Personally, Anna, I like your response.
I think that we all prefer S/B over Dominant or Submissive roles, because we like to be both!!
I also think that S/B is great for people like me who are "interested" in a BDSM lifestyle, but are faintly embarrased to ask someone to do the honours for me, or who are not totally comfortable being helpless (or worse, naked and helpless) in front of others, I think selfbondage is much more intimate and as you say, gives you the sense of power and helplessness in one scenario!
Of course the greatest thing about selfbondage is that you don't have to look a million dollars to take part!! It can be enjoyed by anyone, fat, thin, big or small. It just doesnt matter, everyone likes themselves just the way they are. (Well, I do anyway)
Anna on SelfBondage
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