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hotel dare

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Hey sort of self bondage but not, i have a bondage partner whose a man, hes gay im not, i love to be bound and gagged whilst dressed as a girl, i find it humiliating and degrading

hes hiring a hotel near by for us to have some bondage fun in soon, so i suggested he leave a key for the room at reception go for a walk, ill collect the key get changed and he can come back and find me tied up and gagged waiting for him

my question is how should i be tied, t[*]his is a premier inn so the bed wont have bed posts or anything like that

i have rope, tape, hand cuffs, ball gag,

how would you want to find me tied

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an important question - quote "he's gay, I'm not"

do you want any form of sexual play ?

as in "I want" or "pretend I don't, but really I do" or "not in a month of Sundays"

because, to be fair to your bondage partner, you need to establish this area. If he fancies you, you are putting yourself in a vulnerable position (literally) and may be asking too much of him to refrain from taking advantage of that. If he is happy to include some sexual play, eg a vibrator then you both need to know that. If you simply want bondage and humiliation, how will that scene end ? A quick wank, or just have a cup of tea and a chat and go home ?

I ask, from the point of view of someone who has done pretty much the same thing, with a Dom and his TG partner, and in my case apart from once with a vibrator, it simply ended with a cup of tea and a chat, but the play included a lot of serious bondage/EStim/pain play rather than anything directly sexual.
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Re: hotel dare

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We've done it before, he isn't interested in sex and I wouldn't in a month of Sundays, it will just be meet he'll spank and cane me, tie me in different positions and job done

My question is how should he find me tied
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Well, if I was showing up for a spanking session as a dom, I'd quite like it if my sub had gotten ready (generally meaning bared their ass, but whatever works for your situation) and had self bound into a position that prominently displays the appropriate part of the anatomy.

In the case of bare-bottom spanking, this would mean ass exposed and in something like a face-down, ass-up position, or arms tied to sides, behind back while leaving the ass exponsed, legs tied together - basically streamlined, and ready to be turned over my knee. If it were a breast torment scenario (I know, not really relevant to you, but I'm talking generalities), a hogtie would be best, preferably being face-up before I arrived and hopefully having the back arched nicely. You see where I'm going with this?
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Thanks, I was hoping to be standing wearing a fishnet dress, oxford heels, stockings, thong and bra and be standing with my hand tied about my head to the roof but there's nothing to tie my hands too :(
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Any idea how I could do this ?
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Take a heavy bag with you (small suitcase with a load of dumbbell weights is optimal), open the closet door partway. Tie a rope to the handle of the suitcase, then tuck the bag in the triangle made by the closet door (please tell me it's not a sliding door), drape the rope over the door (thread between 2 supports, assuming the basic folding panel door you generally see in closets). Make a slip knot of some kind so you can take up the slack, then tie your hands. Pull the slack so your hands are stuck up in the air (also works for pulling them back if you like strappado, by the way). Then wait for his arrival. (Of course, you have to do whatever else you need for setup beforehand.)

I personally recommend setting it with an ice lock on the back side that will drop the suitcase a while after the set meeting time - that way, you're not stuck if he has to cancel or meets with calamity en route. (While it is a hotel, meaning someone will eventually hear you calling for help, the ice lock is a less embarrassing means of escape. And with it set up on the back side, he may well not even know it was there - unless he opens the closet and inspects the half of the rig that dropped to the ground when he untied your wrists...probably not what he's going to be doing at that point... so the whole "I trust you" idea isn't overtly violated. (Personally, I'd be concerned if he was offended by it, anyway - while you trusting him to show up is great, there is that minute chance that some inferior driver will cause an accident that ensnares him for far too long, etc.)

Hmm...I just realized something - the weight pulling on your arms is actually not necessary - you just need a large enough object (with convenient and strong tie-off point) that's too big to fit over the closet door. And if you have it in the top position (as in, jammed against the opening) when all is said and done, you won't be able to move your arms around by overpowering the weight of the object. (I think the reason I initially assumed it was necessary is because this is a modification of a strappado position (hands behind back, pulled up by a rope), where the weight of the object on the other end of the rope is a direct contributor to the amount of stress in the scenario

In short: doors make excellent pulleys as far as changing force direction is concerned.
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That all sounds awfully complex ha :s
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here's a much simpler method to do the same thing, again assuming there is a door inside the room that you can close.

