Crossdressing and Electro-stimulation - My Story

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Hi,

I suspect many of us are led here by the natural desire for sexual pleasure and gratification, but I cannot really recall seeing a post saying as much. Hope my experience might resonate with someone, or spur them into giving it a go, you don't know unless you try, you might even like it!

I found my path into crossdressing much later in life, really by accident. Now it enhances my solo e-stim sessions, adding a whole new experience through the excitement of dressing up, the feel and sight of the lingerie and the sense of doing something a bit 'naughty'.

I am a single male, now in my mid 60's and share my home with my Sister. Naturally I have to be very discrete as my desires and need for sexual pleasure and fulfilment are not something I feel confident I could share with her.

The need to be quiet precludes the use of any mechanical sex toys like vibrators, also impossible to hide a large real sex doll so I had to satisfy myself by far more basics methods, closest thing to crossdressing I ever got to was wearing a pair of tights, something I must admit I did find exciting.

About 10 years ago while scanning through some porn sites I came across videos of guys using e-stim as a form of masturbation and achieving hands free orgasms, included some also dressed up in lingerie.

This set my mind racing as it appeared to be a great, discrete way of solo playing and achieving sexual fulfilment, lasting way longer than a quick hand job at bedtime.

Firstly I acquired a cheap TENS unit, some adhesive pads and conductive rubber rings. Whilst the sensation of the stimulation was very pleasurable, it took a few attempts before finally achieving the first hands free orgasm, oh joy!

Quickly realised that e-stim is very much a physical and mental process, pretty hard to orgasm simply through the stimulation alone if you are not in the right frame of mind, but the experience and possibilities had me hooked.

At this point my mind wandered to what getting dressed up in lingerie would actually feel like and how this might enhance my experience. Thank goodness for on-line shopping, soon acquired a selection of lingerie and accessories. Getting dressed up really added to the anticipation and excitement of what lay ahead, put me into the right frame of mind and made my sessions even more pleasurable.

Shortly afterwards I purchased a dedicated play box, an E-Stim Systems 2B along with a growing range of electrodes, probes and electrified chastity cage. This took my sessions to another level, now can dress and wire up, lay back on the bed and enjoy the ride for an hour or two to satisfy all my desires and need for sexual gratification.

I now think of myself as my alter ego 'Samantha' during these sessions.

Over the years I have acquired a collection of clothing and accessories. Dressing up for sessions now usually consists a long sleeve, nude crotchless body stocking, silicone breast forms with a bra to keep them in place, lacy basque, panties, stockings and suspenders, long opera gloves, high heels along with an assortment of jewellery, pearl earrings, chocker, necklace and bracelets. The final touch is applying lipstick, really enjoy the sensation of applying and tasting it.

Often when close to the climax of a session, applying a little more lipstick is the thing that finally pushes me over the edge to orgasm and ejaculate.

The beauty of e-stim is you can really concentrate on the experience, only requiring occasional adjustments of the power box to select perhaps a different mode or change the level of stimulation. Really is lying back and enjoying the ride without the physical effort.

If anyone is curious finding more out about e-stim the following might be useful:

Joanne's 'sexmachinereviews' site has a lot of great information. She also designs and sells 3d printer electrodes suitable for everyone. I am a satisfied customer and have several I now regularly use.

Another useful site is 'Socialstim'. You do need to register for access to the forums, but a great community and lots of advice and information.

I made a posting in the 'Male Pictures' subsection on Socialstim containing a link to a small gallery of images I created during a few of my sessions. These are certainly not suitable for this forum as they are VERY EXPLICIT showing close ups with various electrodes attached. Please do not view these if you would be offended in any way! Note: the image hosting site has a lot of adverts, but I found using Adblock inhibits these very well.

So that's me and the journey I have taken to now having a very fulfilling and enjoyable 'solo' sex life.

More than happy to try and answer any questions.

Apologies for the length or if I offended anyone one with the sexual content of this post.

