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this topic is not suitable for self-bondage. it is not recommended to repeat yourself. before the action, make sure that your dominant can help you in an emergency. NOT FOR USE ALONE.

hello, my name is Tom, I am a 25 year old male from Europe. I have been reading this site for a long time, and now I decided to ask a question.
an action game is planned in which I will be in a quandary. the predicament is that I will stand, around my neck I will have a rope to which a load (see picture) will be attached, which I will have to hold in my hands. until I'm tired - my neck is free, but the more I get tired - the more pressure on the neck. while my dominant tortures me: clothespins, clover clamps, spanking :whip: , anal toys, electrical stimulation. the script is not yet fully written.
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A number of questions arose:
1. Has anyone used a similar method of breath restriction?
2. What is the weight of the ball used? the website says it's a bowling ball, but what weight? too light I can hold for a long time, and too heavy can hurt. I have weights of 5 kg and 10 kg. Is it too much or too little?
3. Can anyone suggest an alternate breath control predicament where my fatigue plays against me?
4. How long can you play these games?

Attention. I am aware of the risks, I consciously go for it and collect information from various sources. You should never do this alone. NEVER.

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Aloha from Bound Anna, PRMCT.
This isn't my kind of game, but if you were to try, I would start light. The other thing to realize is that those pulleys change the effort required to hold the suspended weight.
A suggestion for alternative fatigue play would be to connect the weight to something sensitive, instead of your neck. Something more my speed might be treadmill play, your master can attempt to distract you as you try to exercise. If you fail to comply, your torment becomes worse. Just a 2 cents worth of opinion. Good luck.
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A rope round your neck isn't just going to restrict your breathing but also the blood flow to the brain which could have serious consequences. Perhaps instead consider something like a gas mask. I have an inexpensive (£15?) but effective one from AliExpress which has a long tube leading to a valve in the mask (where a filter would go) for breathing in and two flaps that act as valves for breathing out. Maybe arrange the tube to hang over a bucket of water so you have to do something like hold your head back to keep it out the of water, but do check that the tube will clear as soon as you lift it out.

I had a partner who liked breath play so I would tie her to the bed with the mask on, set a kitchen timer for one minute or so and then block the tube with my hand so she couldn't breath while I stimulated her, releasing the tube when the timer went off. After several cycles of this she'd have a powerful orgasm, as much due to not being able to breath as to her oxygen level depleting.
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hi shanon. we already went through a predicament when my leg was tied to my balls and I had to keep it on weight so as not to experience pain. balancing on one leg and lifting the other is an exciting game. now we want to try something new and I am incredibly turned on by the thought of such a predicament. I am aware of all the risks and I do not advise anyone to repeat this at home. thanks for the answer
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Welcome to the BoundAnna forum, PRMCT.

What you are proposing seems TOO DANGEROUS to me.
If you put the cord around the neck wrong, your helper may be too late to help you.

I can speak for it: during an Iaido lesson, the teacher took me in hadaka jime. He asked me if I could free myself, but after 1 second I was already on the floor with convulsions. I didn't even have time to tap to warn him.
Fortunately, that teacher was also a Kuatsu specialist, so he could help me right away.

But in case someone has to untie the rope around your neck first, he will be much too late to save you.

Putting on a gas mask where you block the air inlet if your arm can no longer bear the weight seems safer to me. Again with the supervision of someone who can intervene immediately by allowing the air inlet immediately when necessary.
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PRMCT wrote:I am aware of all the risks and I do not advise anyone to repeat this at home. thanks for the answer
Opening and closing the post with warnings is why your post was approved. I leave it to our experts to help modify it to be doable, if such a way exists.
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Shannon SteelSlave wrote:
PRMCT wrote:I am aware of all the risks and I do not advise anyone to repeat this at home. thanks for the answer
Opening and closing the post with warnings is why your post was approved. I leave it to our experts to help modify it to be doable, if such a way exists.
It's good that it's posted so that we can warn others - as PRMCT already did - with the same idea.
That's what we're here for. :wink:
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Welcome aboard, PRMCT! :whip:

We encourage healthy discussion and debate regarding safety issues by our members in scenarios proposed by our members. I see that here that this principle has been applied in an exemplary fashion. 8)

That's one of the reasons Bound Anna exists - sharing experience both good and bad, knowledge, and with good will and cheer.

Why? We want to hear stories from our members directly, not through the news media or the obituaries. Because we care. :love:

Take care, PRMCT, and see you around the threads.

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Hi everyone again. work on Saturday and Sunday did not allow me to immediately respond to the topic.
Thanks for the answers and concern for the life and health of the forum participants. The more I delve into this topic, the more questions I have. the video uses 2 ropes to prevent the loop from being tightened around the neck. impromptu collar. besides, I found a video where the lower one holds such a ball in her teeth, which means that its weight is relatively small. as a result, it was decided to postpone such a session indefinitely, for careful preparation. Once again I ask no one to engage in such things. if you are a beginner - the most you can do for breathing games is to cover your mouth and nose with your hand. everything else is unsafe.
Thank you all for the warm welcome. sorry for my english, it's not my native language
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PRMCT wrote:sorry for my english, it's not my native language
Your English is just fine.

Again, welcome aboard.

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PRMCT wrote:I found a video where the lower one holds such a ball in her teeth, which means that its weight is relatively small.
Well, if you practice enough: John Massis once pulled a 297-ton train with his teeth. :rofl:
But he was wearing a special mouth mask and had practiced lifting heavier weights with his teeth all his life.

Thank you for taking safety into consideration as well. And your English is not bad at all, probably even better than mine. :facepalm:

I once did the hand for the mouth and nose to myself during a Cock Hero session where that was one of the assignments. It is easy to remove your hand when you are gasping for breath.
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hi all. I learned that one load weighs about 14.5 kilograms. it's a lot. you can't do anything like that. it is very dangerous. I am writing this only to share information about the danger.
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Also notice, for anyone that does (imho foolishly) try to replicate this, they ALWAYS have the rope coming out and up in front of the sub, that way they're putting far less pressure on the vagal nerves, the carotid arteries and the jugular veins, meaning less (but not 0) risk of nerve damage and bad bloodflow.
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The big difference between solo play - as we do it - and photo shoots is:

Solo: We're alone and have to figure out a way out if something goes wrong, either in equipment breakdown or just being too long in that position.
-vs.-
Photo shoots: The whole thing is staged, with plenty of studio hands and people trained in first aid. Sessions only last as long as the needed amount of photos or until distress shows in the model, whichever comes first. And they have a plan for emergencies. And lawyers.

Moral of the story: not for solo play, ever!

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