I use kegel exercises, have done so for a few years and they have changed my sex drive. I heard it termed a dry orgasm. I find I get all the mental sensation of an orgasm, sometimes stronger than having a wet orgasm, without the loss of sex drive. There is also the bonus that I can have these orgasms anywhere as there is no cum to clean up afterward.KinkInSpace wrote: 2. It is possible to perform kegel exercises to contain an orgasm in such way that you get the orgasm but not ejaculate or very little. If you are succesful, you get a sense of relief that comes with the orgasm but you don't lose your sex drive.
Like Kinkinspcae I can go long periods without a wet orgasm, I can stay horny for weeks on end but once I have a wet orgasm I do suffer the drop in sex drive.
This next bit probably deserves a thread of its own but I've never thought it relevant to the site to start one, I got into Kegel exercises when I was researching using sex or rather the endorphins sexual activity produces in the brain to combat my fibromyalgia pain. I won't bore you all with fibromyalgia details, just enough to say it results in pretty much continual pain, along with other symptoms. I read about people using sex as a means of controlling pain found it had beneficial effects for me but of course the old problem of losing desire and so losing endorphin production in the brain meant it was all rather short-lived. So I went looking for ways to prolong my sexually aroused state and I found Kegel exercises.