Discrete Bondage to Be Worn Under Clothes

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Hi wonderful people!

Anyone have good techniques they've used/thought about for inescapable bondage that can be worn under clothes in public?

Thanks in advance!
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Karada/shibari harnesses around the chest are pretty discreet. Any chastity device that does not bulge. Nipple clamps and plugs can be fun. Any clothes, like "fun-derwear" are possible. Losing popularity but still believable in some areas is a gag under a protective mask. Risking it would be a vibrating or shocking device, especially remote controlled by random or another person.
Maybe someone has adventures of their own they can post to inspire? I personally find this type of play too distracting myself.
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Shannon SteelSlave wrote:Karada/shibari harnesses around the chest are pretty discreet. Any chastity device that does not bulge. Nipple clamps and plugs can be fun. Any clothes, like "fun-derwear" are possible. Losing popularity but still believable in some areas is a gag under a protective mask. Risking it would be a vibrating or shocking device, especially remote controlled by random or another person.
Maybe someone has adventures of their own they can post to inspire? I personally find this type of play too distracting myself.
Thank you! Any good Karada/shibari that you'd recommend? I always worry about long periods and getting blood supply issues, etc. I have never heard of fun-derwear -- will check out!
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HellsBells wrote:
Shannon SteelSlave wrote:Karada/shibari harnesses around the chest are pretty discreet. Any chastity device that does not bulge. Nipple clamps and plugs can be fun. Any clothes, like "fun-derwear" are possible. Losing popularity but still believable in some areas is a gag under a protective mask. Risking it would be a vibrating or shocking device, especially remote controlled by random or another person.
Maybe someone has adventures of their own they can post to inspire? I personally find this type of play too distracting myself.
Thank you! Any good Karada/shibari that you'd recommend? I always worry about long periods and getting blood supply issues, etc. I have never heard of fun-derwear -- will check out!
I would always recommend being able to find a restroom to disrobe any toys that become too much too handle, and carrying a plastic bag to store them in if removed in some cases.
Try searching "self karada harness" to find videos and images to help.
"Funderwear" = a word I heard watching "Rescue Me". I think Denis Leary was admonishing his daughter for inappropriate choice of clothes. I would comprehend it to mean any kind of exotic feeling fabric, sexy style, or maybe one of those pairs that has funny words on it, at any rate, that one would not want to be in an accident while wearing. (Remember Moms telling you to always wear clean underwear in case you're in an accident) If the paramedics/doctors would get a shock or laugh from seeing it whilst examining you, then I guess that might be "funderwear".
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HellsBells wrote:I always worry about long periods and getting blood supply issues
It is not necessary to tighten it very much. The main thing is that you feel the ropes and that they stay in place so that they do not chafe. In particular, the inside of the thighs is sensitive to constriction of blood vessels and chafing. Therefore, first practice at home with the right pressure that you can give in that place before you go into the crowd where it is not always obvious to free yourself quickly.
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HellsBells wrote:Hi wonderful people!

Anyone have good techniques they've used/thought about for inescapable bondage that can be worn under clothes in public?

Thanks in advance!
My favorite inescapable bondage device that can be worn under clothes in public is a padlock around the base of my balls. It’s a safe, simple, and very secure when a padlock of the proper size is used. That is one that is neither too tight to be comfortable nor too lose as to allow the balls to escape. A padlock of the correct shackle size can be left in place for a very long time and can only be removed with the right key.

The fun begins when you go out in public while leaving the keys at home, or you can take the keys to work and leave them there. Once I even left the keys in an old cigarette pack next to the parking lot where I worked over night. The fear of losing the keys (the possibility some stranger uncovering and taking them) added to the excitement of being ‘stuck’ in an inescapable lock that night, but I didn’t leave the keys there more than that one night.

One is only limited by one’s imagination.

Misplace the keys or give them to the wrong person and you may find yourself being bound for a very long time.

