http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00ISR ... UTF8&psc=1
a few times for 2 days at the longest that I was able to handle. I'm a grower and so the fact that there was too much room in the cage portion allowed me to get semi erect, combined with the ring being too thick and not slippery enough, caused abrasions around the bottom of my scrotum.
add to that, the true ring size I would need would be somewhere between the small and medium... bleh, it just didn't work out, even after I fashioned a homemade silicone spacer for inside the medium ring to shim it down, fit in such a way that it wasn't removable once it was strapped in.
so anyway, lesson learned, growers need a device small enough to just fit when they're completely flacid to completely remove the ability to get even a partial erection, else the device will get too uncomfortable.
I will say though, that I am glad that I spent that small amount of money to find all this out, and to know better what sizes I will need going forward.
this device is already on the way http://www.aliexpress.com/item/Double-R ... 99043.html
thanks to my GF who has also expressed enthusiastic interest in keyholding. I don't think she liked my short tests with Emlalock, since it cut off her access as well
I did check with this company about the quality of the steel they use, and they assured me it is safe by providing methods for how to test to make sure, which I will definitely be doing! especially before I use the urethral insert, if I even do that, not quite sure about it. seems it would make urination less messy to clean up, but i'm a bit leery of how close it gets to the middle spike in the anti pullout ring.
