What is your current/was your last: selfbondage experience?

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My last experience was very simple; just a range of different handcuffs. I've been taking a lot of pictures and video for https://www.patreon.com/watchesandcuffs - been fun!
Links to my Patreon with self-bondage pictures and videos, my erotic stories on Amazon, and my Fiverr where you can order custom erotica: https://linktr.ee/jessicashackled
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just got done taking a shower after playing around with my vacbed. there really is nothing like it, squirming around in that tight latex embrace. :D
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I've been building to a very naughty bondage session for a bit - over a week of caged during the day, w/ tease and denial when I have a spare moment. Needless to say - pretty aroused. Then I came up with a game - actually, meant to use it to help me keep the browsing of porn w/ teasing sessions to a shorter time. If I want 5 minutes to enjoy the naughty images of my choosing, I have to flip a coin - heads I get 5 minutes, tails I don't ... and I get a punishment that I put up before the coin flip, as collaterol.

My intent for this bondage was to make it a nice little predicament - tie some stinging nettle into a little sheet, which is connected to me by a little rope around the neck - the nettles are held away from my body by a small rope run through an eye-bolt; I have to hold the rope in my mouth. Hands are tied behind me, secured so I'm stuck in-place, kneeling w/ my pretty heels spread wide apart by my favorite spreader bar. I REALLY want something naughty and possibly painful, hence the setup.

I finally collected the nettles (a whole other story! lol - might have forced myself to bike out to a park in gender-bending clothes, only to find that what I thought were nettles weren't! So then I had to go to a different park! Soooo wonderfully embarassing! ... :oops: :twisted: ). But I'm just soooo aroused that I wanted to play ... with really painful results. :gag:

So now, not only will I be bound in that predicament, I'll also have icy hot on my nipples and nethers, a most unpleasant jack hammer dildo in the back door (w/ just a bit of toothpaste ... *gulp*), and when my ice lock FINALLY melts, I will have to go outside to obtain the keys to unlock everything. :shock: ... this could be rough ... and delicious :twisted:
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I have trouble cleaning, and I only recently started using rope and restraints and toys. I’ve also been trying to last longer in bondage. Maybe work up to an overnight someday.

So to motivate myself to finish my chores I set up a game. I set a timer for fifteen minute increments, two hours total. I started with a diamond rope harness under clothes, and every fifteen minutes I added something— strip, gag(my fav part :gag: ), heels, shackles, etc.— the goal was to make it harder. I listed out What I would be adding in what order before hand so I wouldn’t cheat, along with a list of punishments.

After the first hour I had to start rolling a dice, and the roll dealt the punishment. The tamest was losing time off the total I had left. The scariest was standing in front of an open window for a minute :oops: . The surprisingly enjoyable one was flogging— didn’t know I liked it lol :whip: . The one I regret a little was moving taking out the trash to the end of the to do list. I ended up shuffling out there, heart pounding, near dark under the longest jacket I could shimmy into with a mask over my gag. I couldn’t lift the bag to toss it in, so left it by the dumpster. Then I finally got to go inside and cum… after completing every punishment because I did not finish in the time limit lol.

Went back out to toss the trash correctly, and ran into a neighbor, and I’m pretty side he saw the marks on my wrists and breasts even in the low lighting. I had only gone back out in a tank top and shorts. :oops:

