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Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 27 Aug 2021, 10:08
by restricted
I was going to be the attentive maid but I thought my h0use was bad for being overlooked but next doors is even worse.

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 27 Aug 2021, 16:58
by kinbaku
restricted wrote:I was going to be the attentive maid but I thought my hiuse was bad for being overlooked but next doors is even worse.
People always think that the meadow is greener on the other side. Until one looks at it from the other side. :wink: :rofl: :facepalm:

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 28 Aug 2021, 01:50
by bound_jenny
kinbaku wrote:People always think that the meadow is greener on the other side. Until one looks at it from the other side.
The neighbor's lawn only looks greener because he has more weeds... those things stay green no matter what happens, while grass just turns brown. :lol:

Jenny.

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 01 Sep 2021, 06:09
by restricted
The nun's habit turned up yesterday. I spent a good hour trying to work out the wimple fitted. Then late last nightI tried the habit on and low and behold I figured it out immediately. I have to get some elastic and white Velcro to make it easier to put on. But I can see me having fun driving the 4.5 hours wearing the habit. :rofl:

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 16 Sep 2021, 20:31
by Laicey
You are talking like looking good is something to be hidden. It's the very best thing I ever did. I'm a full time tranny these days. I'll be off to Tesco and weekends away with no male clothing backup.

Nobody has any problem with it at all. Bung on a dress and go out there. It's 2021. Neighbours are used to me now, but I didn't get a feeling anyone even noticed when I came out. Couple of back minded ones that don't talk to me anymore but the vast majority have been fine.

The habit will be fine. Might raise some smiles but they will be smiles of genuine amusement and appreciation.

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 17 Sep 2021, 05:44
by AllieXBow
Laicey wrote:You are talking like looking good is something to be hidden. It's the very best thing I ever did. I'm a full time tranny these days. I'll be off to Tesco and weekends away with no male clothing backup.

Nobody has any problem with it at all. Bung on a dress and go out there. It's 2021. Neighbours are used to me now, but I didn't get a feeling anyone even noticed when I came out. Couple of back minded ones that don't talk to me anymore but the vast majority have been fine.

The habit will be fine. Might raise some smiles but they will be smiles of genuine amusement and appreciation.
I guess some people some crossdressers view their crossdressing as 'wrong' or taboo. And that is why some people feel the 'thrill' or 'rush'. I don't think there is anything wrong with that. You can define and own kink.

Some people say crossdressing for humiliation gratification is misogynistic because it implies it is humiliating to be feminine or be a woman. Although it may be true, I argue it is also kink shaming to think that way so nobody wins.

However at the end of the day, no matter the reason you crossdress, there is no inherent gender in clothes, they are just pieces of cloth. Your view on why or why not to crossdress in public is based on what you think society thinks of you, which is often untrue. You aren't hurting anybody else, it is your freedom of self expression.

You want to hide because you think it is wrong. I am also like Laicey, I wear skirts in public and I am not ashamed of it because it is not shameful for anyone to wear a skirt. Be confident, be proud and feel cute. But if the sense of shame is the reason you like crossdressing then that is fine. Even then, you shouldn't care about others and just do it in public.

Finally the most important part what I think the issue is, that we all know that we shouldn't expose our kinks to other people without their consent. For example it is unacceptable for me to trot around the shopping mall with a ball gag, latex suit, with my hands cuffed behind my back. However this isn't true for crossdressing as crossdressing doesn't have to be a kink. There is no way to tell between a person who is crossdressing for a kink and just crossdressing for more innocent reasons. Anyways the latter is always assumed in this scenario.

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 27 Sep 2021, 09:32
by restricted
Two weeks and two days to go. I'm getting nervus now. I'll leave my trousers inthe car when Iknock forher and ask her if she would get them for me to save e goig back out like that.

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 27 Sep 2021, 10:34
by AllieXBow
restricted wrote:Two weeks and two days to go. I'm getting nervus now. I'll leave my trousers inthe car when Iknock forher and ask her if she would get them for me to save e goig back out like that.
Good luck! I hope you enjoy it, and do it again! And you could even make it a "habit" :rofl: :rofl: :facepalm:

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 28 Sep 2021, 18:03
by kinbaku
restricted wrote:Two weeks and two days to go. I'm getting nervus now. I'll leave my trousers inthe car when Iknock forher and ask her if she would get them for me to save e goig back out like that.
You can start counting down the days. :mrgreen:
Good luck!

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 11 Oct 2021, 14:37
by restricted
Two days to go. Four and a half hours driving dressed as a nun. :oops: 240 miles. Nerves kicking in now. I've been putting hints up and she hasn't cottoned on.

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 11 Oct 2021, 23:02
by kinbaku
restricted wrote:Two days to go. Four and a half hours driving dressed as a nun. :oops: 240 miles. Nerves kicking in now. I've been putting hints up and she hasn't cottoned on.
Exciting! :)

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 13 Oct 2021, 16:26
by BoundInKasugai
Drive safely :mrgreen:

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 19 Oct 2021, 08:22
by restricted
Well, I did it. 5 hours it took, and it was good fun. People let me out onto the main roads and a woman who cut me up mouthed an apology when I drew alongside. I got some funny looks from workmen on the roads. But it had to be the best car ride ever,

The woman cracked up when she saw me.

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 19 Oct 2021, 15:09
by kinbaku
restricted wrote:... But it had to be the best car ride ever, ...
Maybe an idea for a next time? :mrgreen:

Re: Would you chance it?

Posted: 21 Oct 2021, 07:29
by restricted
I'm now making the habit easier to put on. So I can do it by myself. Next time it might be a nurse. But I have been asked to visit some woman while in my habit. :rofl: :rofl: