What to wear for selfbondage?

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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 06 Jun 2020, 12:05

BoundInKasugai wrote:
gaby wrote:Normally I do not wear colored high heels, just black ones, but you look so gorgeous in your pink sandals. Maybe I will be encouraged to buy a pair like yours 8)

:oops: Thanks! I almost didn't post because I didn't like the picture. Something about the angle. And I think they work better with white or light pink stockings. I get what you mean about black heels, though, they look classy (unless you combine them with white stockings :mrgreen: ). But it is good to have some variation, for when the mood takes you and you want to look cute...


It seems that you like pantyhose and stockings too. You have nice legs and they look gorgeous in stockings. I also wear a lot of nylon whem I am into bondage.
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Onixpected » 10 Jun 2020, 15:30

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Onixpected wrote:Out of curiosity, where you use to order your pairs?

It depends really, the black sandals come from Amazon. But I also use several local marketplaces and AliExpress for my shopping. PM me if you want the details of anything in particular. BiK.


Yea, sure :) I quite liked some of your equipment :D
One of these days when I get some more time tho
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Shannon SteelSlave » 15 Jun 2020, 17:15

Shannon SteelSlave wrote:I've been able to create ways to hold my shoes on, in most cases. The only 2 I can think of that are not lockable are my flats, and my studded "barely there" strappies with the toe strap and ankle strap that attach from the back. I can always slide my heel out to either side and pull my toes right out.

Maybe I could sew in a loop on the inside back of the flat shoe, and run a leather cuff through and lock it. I'll post if I do this, as I have bought another pair of flats. I might be reviewing them as well, mainly for the size run difference.
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 18 Jun 2020, 15:43

Ok. I could see to several of us like to wear lingerie, high heels, stockigns...

Anyone who like to wear boots in selfbondage? :?:
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Onixpected » 21 Jun 2020, 20:31

gaby wrote:Ok. I could see to several of us like to wear lingerie, high heels, stockigns...

Anyone who like to wear boots in selfbondage? :?:


Based on what I like, which consists in all of what you wrote in the first phrase, yeah I'd love to, if I didn't live with so many people at home for now :(
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 23 Jun 2020, 23:49

Onixpected wrote:Based on what I like, which consists in all of what you wrote in the first phrase, yeah I'd love to, if I didn't live with so many people at home for now :(


I hope that this situation is something eventual and that you can find a space so that you can enjoy everything that you like. :)
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Andrea Loves Bondage » 24 Jun 2020, 02:17

For self-bondage my clothing list includes a Rago open bottom all-in-one body shaper, panties, stockings, a tight fitting slip, and knee length dress, or tight skirt and tight sweater. Shoes are a must, and right now would be 5” pumps.

Under the clothes a few items are added. Number one is a Doc Johnson harness with an 8” penis dildo attached. This is is inserted in the anus. I’d like to try a 10” penis dildo, but this may be getting too long for the anal passage. The other item(s) are nipple clamps which are covered by my large breast forms. Going forward they would be placed before putting on my new breast plate. This along with the tight fitting slip and tight dress or sweater would make extracting the nipple clamps early virtually impossible.

For shoes I’d like to try a 6” ankle strap shoe with a padlock (this would make kicking the shoes off impossible).

For bondage, leather ankle and wrist cuffs with padlocks for whatever type of bondage I’d devise, and then a gag with over the head and chin straps as well as the around the head strap. Makes ejecting the gag ball from the mouth impossible. For obvious reasons any bondage should be for standing up or sitting upright as any reclined position could easily result in choking issues with such a gag.

The icing on the cake, a total deprivation hood with no openings other than a small air hole near the nose. This hood has three straps, around the neck, over the head and around the eyes, all with padlocks. Wearing ear plugs also helps with the sense of total deprivation, although the padded hood does a pretty good job by itself. Daylight, none gets in. This is the ultimate hood.