What would you do with the keys?
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ByDaBalls wrote:What would you do with the keys?
Place the key in a large ice cube in the freezer. If you're tired of being tied up, you can take the ice cube out of the freezer, but you'll have to wait a long time for it to melt before you can unlock the padlock.
Also connect the ice block with a chain so that you cannot bring it to a too hot place. Best so that it cannot be taken out of the freezer, so that you can warm the ice block with your warm hands. Quickly warming your hands back up after a certain time and then quickly back to the ice before it has grown more than it has melted. :twisted:
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ByDaBalls wrote:
HellsBells wrote:Hi wonderful people!

Anyone have good techniques they've used/thought about for inescapable bondage that can be worn under clothes in public?

Thanks in advance!
My favorite inescapable bondage device that can be worn under clothes in public is a padlock around the base of my balls. It’s a safe, simple, and very secure when a padlock of the proper size is used. That is one that is neither too tight to be comfortable nor too lose as to allow the balls to escape. A padlock of the correct shackle size can be left in place for a very long time and can only be removed with the right key.

The fun begins when you go out in public while leaving the keys at home, or you can take the keys to work and leave them there. Once I even left the keys in an old cigarette pack next to the parking lot where I worked over night. The fear of losing the keys (the possibility some stranger uncovering and taking them) added to the excitement of being ‘stuck’ in an inescapable lock that night, but I didn’t leave the keys there more than that one night.

One is only limited by one’s imagination.

Misplace the keys or give them to the wrong person and you may find yourself being bound for a very long time.

What would you do with the keys?
What a fun idea! For the keys, how about a PO box with really strict opening hours!
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HellsBells wrote: “What a fun idea! For the keys, how about a PO box with really strict opening hours!”

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The PO box or a bank safety deposit box would both be good ideals. With the PO box I would be tempted to try mailing myself the keys just to add some uncertainty. But mailing the keys has some risks. I have read some articles where people had mailed themselves their keys only to receive a torn and empty envelope. Just putting the unprotected keys in an envelope is not advisable. Unless you really want to lose the keys.

I’m not sure if I want to bet my balls on the Post Office getting it right.
On the other hand taking calculated risks is what discrete bondage all about in my book. 8)
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ByDaBalls wrote:HellsBells wrote: “What a fun idea! For the keys, how about a PO box with really strict opening hours!”

ByDaBalls replied:
The PO box or a bank safety deposit box would both be good ideals. With the PO box I would be tempted to try mailing myself the keys just to add some uncertainty. But mailing the keys has some risks. I have read some articles where people had mailed themselves their keys only to receive a torn and empty envelope. Just putting the unprotected keys in an envelope is not advisable. Unless you really want to lose the keys.

I’m not sure if I want to bet my balls on the Post Office getting it right.
On the other hand taking calculated risks is what discrete bondage all about in my book. 8)
Well said!
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If you are seeking bondage out in public under clothes so that no-one knows then you could dress in a niqab (full muslim attire) where you could actually bind knees so can still walk, lock wrists behind back, even elbows as well. Could even wear gag. If you wear full muslim clothing the only thing visible would be eyes. You could even have chastity and anal plug in play.
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A good idea from a specialist in the field. Nice to meet you neddenk.
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I like a metal chain around the waist locked with a pad lock. You can choose the tightness. Also rings around the ankles so it hurts while walking. I went to blood donation with this setup, it felt like I was exploited, haha
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selfbondage-shop wrote:I like a metal chain around the waist locked with a pad lock. You can choose the tightness. Also rings around the ankles so it hurts while walking. I went to blood donation with this setup, it felt like I was exploited, haha
That’s a great option. My go-to discreet bondage is either my 2”-wide locking leather bondage belt or a S&W handcuff waist chain. The handcuff link on the chain jingles sometimes, so that’s kinda fun.

Other under-clothing, kink-related fun things for everyday wear include a small-to-medium size butt plug (personally like the Tantus Ryder) and your choice of latex gear. I’ve got a pair of latex boxers with a penis sheath that feels great. With a generous amount of lube in the sheath, it stays slick all day and really adds to the sensation. Lastly, and again not bondage related, I’ve had a lot of fun wearing Nike women’s gym shorts and training bras—they’re actually incredibly comfortable.

Any combination of the above is still discreet and loads of fun to go out in with one else knowing a thing!
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