Samantha
Just a guy who loves crossdressing while enjoying e-stim sessions
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Many members here are engaged in "DG Lab" play. If you search for that, you might find more helpful advice on e-stim, and may even find someone to control your session.
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Hi Shannon,

Thanks for the comments.

I would consider myself to be very experienced using e-stim, been around 10 years since I first started experimenting with it and quickly learnt a lot.

The beauty of it is that it can cater for a wide range of 'kinks', from pain or punishment (BDSM) to sexual pleasure.

I have no interest in the pain or punishment side, for me it has always been about achieving sexual pleasure and fulfilment.

As a mid 60's, single guy for me it is a means of simulating some of the feelings of having sex, climaxing in an orgasm and the pleasure that brings. I cannot see being driven or controlled remotely by someone would enhance the experience. The joy is having the controls at my own finger tips, feeling the sensations and having the feedback to adjust them as you desire, it is a very personal and intimate experience. The only time I could possible see sharing this would be with a beautiful woman by my side, but then again why, there would be better things to do!

When I started I bought a cheap toy made in China and a couple of TENS devices, whilst it was possible to achieve good results I wanted more.

At the time there were two top of the range made for purpose e-stim boxes, the ET-312 and the Estim Systems 2B. The ET-312 was not easily obtainable in the UK, where as the E-stim 2B is made here and offered a lot of attractive features, the ability to update the firmware when new versions are released, remote control if you want and best of all, lifetime guarantee and repairs. Recently my box failed and was repaired and returned in just 1 week. One other major advantage of the 2B is it has been approved and passed safety testing, something very unlikely with boxes originating from China.

A while ago I did glance at the DG Labs device but does not look like it offers anything I do not already have. Perhaps a more affordable alternative between the cheap toys and top of the range offerings.

There are many sources of helpful advice for beginners wanting to try out estim safely, Joanne's Sexmachines Reviews site has good guides for both male and females. Likewise there are other sources of information or suggested practices that can be poor or downright dangerous.

The thing about all of our kinks is the diverse way we can achieve something that we enjoy and take pleasure from, and that's a great thing to be able to do.

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Have you tried the Milovana site with "search estim" yet? There are a few out there that are written for the 2B.
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Hi,

Been a long time since I visited that site, must admit I did not really find anything that really interested or excited me at the time. Tried a few of the PEP sessions but not into rough or oral sex, and the found estim content particularly with the long breaks pretty boring and frustrating.

Perhaps it's my just my age or being of a softer nature, if I do want to watch any porn during my estim sessions, much prefer sensual women wearing beautiful lingerie, stockings and heels while making gentle, passionate love or solo play and where they really appear to be enjoying themselves, even if they are just acting.

That's the great thing, we are all different, but share the common goal of pleasure and enjoyment.

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samcdestim wrote:That's the great thing, we are all different, but share the common goal of pleasure and enjoyment.

Samantha
Thought so as I wrote this with Milovana. :facepalm: :wink:

If you haven't tried it yet, you might want to try the following:
While stimulating you put on a blindfold and headphones with soft background music that you like to hear (to muffle other background noises). Preferably lying in an easy chair or on your bed. I think this is more what you like. :love:
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Thanks for the suggestions, but do not think they would do anything for me.

I found crossdressing in lingerie for e-stim sessions purely a sexual thing and enhances the experience, making it easier to reach HFO. The feeling being encased in nylon, restricted in a tight basque, wearing high heels as well as the thrill of seeing yourself dressed in sexy garments is a big turn on for me. Wearing a blindfold would remove part of that sensation.

Listening to music I think would be a distraction, although I have listened to erotic ASMR sounds and stories. Also tried using binaural 'music' for listening to and driving my 2B, that can produce very pleasurable feelings.

I can understand many peoples desires and varied reasons for crossdressing, but what I had not seen and tried to express about in my first post was crossdressing for sexual pleasure and fulfilment. We all have our own kinks and it is great that these are not judged on this forum, but perhaps it's something some are reluctant to talk about or admit to enjoying the sexual aspect of this practice.

