Kinbaku's next BDSM purchase; estim chastity

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Kinbaku's next BDSM purchase; estim chastity

Postby KinkInSpace » 11 May 2022, 14:53

Introduction
Okay, I am really happy with this purchase that I made and wanted to make a topic about it, but because I know Kinbaku will love it too and it is not super expensive, I dared to declare this as the truth by putting it in the topic's title. I'm sure that'll get his attention even more so. :)

Of course, others are still free to buy this for themselves too.

The item itself
https://aliexpress.com/item/1005003152846336.html
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For myself, I bought the black electric cage, small size.
It has a ring with electrode attached at the bottom that stimulates below the ballsack on the G spot, and there's a small urethra tube that stimulates the other side of the estim channel.

Before anyone thinks: urethra is unsafe and hurts and stuff, this plug is thin enough and not that long that its not really an issue. I have urethra plugs that are thicker and longer and they really do stimulate my urethra after play where I can feel the play the next day when peeing (which is normal unless well trained), but that does not happen with this plug at all.

You can feel it when its inside and you definitely will feel it when you get an erection for as far as the cage allows it, but there is no pain. And the estim feels awesome.

Inserting the urethra plug the first time is going to be challenging (to secure it to the cage) but once you do that a few times, it will be easy. The silicone just have to move a few times. You may therefor want to insert the plug into the cage 5 times before putting the cage on to get the hang of that.

Some back story
Many years ago, I already wanted a cage like this, and found this one:
https://aliexpress.com/item/32963634838.html
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The cages appear very similar, although this one uses a padlock rather than the newer keyholesticks. I prefer the keyholesticks but that was not available at the time, and it didn't bother me too much. The estim on this cage is great, but the cage itself is a bit smaller. More flat from top to bottom. This made it a lot harder to get my penis inside and my penis tends to move out of that position making it hard to get it back to its place after long-time wear. It is this reason that I have not worn the cage long-term. I wanted initially to be able to put on the cage for a longer time, and at any time be able to do estim by just inserting the urethra plug, do estim and get the plug out again, having the option to wear the urethra plug as part of training or punishment too.

With the moving of the penis inside the cage due to growing and shrinking and the fact that its more flat than any cage I have, this just did not work well. Could not wear the cage to work risking that the penis would hide inside and I not get it back out to pee.

In addition the base ring with the electrode can feel more painful than other rings, but readjusting the ring and shaving that region helps a lot.

When I saw the first cage later, I saw it was constructed differently and after careful examination, it seemed it was shaped like the HolyTrainer v4. I have the v3 still, but I know that shape to be very good. Of course, this is cheap and its plastic, not bioresin, but that's fine. I thought a bit and decided to go for it. Got it, and am really happy I did. The cage is much bigger in its vertical direction, like a normal cage would be. The size of the urethra plug is nearly the same. Same shape, same thickness, same shape of attachment point even, but the new cage is maybe 0.2cm shorter. Not enough to be sad about it though. Its a good length still, just something I noticed. In fact, I tried my old slightly longer urethra plug with the new cage, and it works just as well. So I'm using that one on all my sessions. Not a reason to buy both cages though, its not that much better.

Because the electrode on the Gspot is still a big bulky thing that can feel somewhat unpleasant if you don't move it often enough, I use a larger ring size than usual, and this works really well.

And have I mention already that estim the urethra feels awesome? :) I don't know how to put that to words, and yes, it is a sensitive area, so you will not put estim to extreme levels, but that's fine. I use the same levels as my nipples, maybe a bit higher, and that works well. I can still get an orgasm though, even with the plug in, and that will just squirt the orgasm past the plug as its not that thick. So if you get this to get an orgasm but also attempt to stop it, you won't get that satisfaction. To stop an orgasm, you'll need a plug that is so thick you have trouble getting it in. Like 0.1mm thicker end than your hole actually is, so it stretches the last cm of getting it in.

The estim is felt on the pleasure muscle even though that is not stimulated, but the electricity goes right through it anyway as that is the shortest route from + to - anyway.

