Relationship with more than 2
Posted: 22 Jun 2022, 17:05
I have been in a committed monogamous relationship for decade and generally only have had that type.
So after being caught by our maid (who turns out to be more of a sub) and my partner surprisingly wanting to explore that a little at first , and me getting hit on by another woman in a bar (who is a Dom apparently) recently while with my partner present who then started flirting a little with her back I'm starting to get a little nervous.
I'm feeling like I'm inadequate now to satisfy my partners needs and they are looking elsewhere. We had a discussion about the maid situation that we weren't interested in pursuing it farther and yet there are still talks about it arising (my partner claims the maid brought it up again).
Should I just go with the flow to avoid losing everything or should I take a stand and pray that doesn't break it up? Is there something I can be doing more to keep thing's interesting (role play ideas or otherwise?) I really just liked what I have but this seems to be changing out from under me. Maybe im just paranoid?
We have played with others on occasion when out and about at events, but this is the first time it has been insinuated to bring this "home". I do enjoy the variety one in a while, but this seems deeper than that.
So after being caught by our maid (who turns out to be more of a sub) and my partner surprisingly wanting to explore that a little at first , and me getting hit on by another woman in a bar (who is a Dom apparently) recently while with my partner present who then started flirting a little with her back I'm starting to get a little nervous.
I'm feeling like I'm inadequate now to satisfy my partners needs and they are looking elsewhere. We had a discussion about the maid situation that we weren't interested in pursuing it farther and yet there are still talks about it arising (my partner claims the maid brought it up again).
Should I just go with the flow to avoid losing everything or should I take a stand and pray that doesn't break it up? Is there something I can be doing more to keep thing's interesting (role play ideas or otherwise?) I really just liked what I have but this seems to be changing out from under me. Maybe im just paranoid?
We have played with others on occasion when out and about at events, but this is the first time it has been insinuated to bring this "home". I do enjoy the variety one in a while, but this seems deeper than that.