Put some ice into a bag - I used to use the nylon mesh bags that came with washing powder tablets, but any strong bag is fine as long as it can be put over the top of the door and still be pulled through without any ice in it. With the ice-bag on the one side of the door, free end of the bag on the other, then close the door. The nylon mesh bags had a nylon cord drawstring that I used to thread over a metal ring or a short length of chain. The ice stops the bag pulling through the gap above the door but will melt in time, so it is a guaranteed release. Pull the door shut and the "lock" is now set. The only problem is if the door handle is a lever, as you might be able to operate it by pushing yourself against it. You can then lock yourself to this "tail" with handcuffs, padlock, cable tie, whatever

Time for release depends on the size of the ice block - surprisingly several small blocks melt at much the same time as a single block of the same size - it's all to do with surface area to volume. A standard ice cube is good for about 40 minutes in normal room temperatures.
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Although I suspect that the door will fit too well for the rope and any knots to slide through...
lj wrote:The only problem is if the door handle is a lever, as you might be able to operate it by pushing yourself against it.
Take 2 screwdrivers (slot and cross), do the set up, close the [bathroom] door, remove the handle from the side you'll be standing and place it out of reach.
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Usually they're a neat fit
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Re: hotel dare

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A hotel room usually has somewhere you can hang clothes or a coat so the rail or hook for that can give you somewhere to attach a rope to.
Or use the curtain rail, take some string and thread it through a number of curtain hooks or the brackets to spread the load.
A ball of string is useful for this, use the string to tie to the curtains / rail, then loop your rope/strap through the string.
Just be careful that putting too much weight on such things may pull the screws out, wardrobe rails can usually take a fair amount of weight but be more careful with curtain rails - ok for keeping you in a position, but not for suspension or taking your full weight.

You can also use string to make an anchorage on a door, pass the string over the top hinge, feed it back under the hinge and tie off. The door can be open or closed, the anchorage will still work.
A loop in the string then gives you somewhere for your rope / straps to be tied to, and the string also gives you a much easier safety point to cut with scissors or a knife than your main rope which should be much thicker.
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It’s not about who is gay and who isn’t. The fact is that you are a little submissive sissy and you are going to have to do whatever your Master tells you to. And if you don’t do it well, He will punish you.

My advice would be that you arrive a couple of hours early at the hotel. Wash thoroughly and shave or wax pretty much your entire body. You should also give yourself a couple of enemas and apply lubricant to your bum. Dress up in a full French Maid outfit, with wig, makeup, false eyelashes, stockings and high heels. But no panties. Also, you should wear a chastity cage - the shortest one you can find. Then you need to pack all your street clothes into a bag, and leave out the keys to the chastity device with a label clearly marking what they are for. Also, take along a simple cane and leave that lying out. And condoms and lubricant too.

You should wear leather restraints around your ankles and wrists, and a leather head harness with a ring gag. Lie face down on the bed and put a couple of cushions under your hips, and lift the back of your skirt so your bottom is nicely presented. You should also tie the top of your head harness to your waist so that your head is pulled back as far as possible. Put a blindfold on now. You should use padlocks to attach yourself spreadeagled to the bed, making sure the keys are visible but out of reach. You can wait until your Master arrives before you click the last padlock shut.

When He does arrive, this is probably what will happen. He’ll have a look around at you and everything you have prepared. Then He will take all the keys and the bag with your street clothes and take them away to His car or maybe even further away. Then He will come back, get undressed and take a shower.

When He is ready, He’ll get on the bed, position Himself if front of your face and insert His penis into your mouth. The ring gag means that you will not be able to stop Him. It’s very much in your interest now to pleasure Him and make Him cum as quickly as possible. The longer you take, the more dominant and aggressive He will become. Use your tongue to pleasure him and don’t even think about pausing or stopping to complain. If you are unable to make Him cum, He can just put his hand on the back of your head and make you deep throat Him. Maybe your gagging and retching will stimulate Him enough that He will cum in your throat.

If you haven’t managed to make Him cum after 20 or 30 minutes, then I’m afraid He will probably punish you. So He’ll get up and pick up the cane. If you are lucky He may just give you half a dozen strokes on your bumcheeks. If you are unlucky, He may force one of His dirty socks into your mouth to silence you, then begin a proper hard caning. You may get thirty or more strokes. Maybe fifty or maybe a hundred. There’s nothing you can do at this point except go “MMMFFF” into your gag. He won’t stop and your writhing in pain will only make Him more dominant.

And when that is over, He will fuck you in the bum, hopefully with one of the condoms you left out. When He finally does cum in you, your ordeal will not yet be over. I imagine He would just get dressed and leave you lying there still tied up and blindfolded. Maybe He’ll come back with a few friends. He might leave you overnight and only give you the key back in the morning. With the exception of the key for your chastity device which I imagine He will keep hold of for a very long time. If you are very unlucky, He’ll abandon you and the hotel staff will find you the next day. I would love to be there to see you escorted through the lobby to the hotel manager’s office in your Maid outfit and red bottom covered in cum, whilst telling everyone “He’s gay, I’m not”…
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This topic was active 8 years ago and got resurrected. I'm quite sure they already done the session by now... Maybe 10 times or more at this time.
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