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New Member/My First Go

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Hello all. I'm super anxious. I'm a happily married 39 year old male who has some kinky fantasies. My wife is pretty straight laced and will go along with some of them, but is pretty vanilla. I've watched bondage porn for a long time and have only recently worked on introducing my wife to cuffs and the like. Suffice it to say she has gone along a couple of times, but it's not her thing and I'm not going to force her. I get into both the sub and dom aspect and with self bondage can sort of fill both roles. I've been lurking and reading for a while before jumping in to the forum. I have a professional job and will never get into public stuff. One day maybe my wife will let me tie her proper or will tie me down proper, but she will be the only one who knows this side of me. My biggest turn on is forced orgasm, hands free orgasm, and post orgasm torture. I've got some cheap nipple clamps, a pair of clover clampes, cheap velcro cuffs (wifes attempt at connecting with me), straps with rings, good amount of rope, dildos, secret home made fuck machine, tens unit, and a basement bathroom with no ceiling (eye screws and hooks available), a diy spreader bar, and a makeshift humbler.

I was supposed to have a couple of days off to myself with no wife of kids, but today the kids had an e learning day because of winter weather. I was planning on my first true session today after a lot of reading and some dry runs. So that was postponed until tomorrow. I'm not sure I'm a fan of the positions that will cause my back to have troubles. My back isn't the greatest and I don't want to stress it. So my thought was laying on my back, seated in a chair, or on my hands and knees. My plan for tomorrow is to lay on my back and have my legs in a spreader attached to the rafter. My wrists will also be bound to another hook on the ceiling in the opposite direction. I found a way to bind my wrist where you put your wrists through a loop, then wrap the rope around between your wrists. Without doing anything else you could simply unravel it walk away, but if you simply take the ends and feed them through one of the loops and tie the ends you have an easy exit but inescapable until released. I'm a bit nervous of moving parts in regards to locks. Moving parts fail. So I'm going with the ice in a sock fed through a ring method. I have various sized links and carabiners. I have timed how long it takes to release with various socks and chain links/carabiners. Tomorrow I plan for a 30 minute session to start. My tens unit has a good strength to it and has a nice steady mode that has given me hands free orgasms before. So my plan is to try that first. I have used it in my test runs with the intention of not releasing myself after orgasm, but as soon as that happens I want out. So tomorrow will be my first true session where I can't just let myself out. I have various vibrators as well as massage guns I may play with eventually, but for my first go I'm going to stick with the tens unit. I REALLY want a coyote. It seems that is the favorite of the community in general. I can't quite purchase one as it's arrive time will fall right when I will be out of town and family will be staying with the kids. Not worth that risk. Will purchase eventually, but for now the tens unit will do. If tomorrow's session goes well and I want more I may try a different position with vibrators.

It seems that self post orgasm torture is a bit of a unicorn. E stim appears to be the best tool according to the internet. Vibrators seem unreliable without somebody else putting it right where it needs to be. Having built a fuck machine I wonder if something could be built to serve the purpose. I see some people talking about altering it to be a stroke machine. My issue is that I'm not likely to keep a big boner with this and I feel that a stroker will not be effective. Most of the videos of post orgasm torture show females grabbing just under the head and rubbing away. I wonder if you could find a way to force your head against some slippery surface being rotated by a drill? That would mimic that action. Anyways I've rambled on enough. Wish me luck.
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Aloha from Bound Anna, DaBow.
I think you will find what you need here.
It's good of your wife to accept your desires, even better to play along sometimes.
Bondage is like a foreign film without subtitles. Only through sharing and practice can we hope to understand.
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
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Welcome to BoundAnna, DaBow.
You have found the right place here by BoundAnna. :wink:
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:hi: I hope your not allergic to nuts, this place is full on them but only the sweet variety.
That's my excuse and I'm sticking to it.
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