Why do they pervert it?

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Why do they pervert it?

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I really love to watch bondage scenes, maybe because I wish I were the one being bound.
But one thing really gets my goat on porno sites - - why cannot they stick to just bondage?
No, the girl gets bound or chained and then they do horrible things to her.
Forced blowjobs, whipping, branding, rape, anal penetration, milking, and general torture.
What's with these sadists? Are the girls that desperate for money, or are they masochists?
And the people who create the demand which makes it all possible?
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People have all sorts of different fetishes and variations of those fetishes.

I don't like torture porn either but I get how some people might like it. I like bondage to be a little more pure but I also get how others don't find that stimulating enough.

Generally speaking, if you go to a general porn site and look for bondage, this is the type of bondage you'll get. My preferred site is boundhub where it's a little more focused on just the bondage. You can get the other stuff too if you look for it but I think the mix will be more to your liking.
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It very much depends on the maker of the porn whether they do that. There's a lot of different types of bondage porn out there. Some of it is girls getting bound and enjoying it, some is girls getting locked in horrible contraptions and (seemingly) not enjoying it very much, some of it is girls getting abused in all sorts of ways. Personally I'm not really a fan of those types either. I like a video where the sub is clearly not minding their situation TOO much and things can get fun at times too.

Look further than sites like kink.com affiliates like hogtied.com (which is known for producing impersonal feeling bondage porn on a massive scale, and for not doing all that well financially for it afaik) or hardtied. Some of the sponsors of boundanna like Conversationpiece and QualityControl for instance offer much more positive material. Give them a look. (There is some of their stuff up on pornhub once in a while, until it gets taken down obviously)
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Basically, if there's a market for it, it will be produced.

I'm also one of those that just loves the erotic nature of pure bondage. There might be some exceptions, like House of Gord, but Gord always produced material that was of pretty good taste. Not that is was "horrible" things done to the models - quite the contrary, they enjoyed themselves quite a bit. Or on another theme, there's Anna Rose and her Kinky Pony Girl site.

What I do find fun about both Gord and KPG is the playful atmosphere of their productions. With Gord, there was always the humorous banter between the models before, after and sometimes during the scenes. Plus there are usually preparation videos of the scenes where the actual application of bondage is shown. Sometimes the preparation is more arousing than the actual performance.

And then there's Shibari - the art of Japanese bondage. It really is an art all its own.

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Gregovic wrote: Some of it is girls getting bound and enjoying it,
I'm curious, what are some sites where they enjoy it? I know you mentioned the sponsored ones here and I know they are more positive, but do the girls truly enjoy it? I have the feeling they do it for the pay. I know some models like Ashley Lane, Molly Matthews from Insex, enjoy the hardcore stuff but I'd really like to see a normal-appearing girl who just likes tight bondage.
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First, I see no reason to consider sadism and masochism to be any more perverted than bondage. What's horrible to some can be pure bliss for others.

That said, there is plenty of 'pure bondage' on for instance PornHub.com. Use a search phrase like "Enchantress Sahrye bondage" (just to name one) and see what comes up.
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Sexy_Student wrote:do the girls truly enjoy it? I have the feeling they do it for the pay.
These things are not mutually exclusive. I too usually enjoy the work my clients pay me for.
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This subject is a little delicate. It's hard for all of us to like the same things. I think it's good that we don't all like this kind of fetish (I only like soft bondage, without pain). But I think it's also okay for other people to like harder bondage, as long as it's completely consensual and done safely.
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Some of us just like torturing and being tortured

To each their own!
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JulieAnn99 wrote:I really love to watch bondage scenes, maybe because I wish I were the one being bound.
But one thing really gets my goat on porno sites - - why cannot they stick to just bondage?
It seems like that all comes out of only one studio now but has 1000 different websites.

Whats gets my goat about these sites is if I tell a lady I like playing tie up that DOES NOT MEAN I am into EVERYTHING that pops up on internet labelled as BDSM.

I guess playing bondage is mainstream enough now, magazines like cosmopolitan ect promote the activity so I should not worry about it but it did bug me for a wile.
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There are probably 2 regular posters here that like any kind of torture, so I'll try to give my point of view.
I simply find regular bondage to be boring at times. I might use a soft torture like a TENS or something to encourage struggling and test my bonds, to reinforce the mental state of helplessness and add spice to a situation. I might be in a "strain or pain" predicament, where I must maintain an awkward or tensed position, or face a pain penalty, like having to keep my legs off the floor, or else something connected to a string pulls something on me. The only time I use a truly inescapable pain situation is in the event I am due for a punishment, like breaking bondage, that is, removing a device that was not meant to be removed yet because a task or waiting period has not be satisfied.
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Everyone has their own way of understanding things. It is the same with bondage. As long as the people involved in these games agree on what they want and expect from each other I think there should be no problem.
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