I was interested to hear if anyone else shared this experience, or indeed there might be some who dress up to satisfy their sexual desires but had never heard of or were curious about e-stim and how it could enhance their sessions.

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samcdestim wrote:I was interested to hear if anyone else shared this experience, or indeed there might be some who dress up to satisfy their sexual desires but had never heard of or were curious about e-stim and how it could enhance their sessions.

Samantha
Yes, glad you found what pleases you.

We all have our own special interests, it would impoverish the world if they were all the same.
I myself do little with crossdressing, but with electrical stimulation, while Gwrolla does crossdressing, but not with electrical stimulation.
I am sure there are still members who share your interest but may not want to post it, as they are completely free here. Or never tried both (CD and Estim) at the same time. But hopefully your post will be a reason to exchange experiences with each other.

So enjoy your experiences because only you yourself know what is best for you. Thanks for sharing with us.
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samcdestim wrote:Hi,

I found my path into crossdressing much later in life, really by accident. Now it enhances my solo e-stim sessions, adding a whole new experience through the excitement of dressing up, the feel and sight of the lingerie and the sense of doing something a bit 'naughty'.

I am a single male, now in my mid 60's and share my home with my Sister. Naturally I have to be very discrete as my desires and need for sexual pleasure and fulfilment are not something I feel confident I could share with her.

Samantha
Find a photo or photos of men cross dressed (Eddie Izzard for example) see what your sister thinks of them. Maybe joke it dould be fun if she dressed you as her sister for an evening. Let her look for clothes for you to wear in a charity shop / shift shop. Tell her to go to town on the makeup. She might enjoy an evening with a sister and suggest more, then gradually introduce your clothes. It desn't work if her husband is with her. Who knows, she might suggest an evening walk and teach you how to walk and talk like a lady.
We have ways of making you happily suffer. You WILL enjoy yourself. That's an order.
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Hi,

Thanks for your comments, appreciated.

I think you might not have fully understood the motivation for my crossdressing and why it would be totally inappropriate to 'share' this with my Sister. I have no desire to dress up or appear as female in my everyday life.

As a single male, now in my mid sixties, still enjoying the delights of sexual pleasure through solo play, I wanted to find a way of prolonging and enjoying the experience.

Sharing my house with my Sister rules out using any mechanical form of sex toys for masturbating, so was limited to giving myself a quick 'hand job'. Whilst fulfilling a basic need, it's all over far to quickly.

I wanted to find something that would allow me to enjoy the all the sensations and emotions of a longer sexual experience leading to climaxing and a satisfying orgasm.

About 8 or 9 years ago I discovered electro stimulation (estim), in my case using it solely for pleasure. With a suitable play box, wiring up electrodes and using an insertable probe you can produce a vast range of pleasurable sensations stimulating the nerves and muscles which ultimately can lead to an orgasm and ejaculation. The beauty of this is it is quiet (providing you do not scream :D ), can be done hands free, no manual stimulation required and sessions can be as long as you want. Mine usually last between an hour and a half and two hours before pushing myself over the edge.

Using estim alone usually cannot force an orgasm, it's a combination of the electrical stimulation and a mental process.

Doing something to enhance the mental stimulation makes the whole experience far more enjoyable. Obviously watching your favourite porn videos helps, but I found getting dressed up in lingerie, stockings, heels and satin opera gloves really helps me achieve my goal. It's a combination of the thrill of doing something a little 'naughty', the visual stimulation, the feel of the lingerie and restriction of wearing a tight basque, nylon stockings on skin, high heels restricting my feet movement and the sensation of applying and taste of the lipstick. Being able to lay back and enjoy all the sensations has provided me with a discrete means of sexual fulfilment in the comfort of my own bed.

Sorry for the long ramble, hopefully it might help one person find a new way of enjoying themselves or doing something they had never thought of.

If anyone is a little curious, I am happy to try and answer any questions regarding using estim.

I have posted some images and short videos on Twitter @samcdestim Please be aware these are explicit and might offend as of a sexual nature.

Samantha
Just a guy who loves crossdressing while enjoying e-stim sessions
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