Final note
The top cage (new one) did have a flaw though.. The construction seems a bit poorly. It are 2 halves glued to eachother and in my cage that produced some sharp seams. It was not too bad and I could wear it, but I didn't like it. I used a dremel at low speeds with a metal cylindrical grinder bit and carefully smoothened the seems. Now its perfect. The seems are not gone everywhere, but it doesn't feel sharp anymore.

Anyway, @Kinbaku, let us know when you got it and what your experience is. ;)
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Re: Kinbaku's next BDSM purchase; estim chastity

Postby kinbaku » 12 May 2022, 09:10

KinkInSpace wrote:... , but because I know Kinbaku will love it too and it is not super expensive, I dared to declare this as the truth by putting it in the topic's title. I'm sure that'll get his attention even more so. :)

Of course, others are still free to buy this for themselves too.

Anyway, @Kinbaku, let us know when you got it and what your experience is. ;)

You know me very well by now! :rofl:
But I've never bought a chastity. :shock: So it will be my first. I'm still doubting whether I'm going for the short or the long one; it's probably going to be the long one because I read in the commentary that it's harder to get out when it's locked.

I will probably make something with a thick iron wire so that I can lock it and connect it with a belt with a padlock. This makes it even more difficult to remove the chastity with both padlock keys in ice blocks and I don't have to buy new keyhole sticks. Otherwise, I may find some scissors that allow me to cut the keyhole sticks easily. :facepalm:
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Re: Kinbaku's next BDSM purchase; estim chastity

Postby KinkInSpace » 12 May 2022, 15:47

Uh... Sizes really matter, especially with a urethra insert. If your penis is not too big, getting the large one really will not work. The same for the reverse.

I find that if you are a grower, you tend to want to get the small one, and if you are a shower, you tend to want to get the large one.
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Re: Kinbaku's next BDSM purchase; estim chastity

Postby kinbaku » 12 May 2022, 21:44

KinkInSpace wrote:Uh... Sizes really matter, especially with a urethra insert. If your penis is not too big, getting the large one really will not work. The same for the reverse.

I find that if you are a grower, you tend to want to get the small one, and if you are a shower, you tend to want to get the large one.

Thanks, that makes it clear for me.
For the ones who wish to calculate if they are a grower or shower: at the bottom of this site you find a calculator.
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Re: Kinbaku's next BDSM purchase; estim chastity

Postby Gregovic » 12 May 2022, 21:51

KinkInSpace wrote:Final note
The top cage (new one) did have a flaw though.. The construction seems a bit poorly. It are 2 halves glued to eachother and in my cage that produced some sharp seams. It was not too bad and I could wear it, but I didn't like it. I used a dremel at low speeds with a metal cylindrical grinder bit and carefully smoothened the seems. Now its perfect. The seems are not gone everywhere, but it doesn't feel sharp anymore.


I have a very very similar cage (might be exactly the same, haven't used it much and I don't feel like digging it out right now). Bought it back when I still had my old phone that didn't work well with the DG-lab estim unit and haven't played with it much. The one time I used it I found I didn't much like the urethral plug. I think the poor construction is par for the course on these. Mine has the same issue with sharp corners on the seam.
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Re: Kinbaku's next BDSM purchase; estim chastity

Postby kinbaku » 12 May 2022, 22:12

I just ordered it for to test it out if I like it. :facepalm:

I'm going to at least get rid of the sharp corners on the seam. Just last month I bought sandpaper and polishing paper (400 through 12000 grit) for filing and polishing my fingernails.
That 12000 even feels like regular paper :rofl: (I only found it at a Dutch firm specialized in polishing paper).
So I can make it very smooth after working with a dremel. :D
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Re: Kinbaku's next BDSM purchase; estim chastity

Postby kinbaku » 19 May 2022, 14:01

Received today, 19th May, instead of 2nd June as planned. :D
Came in while I was working with Gwrolla and I could only put on a short dressing gown before receiving it from the postwoman. :shock: She laughed hard when I tried in vain to keep the dressing gown closed while I received the package. :oops: :facepalm:

However, since I didn't have time to post our story today, I have to keep the package closed and can't open it until our next session. :twisted:
Never looked forward to next week so much. A real Tantalus torment. :lol:
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