A few years ago I did a session with this get-up, tying myself to an arm chair. The legs were clamped but not locked onto the ends of a spreader bar placed behind the front legs of the chair. Similarly the hands were locked to a spreader bar inserted between my body and under the armrests (for me it was a tight fit). The final lock was an ice lock, but while I had hoped to achieve a 1 1/2 to 2 hour session, the ice lock released after 45 minutes.

The chair was set up in the basement, and the keys to all the other locks were up two flights of stairs, which had to be negotiated blind while wobbling on heels. At the time I had 6” pumps, so I quickly lost the heels on the trek upstairs. It would be so much more fun in unremovable heels.

I’d like to try a 2-3 hour session if I can find a safe and reliable release mechanism. The sense of total helplessness is exquisite. Might be one for a bondage partner.
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby AshleyBoots » 24 Jun 2020, 08:24

gaby wrote:Ok. I could see to several of us like to wear lingerie, high heels, stockigns...

Anyone who like to wear boots in selfbondage? :?:



Always.. i mean really always.. BOOTS :love:
And then a nice skirt, top, corset perhaps, and then all the leather restraints :gag: :love:
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Onixpected » 24 Jun 2020, 15:47

gaby wrote:
Onixpected wrote:Based on what I like, which consists in all of what you wrote in the first phrase, yeah I'd love to, if I didn't live with so many people at home for now :(


I hope that this situation is something eventual and that you can find a space so that you can enjoy everything that you like. :)


Thanks! :D
yeah, it kinda sucks with so much people at home, I can rarely play and only with basic rope equipment and some stockings. I can't also buy equipment because I can be caught easilly.
Although I'm finishing uni, so when I move out, I'll be able to buy the equipment I want like leather cuffs, heels, vibrators, plugs, etc...
Out of curiosity, my fav position is spreadeagle, wearing stockings ofc! (and heels in the future) :twisted:
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Shannon SteelSlave » 24 Jun 2020, 16:25

Welcome to Bound Anna, Andrea
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 24 Jun 2020, 20:10

AshleyBoots wrote:Always.. i mean really always.. BOOTS :love:
And then a nice skirt, top, corset perhaps, and then all the leather restraints :gag: :love:


Nice. What kind of boots do you prefer? OTK boots? Knee high boots? Other?
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby gaby » 24 Jun 2020, 20:16

Onixpected wrote:Out of curiosity, my fav position is spreadeagle, wearing stockings ofc! (and heels in the future) :twisted:


I also like spreadeagle but only if my husband tied me up. A long time ago I was experimenting with that position on my own and things almost went wrong (my fault :lol: ).
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby AshleyBoots » 25 Jun 2020, 08:27

gaby wrote:
AshleyBoots wrote:Always.. i mean really always.. BOOTS :love:
And then a nice skirt, top, corset perhaps, and then all the leather restraints :gag: :love:


Nice. What kind of boots do you prefer? OTK boots? Knee high boots? Other?



Ankle boots, mid calf, but knee high mostly.
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby Onixpected » 25 Jun 2020, 14:22

gaby wrote:
Onixpected wrote:Out of curiosity, my fav position is spreadeagle, wearing stockings ofc! (and heels in the future) :twisted:


I also like spreadeagle but only if my husband tied me up. A long time ago I was experimenting with that position on my own and things almost went wrong (my fault :lol: ).


Oh ye, it's a position where things can go wrong very easilly, depending also on what do you use as restraints. As I have so many people home, I do use some rope to tie to the bed posts. But I'm about to buy some leather cuffs and get some chains and use padlocks to secure them. I'll progressively do some train to someday being able to try to being spreadeagled for the night and just being able to release myself with daylight! ;)
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Re: What to wear for selfbondage?

Postby cerenaselfbound » 25 Jun 2020, 14:53

Never been a fan of thongs so it's knickers, sometimes a bra depending on my fantasy of being abducted by men who want to look at my tits. Either stockings & suspenders or ripped tights depending on weather temp. Sometimes a mini skirt or long tea shirt which just covers my hips. Always my Black leather knee length boots. So no fetish wear as mostly I live out my abduction fantasy of being kidnapped from the street or tied up by burglars.
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