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Asking stranger to cuff me yay or nay

Posted: 04 Aug 2022, 17:59
by RubberTrophy
I had this idea of taking some keys for cuffs and hiding them on cycle path then dressing in sort flirty hen do outfit then asking stranger as walk to put cuffs on me, as it part hen do joke and meeting my friends at pub. What do you think?

Re: Asking stranger to cuff me yay or nay

Posted: 04 Aug 2022, 18:31
by Gregovic
My opinion, don't do this. You'd be involving others in your kink without informed consent, which is not ok.

Re: Asking stranger to cuff me yay or nay

Posted: 04 Aug 2022, 18:38
by RubberTrophy
ok An alternative I had would be go my office and change into a sexy kinky thing and then wear long coat back, then walk back the 10 miles wearing the coat on top and given ultimatum of dealing heat or revealing what is underneath.

In regards to what i was thinking wearing I was thinking either
https://www.amazon.co.uk/iixpin-Leather ... 291&sr=8-6

https://www.amazon.co.uk/CHICTRY-Leathe ... 291&sr=8-8

or I have this

https://www.westwardbound.com/maid-role ... ress-p4253

Re: Asking stranger to cuff me yay or nay

Posted: 04 Aug 2022, 18:38
by KinkInSpace
100% agreed with Gregovic here. Don't.

Re: Asking stranger to cuff me yay or nay

Posted: 04 Aug 2022, 18:40
by RubberTrophy
understood would the above be any better

Re: Asking stranger to cuff me yay or nay

Posted: 05 Aug 2022, 01:52
by bound_jenny
No. No. No.

Just in case I wasn't clear enough: No!

Getting a member of the public involved without prearranged consent can lead to:

* being picked up by the police and ending up with some kind of record (like sex offender) and having to answer a lot of embarrassing questions.
* getting the wrong kind of attention by some sicko looking for thrills.

Jenny.

Re: Asking stranger to cuff me yay or nay

Posted: 05 Aug 2022, 06:28
by Shannon SteelSlave
The cross dressing dare: Interesting, someone finally found a use for the heat.
The handcuffs dare : I will just add that a random, inexperienced civilian locking you can be more dangerous than someone who does know bondage. Cuffs are risky for anyone using them, in self bondage or consensual bondage. Even a well intentioned person could make a mistake, lock you to something, too tight, ect. Of course to say nothing for the fact that you are now at their mercy. That scenario is likely to end with you waking in the hospital, missing your wallet. Or worse. Good luck, feel free to ask us for lucid advice on your intentions. Asking around the room is a very intelligent thing to do.

Re: Asking stranger to cuff me yay or nay

Posted: 05 Aug 2022, 09:37
by Gregovic
RubberTrophy wrote:ok An alternative I had would be go my office and change into a sexy kinky thing and then wear long coat back, then walk back the 10 miles wearing the coat on top and given ultimatum of dealing heat or revealing what is underneath.

In regards to what i was thinking wearing I was thinking either
https://www.amazon.co.uk/iixpin-Leather ... 291&sr=8-6

https://www.amazon.co.uk/CHICTRY-Leathe ... 291&sr=8-8

or I have this

https://www.westwardbound.com/maid-role ... ress-p4253
While this dare is less likely to get you landed in jail, so long as you will have to have no interactions with the public, I think 10 miles is definitely overdoing it. If it was a mile or 2, maybe up to 3 or 4, and you had a reasonable chance of making it without exposing yourself that would be probably acceptable. But I don't think a 10 mile walk dressed in cheap pleather and a heavy coat in summer heat is a good idea. And having to expose yourself is just one of the problems there. So here too, I'd say probably better that you don't