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Hi all, I'm wondering if anyone likes to watch others in self-bondage. I'm sure many of us watch self-bondage video clips. However, what about watching someone in real time, like on Skype or other video app? if so, do you like to watch people get into their self-bondage, or just have them turn the video camera on once they are all set up? Do you like watching predicaments and tortures in self-bondage, versus someone who is just tied up and struggling; or both?

I'm a self-bondage exhibitionist and trying to gauge interest in who might want to watch. I've used xToys and usually have someone who comes into my session and watches, but it is limited.

Looking for thoughts, opinions, and suggestions.
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It's been a staple part of my SB life. My preference is to see other women gag & tie themselves, the stricter the better.
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cerenaselfbound wrote:It's been a staple part of my SB life. My preference is to see other women gag & tie themselves, the stricter the better.
Oh please tell me more. Where do you watch them? Is this something you do privately with them, or do they show themselves on public webcams?

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Porhub is a site I go to, though I do like to watch videos of myself after I've tied, chained & gagged myself. I always push the boundaries to the limit where it takes me a long time to get free, usually hours.
Over the years I've gone too far & really been stuck unable to do anything but try & keep calm & continue to at least get a wrist free. My self bondage always involves laying on my back stretched out spread eagle on my double bed, as I love to feel vulnerable. During those times I've always cum countless times & soaked my knickers, it really pushes the erotic buttons for me.
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cerenaselfbound wrote:Porhub is a site I go to, though I do like to watch videos of myself after I've tied, chained & gagged myself. I always push the boundaries to the limit where it takes me a long time to get free, usually hours.
That sounds wonderful. I do watch a lot of self-bondage videos; I usually view xHamster.com. I would love to see yours, if you have posted them anywhere.

Specifically, I would like people to watch me in real time, such as on Skype or some other video chat service. They could watch with their camera off, or they could turn on voice or also video too. An extra excitement would be if someone could control my remote toys. Like you, I crave feeling helpless and vulnerable, and when someone can tease me and edge me as erotic torture, that makes me crazy.

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I can watch porn about it, but I have never practiced watching someone on Skype or in any other live chat, only videos on porn sites
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Welcome to BoundAnna, seylen.
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Perhaps I'm in the minority here but I don't watch pron or anything while tied. I just enjoy the sensation with no other input unless of course my partner is playing with me.
That's my excuse and I'm sticking to it.
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bounddosster wrote:... unless of course my partner is playing with me.
Isn't that porn enough. And so close by you ... and so adapted to what you feel yourself. :facepalm: :rofl:
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I am another person who does not watch videos. I rarely even watch a YouTube video. For me, text information is preferable, but still images are nice when words aren't good enough for something.
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I appreciate all the honest responses. I just want to point out, though, that I was curious about people wanting to watch someone live, in real time ... like if I got into self-bondage and let people watch me on Skype or some other cam chat service. Given the responses so far, though, I'm guessing... not so much for some reason.
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I am sorry you are feeling discouraged. What I am gathering here is that the members who have responded mostly don't like watching choreographed sessions with actors playing the participants, as in production pornographic videos.
You can use this thread to announce a cam show. viewtopic.php?f=14&t=1727
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SelfBondageTorment wrote:I appreciate all the honest responses. I just want to point out, though, that I was curious about people wanting to watch someone live, in real time ... like if I got into self-bondage and let people watch me on Skype or some other cam chat service. Given the responses so far, though, I'm guessing... not so much for some reason.
I understood that you were asking about a live stream of self-bondage. My response tried to explain that I don’t have any interest in videos in general, but I assumed you would realize live-stream (a specific video format) would have the same lack of interest with me. My apologies for the confusion.

I am not sure about accessing self-bondage livestream. My privacy is very important to me and giving out contact information to do video chat with a complete stranger will not happen. I feel like others are likely going to do the same. If you have the solution to this problem solved, then more people will be interested.

Another problem is that people are picky about the content they want. For me, I don’t want full female nudity and male nudity is even more offensive. Some content on this site bothers me and I have learned to avoid it. Others are just as picky or even more so, but use a completely different set of expectations. Some people enjoy seeing a male ball sack nailed down to a board which is well beyond my hard limits of acceptable content. To each their own.

In my mind, more information from you could help people understand the content you want to share. Do you spend a lengthy time on securing your ropes in some special way or do you just have a pair of handcuffs to keep your hands behind your back? How do you identify, present, and show? What clothing choices have you made? How entertaining is your struggle? I know that my bondage experience with another person bores the top so much that a kitchen timer is required to alert the top when the scene is over and I need their attention.

Having said all this, I would reconsider my decision if you are offering content that really sparks my curiosity and offer me assurance that there will be no offensive content and that my privacy will be protected. Then, we would have to negotiate a show time and duration.
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