels, stockigns...

Anyone who like to wear boots in selfbondage? :?:


Hell yes, boots are essential.


You bet your boots they're essential. Nice high boots, at the very least to the knees, better yet up to the thighs, and sky-high stiletto heels. :drool:

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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 28 Jun 2020, 19:53

bound_jenny wrote:You bet your boots they're essential. Nice high boots, at the very least to the knees, better yet up to the thighs, and sky-high stiletto heels. :drool:

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...yes, stiletto heels, very important 8)
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Arthur » 01 Jul 2020, 00:33

Leotard (turtleneck, long sleeves) & tights. Collar locking the zipper on the leotard. Almost like being naked, and not as cold. The material helps prevent marks due to cuffs or rope. Too restrictive for my chastity cage but get much the same effect with an athletic cup.
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby TNTBound » 01 Jul 2020, 13:58

wearing gloves can make for a fun time escaping, since its much harder to get a key into a lock if you can hardly feel that your holding a key in the first place! a nice heavy pair of rubber gloves does the trick nicely. another way is with a zentai suit. the spandex gloves are so slippery it makes grabbing anything 2x as hard.
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 01 Jul 2020, 21:21

Arthur wrote:Leotard (turtleneck, long sleeves) & tights. Collar locking the zipper on the leotard. Almost like being naked, and not as cold. The material helps prevent marks due to cuffs or rope. Too restrictive for my chastity cage but get much the same effect with an athletic cup.


A tight leotard is always sexy :wink:
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 01 Jul 2020, 21:23

TNTBound wrote:wearing gloves can make for a fun time escaping, since its much harder to get a key into a lock if you can hardly feel that your holding a key in the first place! a nice heavy pair of rubber gloves does the trick nicely. another way is with a zentai suit. the spandex gloves are so slippery it makes grabbing anything 2x as hard.


I hadn't thought of that but I like long gloves, they help reduce the marks ropes leave on my wrist :D
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby hogfan-sub » 12 Jul 2020, 08:32

I always start from naked. Interestingly, I frequently think of myself as "wearing" my rope, especially a good and tight karada/crotch harness which is usually my first port of call. On occasion however, I will wear a pair of tights/pantyhose. I love the look of them and the ever-present, light feel of them against the bed sheets and also the curious feeling of "self-humiliation" that wearing them tends to give me. Also, on the very rare occasions that I don't gag myself for a session, I feel myself to be somehow not fully "dressed" :gag:
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Stephanie85 » 17 Jul 2020, 23:56

I’m sure this is the way for many people but dressing up is a big part of self bondage for me anyway.
Sometimes it could be a skirt with stockings sometimes shorts with the high socks.
I never go naked, I prefer to have something sexy on.
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 01 Aug 2020, 18:11

hogfan-sub wrote:I always start from naked. Interestingly, I frequently think of myself as "wearing" my rope, especially a good and tight karada/crotch harness which is usually my first port of call. On occasion however, I will wear a pair of tights/pantyhose. I love the look of them and the ever-present, light feel of them against the bed sheets and also the curious feeling of "self-humiliation" that wearing them tends to give me. Also, on the very rare occasions that I don't gag myself for a session, I feel myself to be somehow not fully "dressed" :gag:


Well, this is an interesting and original way of being dressed :wink:
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 01 Aug 2020, 18:14

Stephanie85 wrote:I’m sure this is the way for many people but dressing up is a big part of self bondage for me anyway.
Sometimes it could be a skirt with stockings sometimes shorts with the high socks.
I never go naked, I prefer to have something sexy on.


I understand you. I enjoy more selfbondage if I am dressed. For me it is an important part of the play. :)
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Shannon SteelSlave » 18 Aug 2020, 02:45

Shannon SteelSlave wrote:I've been able to create ways to hold my shoes on, in most cases. The only 2 I can think of that are not lockable are my flats, and my studded "barely there" strappies with the toe strap and ankle strap that attach from the back. I can always slide my heel out to either side and pull my toes right out.

Got it. Wrap the ankle cuff around your arch, and loop the thin strap around the ankle.
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby kinbaku » 18 Aug 2020, 12:23

Shannon SteelSlave wrote:Got it. Wrap the ankle cuff around your arch, and loop the thin strap around the ankle.

Congrats :!:
Personally, I would connect the thin strap that runs behind your ankle with 2 zip-ties - to the left and right side of your foot - to the strap of your shoe that sits around your ankle.
If I (unconsciously :wink: ) not have tightened the strap enough, I cannot slide it off the heel.
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