Worked though, and I no longer dread spring cleaning. Super fun! :D Honesty getting a little horny remembering. I imagine this would be easily adaptable into a game with a partner too. :)
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Welcome to Bound Anna, Rose.
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Welcome Rose93. Nice adventure you had with this and thanks for dealing it with us.
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just got out of the shower after figuring out the trick to my vacbed. i found that if i have the neck opening go from just under my chin to my forhead, that i cant wiggle and break the seal till the timer shuts the vacuum off. so much fun, but definitely dont do it alone. you wont be able to escape if something goes wrong.
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My last play time was a couple of weeks ago. I am still working from home at the moment but I don’t think it will be long before I have to go back :(
I bought myself a couple of new work suits for when I do have to go back so I thought hmm I feel like being naughty with one of my old skirt suits. I got dressed up just like I would for work but left my knickers off and instead of tights I put on a nice pair of lace top stockings, holdups but I thought I wanted to wear my garter belt too. So all black including my underwear, no knickers and a white blouse so I could see the shadow of my black lace bra. Of course I would never wear a black bra under a white blouse in the office or no knickers lol.
Before I put on my bra I played with my nipples so they were nice and hard before putting on my nipple clips. Not clamps because they actually really hurt me but clips can be tight but not hurt too much.. I then set myself a task to write a long email. I didn’t want to orgasm while I was doing this just wanted a challenge and to tease myself. So my big plug it is then.
I decided also to take off my skirt too. Instead a nice tight crotch rope to help keep that big plugg inside me.
I sat in my leather office chair and after wiggling about a bit too get comfortable I tied the heels of my shoes to the chair base, it’s a swivel chair so I tied the rope around my heels so it went across the front of my feet and then around the back of the base thing and then I tied it to my other foot. This meant I would not have any rope marks on my ankles.
Next I tied a rope around the back of my chair and across my chest to keep me pinned to the chair. This took a few attempts and was a little frustrating. I then put on a pair of leather wrist cuffs so I was restricted but could type.
It took me ages to compose the email and lots and lots of squirming around. You see I also have a thick leather belt I use to strap my knees together again no rope marks. It’s lovely and tight and means I can squirm but can’t really stand up that easily which means all I can do to get some comfort from the big plug in my bottom is to squirm around. I’m getting hot and frustrated with the leather making me hot and sweaty down there. I could see my reflection in a little makeup mirror I keep on my desk at home, I saw the sweat and frustration building up on my face. Little beads of it ran down my face down my neck into my cleavage. I was getting really quite horny now and my nipples were really sensitive from the clips.

FINALLY I finished and clicked send. I untied myself and well how should I say it? I rewarded myself in a most unladylike way :wink:
The fun part is that was a real email I sent to someone lol
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Bridget Jones used to skew that professional line.
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Might be off topic, but might this interest you? https://www.boundanna.com/html/en_scen_ ... chair.html
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Shannon SteelSlave wrote:Bridget Jones used to skew that professional line.
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Might be off topic, but might this interest you? https://www.boundanna.com/html/en_scen_ ... chair.html
Oh! That is almost the same as what I did. Except I was a little more dressed than she is.
I have been trying to think of ways to make working from home more fun. I don’t think I could get any work done with this suggestion but it does look fun.
One day after finishing work I put on my ball gag my hand cuffs and ankle cuffs then walked into my shower or should I say hobbled. It’s hard to walk with ankle cuffs on with the little chain but a nice tight skirt really makes it more interesting lol. So hard not to wiggle your hips.
I got completely soaked and love that feeling when I am all dressed smart and professional. I have done this before lots of times.
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A variation on my outside bondage trip. Loin cloth, leg cuffs (12 inch chain), ball gag, ear plugs, leather blindfold and wrists manacled behind.
This is where adding the earplug and blindfold made my task more exhilerating :) Normally I can see the hook with the key on and go straight to it, just turn around crouch down and unhook it :wink: With a blindfold on I could not see the key hung on the hook on the wall :!: Not only did I have to feel my way to the door, then open it, but I had to feel my way to the hook with the key.
This took me a good deal longer than I had planned on :? and feeling for the key was nerve wracking, as once I had passed through the doorway I became acutely aware that as I could not see and with much reduced hearing, I would no know if anyone else was about :roll: , I fumbled behind me to locate the hook with the key, this also took more time than I had expected :roll:
As soon as I got the key I fumbled it into the lock, released the left manacle and lifted the blindfold. To my relief there were no signs of life, but as I hobbled towards the door I saw lights turning into the close :facepalm: , with my heart pumping I hopped through the open door and closed it just as the headlights swept across the closed door :facepalm:
A very close call :shock: As my heart rate settled back down I removed the blindfold and earplugs and set about removing the rest of my restraints :!: .
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I've just had a great session, attached to a post in my garage with bungee chords round my waist and between my legs and a leather belt round my chest. My wrists were chained together with a padlock which was also attached to a ring on the front of my tight crotch harness.
I couldn't move much but when I did the leather belt creaked which added to the experience. The keys to the padlock were on the end of a strong piece of string the other end of which was tied securely above me. They were held up by some ice so I couldn't get at them until it melted and they dropped which took round 30-40 minutes.
It was fantastic and I'll be doing it again this week.
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Last night, at around 1:00 am I decided that I needed to put more effort into storing my gear properly.
Thanks to Covid, no one has been to my place for months, so there were gags, clamps and bits of rope strewn around the apartment.

