Taking it to the next level

Crossdressing as a part of or type of selfbondage.
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Taking it to the next level

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Hi guys, I have been wearing knickers and bras for years now and things are getting slightly boring. I’m not at the point of cd in public. Maybe in a woodland at night which I have done once In a dress (exhilarating)

But I love kink and I love cd. Where do I go to get to the next level ? What can I do ?

Kinkiest funnest ideas win !
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Depending on your interest and confidence, try to crossdress and connect on a random video chat (e.g. omegle). Driving crossdressed could also be a step further the woodland at night, as you can choose the level of risk: by night, in desert area or more urban and populated, when you have to stop to red light, maybe stop on a parking lot,... With always the possibility to leave.
Or try to connect to a kink or TV club in your surrounding if you feel it.
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Or you can answer the door for a food delivery all dressed up. And nowadays you can wear a mask if that makes you feel more comfortable.
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I have a hotel stay approaching and I’m getting room service. I’m planning on being dressed up for this ! What outfit shall I go for ?? I’m happy to buy anything from head to toe the decision is in your hands
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john744556 wrote:I have a hotel stay approaching and I’m getting room service. I’m planning on being dressed up for this ! What outfit shall I go for ?? I’m happy to buy anything from head to toe the decision is in your hands
A leather mini skirt, long black women's stockings and red high heels. When you're in the room, take a picture of that lower part of your body (without your face) and post it on viewtopic.php?f=15&t=4483&start=630. Don't forget to delete the data (such as location) from the photo.
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I will be on this ASAP ! Anything on the top half !?
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john744556 wrote:I will be on this ASAP ! Anything on the top half !?
A bra and a black blouse that you tie around your hips with a leather belt to show off your slim waist.
But only if you want this. It is not necessary. :love:
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I remember that point where it got boring.... and after a half year of makeup practice it did not take long before i was going out in public. On business trips especially. Traveling to and from enfemme. Sitting around the house in a bra and girdle just did not cut it any more! Go out at night, dressed to the nines and drive around, buy gas. And with the pandemic still hanging on you have a mask to make you feel somewhat more protected... anonymous! Go out to late night stores like Walmart enfemme or casinos! I love going to casinos dressed! The feeling is amazing, you will be addicted!
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That looks like a 5 inch stiletto heels smile.
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I'd be flat on my face in 5" heels.... that's a happy girl smile! Helps blend in! They all smile! lol
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Still thinking of ways to take it to the next level again I’m not interested in being a female or anything alike but love cd I went out the other day to a store and brought a babydoll, I went to the restroom in the mall and stripped naked in a stool then tried it on with my cloths back on top. That was a fun experience
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john744556 wrote:Still thinking of ways to take it to the next level again I’m not interested in being a female or anything alike but love cd I went out the other day to a store and brought a babydoll, I went to the restroom in the mall and stripped naked in a stool then tried it on with my cloths back on top. That was a fun experience
Next time wear leather pants under your normal clothes. No one sees anything of it, but you yourself hear, feel and smell the leather. :twisted:
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Have you tried a dressing service, I used one, they go at your pace, dressing you in clothing you want, makeup and a photoshoot, give you loads of confidence, then I went for the escorted night out to a TV friendly club/pub, I got so much confidence from that, a few weeks later, I went to a club in MK on my own after dressing and getting my makeup done, before the club, I walked straight into hotel bar, and ordered a drink, outwardly I was cool and collected, inside I was craping myself , but it’s always hurdles, get over one, the next is not as great, until it’s no hurdle at all, and there’s no one you know around the corner, to recognise you, in fact, one other visit, went to another hotel in morning to pick up an online friend, in Male guise, and I was not recognised by a few I spent most the night with.

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Going out in public is the obvious next step. It's actually easier somewhere busy like a shopping centre that empty streets late at night. As long as you are confident, dressed to blend in, have decent hair or wig and make is classy nobody notices/cares!!! Don't be fiddling with clothes or hair all the time, and don't be afraid to make eye contact with people around you. Smile and enjoy it. The key is to pull up the car and just get out rather than sitting in waiting for the right moment.

The first time I went out, I had on my jeans and jacket. Had a lockable bag with my things to change into with me, but had done my hair and make up before I left. I found a single unisex public toilet and changed into a midi-skirt, ankle boots, high neck jumper and long coat. Put the jeans and jacket in the bag and locked it. The car was a 15 minute walk away, but now I had no choice but to go out in public crossdressed. This was the middle of the day in broad daylight. It was a strangely calm experience.
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kinbaku wrote:
john744556 wrote:I have a hotel stay approaching and I’m getting room service. I’m planning on being dressed up for this ! What outfit shall I go for ?? I’m happy to buy anything from head to toe the decision is in your hands
A leather mini skirt, long black women's stockings and red high heels. When you're in the room, take a picture of that lower part of your body (without your face) and post it on viewtopic.php?f=15&t=4483&start=630. Don't forget to delete the data (such as location) from the photo.
kinbaku wrote:
john744556 wrote:Still thinking of ways to take it to the next level again I’m not interested in being a female or anything alike but love cd I went out the other day to a store and brought a babydoll, I went to the restroom in the mall and stripped naked in a stool then tried it on with my cloths back on top. That was a fun experience
Next time wear leather pants under your normal clothes. No one sees anything of it, but you yourself hear, feel and smell the leather.
Andy_G wrote:Going out in public is the obvious next step. It's actually easier somewhere busy like a shopping centre that empty streets late at night. As long as you are confident, dressed to blend in, have decent hair or wig and make is classy nobody notices/cares!!! Don't be fiddling with clothes or hair all the time, and don't be afraid to make eye contact with people around you. Smile and enjoy it. The key is to pull up the car and just get out rather than sitting in waiting for the right moment.

The first time I went out, I had on my jeans and jacket. Had a lockable bag with my things to change into with me, but had done my hair and make up before I left. I found a single unisex public toilet and changed into a midi-skirt, ankle boots, high neck jumper and long coat. Put the jeans and jacket in the bag and locked it. The car was a 15 minute walk away, but now I had no choice but to go out in public crossdressed. This was the middle of the day in broad daylight. It was a strangely calm experience.
Some great suggestions there. Before my transgender status was revealed I did very similar things. Dressing for the time of day is important my skirt was a bit too short and attracted looks but I faked confidence and smiled and that was it. Once I realised that there was more than just cross-dressing going on I went full-time apart from work within days, work waited until I was comfortable in my presentation but there were no issues. Note that CDing didn't make me a TS, I was one all along and the CD part just revealed it.
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