So I put on Zentai suit (naturally, as one does) and started going through my treasure chest in order to make room and sort some items.

And what do you know, 20 minutes later - through no fault of my own, I want to add! - I ended up like this:
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Can you relate?
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Bound Whore wrote:And what do you know, 20 minutes later - through no fault of my own, I want to add! - I ended up like this:
Basically, it was accidental bondage. :mrgreen:

Looks like fun. 8)

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My most recent session was mostly nipple electro-torture that was cut short by too little ice in my release method.

*very tight spread-eagle face up on bed
using suspension cuffs to get it as tight as possible while still comfortable. using two buckle tie-down cargo straps to create a one-way tighten setup. This is all behind an ice-sock release on each arm. Legs were also fixed to bedposts via ankle cuffs. Waist was fixed via rope to the foot of the bed. The point was to put pressure on the waist instead of ankles when tightening the arm straps.

*used Parker's ball separator tie instead of any cock-ring devices. I find this more effective and quicker to apply. I found it in an PDF, "tonyBuff presentation bcbt handout" which should find the PDF. Title inside was "Bondage for CBT"

*used two bi-polar nipple clamps connected to an el-cheapo SM Player box from aliexpress. I had it on auto.
[first, these came not as bipolar, I ended up soldering to make these bipolar salvaging some other wire from another unused device. second, auto mode is required because I wanted very close to my threshold, but I can't set up that way b/c it's too painful to begin. auto alternates among three programs, two of which aren't near as painful. This allows me to up the intensity, giving me time to complete the setup with the unit unreachable. I'd like to experiment with other power units I have, but their lowest settings are too high for me to get started. I should invest time creating clamps with more area.]

*used USB glans vibrators with 3 bullets from aliexpress. I've used the 5 bullet version also and don't find it more effective. there are several programs. I don't remember which I used. It doesn't matter too much... I blow my load usually when the most intense estim program begins.

*used a harness mask with the ball removed. I would prefer the ball, but the way it was attached prevented the mask from fitting properly in my chin area. Aliexpress doesn't list it clearly enough to find, so I can't give it exactly except via links which will not age well]

*used a vibrating anal plug with electric shock pulse that includes a remote control. It's a good item, but mostly irrelevant in this session.

So I set the player on auto, waited until the 1st stage (of 3) passed, cranked up the intensity to where I wanted it, put it out of reach. I've done this exact session 4 times I think. This one wasn't that great because my ice-lock came loose well before the 15min timer expired on the SM player box. The first and 3rd were the best. The 3rd was by far the most torturous. I was screaming, or attempting to whenever the 1st program started. That session left the bed soaked with sweat.

I've refined several aspects of this session (many don't involve nipple torture), and am basically happy with the rest of the setup except for two things:
-the glans vibrators don't have a long enough wire for me to set a program and then move the control out of reach, so it has to play the program while I finish setting everything else up. it would be better if I could activate it after the estim starts, select the program, and then put it out of reach.
-my right hand gets exhausted. I'm not sure the reason for this-- maybe I need to force one notch tighter before starting. Exhausted is all I can think to describe it, almost painfully so, but it goes away within just a couple minutes after release. never turns blue or anything. not sure what's happening exactly or how to prevent it.
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