Upcoming session: burning nipples

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Upcoming session: burning nipples

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I'm about to do a session that I'm both exhilarated and scared about. Its a combination of 2 things that I've done before, but not combined in the way I'm about to do.

Although I'm quite sure it should be safe enough, I still have the fear of, but what if I'm wrong...

The title of this topic will already have prepared you, but lets explain what it actually means.

I'll skip all the getting in bondage part and watching a video while enduring this torture for later.

Here's what I'm going to do.

I'll use a candle, light it on fire and drip candlewax around my nipples creating a little vulcano if you will, where the hole has each nipple in the center.
I'll try to make the hill a bit large but I can probably not go really high. I want to try and keep the candle about 10 cm away from the body because I know it will hurt but going higher will both cause the candlewax to splash and not be painful enough. I know that once the wax cools down, I lost my chance of getting pain on that spot from the wax.

With the little hole in the center ready, I will coat my nipples with Tobasco sauce first, then with the remaining, pour it on the nipples so it stays in the hole.

Finally I seal everything off with more candlewax.

The candlewax will burn a bit, but the Tobasco sauce will really make it feel like its on fire. The duration is estimated to be around 2 hours.

During the session, I'll be bound so my hands cannot move. Being bound, I'll watch a porn movie involving pain and I may not get out of my bounds until the movie ends.

Once the session is over, I'll report back on how it went. Was it worse than I thought? Was it a failure in the sense of, not nearly as painful as desired? Did I had to abort?

I have posted a dare about candlewax and estim too. Another session I want to do, but that one will come later. Maybe still this weekend, but maybe not, depending on how sensitive my nipples become and stay.
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Re: Upcoming session: burning nipples

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You are well underway to a rollercoaster. :mrgreen: I already saw your previous dare with candle-wax and estim, and now this variation. :twisted:
I don't think you're going to build a so-called volcano, but an actual volcano that is about to bubble and erupt. :shock: 8)
I'm really curious how it went. :hi:
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Overall, the session was a success. Not exactly as planned, but I learned enough. :)

Could not create a hill like landscape, but the candle itself was not burning as hot and painful as I thought, so instead of doing 10 cm away from the body, it was more like 3 cm away. Painful but not feeling like it would actually cause 1st degree burns.

Nipple area spared, I coated it with tabasco sauce, and then used candle wax to cover it entirely. Its really nice. Makes the sauce stay hot longer. After an hour, the feeling subsided so I broke away the candlewax on the nipple and reapplied tabasco sauce, then recoated the nipples with candlewax. This time the wax was more painful and actually felt like it was causing 1st degree burns. But as the wax was applied, the burning feeling went away too, so it was definitely not 1st degree burn either. Then the tabasco sauce started to burn and it was more intense the second time. Yay.

The movie ended and my mistress forced me to write this before I can take off the wax. My nipples are burning really well now. Coated in a nice thick layer of candle wax.

The candlewax ensures that the inside is coated with tabasco sauce and as the feeling subsides, my nipples inside move and that reignites the tabasco sauce. I used to do the same with cottonwool but this is just as effective, but feels nicer too.

The movie itself was a bit of a let down. 1 hour and 45 minutes long, and the first half was almost boring. It was proper sm, you know tied up, being hit with a cane, flogger, etc. But for the session I was in, it felt a bit too soft. The second half was what the thumbnail suggested too, suspension by hooks and other really painful stuff. That was very interesting and worth the watch.

Overall great session, and I'm sure tomorrow my nipples will have returned well enough that I may even dare the wax and estim play that I have in store for myself.

:) Great session and worth a repeat.

-Kink in Space
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Small update, after removing the wax, my nipples were burning for another hour or so. I even did a little bit of estim play (like 1 minute) just to see if it would be worse or not, given that my nipples were very sensitive.

Normally with these clamps, on the DG-LAB blue preset, I hold up and make the indicator light cycle twice before I feel enough to stop holding up and increase by pressing up and releasing afterwards. This time, I already felt it at the end of the first cycle, so I could take only half of the settings I normally can take. Also these clamps have sharp teeth and a screw that stops them from going deeper. Normally I put them on and the screw is not used. But this time I had to use the screws. So very sensitive indeed.

I was afraid of the wax+estim session before doing this session. Now I know that one will be a breeze.

One thing I have planned that is going to make things far more interesting, is that I first put down a base around my nipple with wax, so the nipple sticks out of a pool of wax. I then put on nipple clamps that have no spring but must be screwed together with small plates with small teeth on them. They are lovely for estim play. I connect them to my estim box by using aligator clamps and test the estim first to ensure that they are tight enough equally to produce the same estim feeling on both nipples on the desired level.

Once estim is confirmed to be right, estim is turned off again. Now, I use more wax and cover the nipples and the clamps fully so the upper layer of candlewax fuses with the lower layer. This essentially creates one block of candlewax, trapping my nipple and clamp inside.

Because the clamp will be on tight, I will not be able to just yank off the wax, so I have to carefully dig my nipples out. Its going to be much fun. :D

I estimate that every attempt to get my nipple free will maybe hurt my nipple by the wiggling and twirling. :) Oh its going to be so much fun. :)
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KinkInSpace wrote:Oh its going to be so much fun. :)
Oh its going to be so much fun ... to read ... that you enjoyed it so much. :)
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Today, I've done the wax, estim clamp, wax, estim session thingy.

This was definitely different than planned. Unique and fun but oh boy... :)

I lighted the candles and created the base. This time the candle seemed hotter. Still not burning me at a distance of 10 cm, sometimes lower, but felt hotter somehow. I guess my nipples were still sensitive from yesterday. With the coating applied, it was time to apply the nipple clamps, which are these:
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005001966283117.html (the first one with rectangle spiky nipple presses, not the right one with spring)

I then attached alligator clips to the clamps and to my estim box and tested the settings. My right nipple felt more estim, so the left nipple had to be tightened up. After doing that, tested estim again and it felt about right. Good enough for the session I thought.

So here came the part that would make things really serious. Coating my nipples and the clamps with enough wax to burry it.

Well, that was not gonna happen. I started coating the clamps but as the clamps are round, it sort of created a beaker with my nipple inside. The wax dripped in but did not cool down as quickly as normally on the skin. I quickly had to stop adding wax as I felt it just kept being molten on top of a small layer of wax and this got close to real burning. I moved to other parts of the ring etc, but the wax was still feeling too warm for comfort (read: worrying that adding more molten wax heats it up to beyond the point of safety).

So I did the best thing I could do, and switched to my other nipple and started to coat that, being more careful here. The wax seemed hotter too. I guess yesterday I let it drip quickly from the candle, and this time it accumulated more on the candle before dripping, thus being warmer. I definitely did not dare to go as low as 3cm, and kept more at 10 cm, sometimes even higher which was not nice because it started to splash more, something I wanted to avoid too. So I decided to try and empty the candlewax more and keep it dripping a bit quicker, which helped only a little bit. I started to feel the burning on my right nipple and my left nipple, although feeling less warm, it was still too warm for comfort, so I decided this was enough wax and blew out the candle.

I put everything away, estim was performed using my selfbondage script on the xtoys.app with the 01 she is my sin, going to 80 intensity in a duration of 60 minutes. I expected the last bit to be very challenging, and I was in bounds with the lights turned off. The session was pleasant, although my left nipple was not stimulated as well as my right nipple, but it was not too far off, so it was okay. When the estim got to really high and nice levels, I thought I would be at 60, getting to the intense part. When the estim suddenly stopped, I felt really let down. I checked, yup, it went up to 80. (Glad I programmed in a report so you can see on what level it ended). Aparently normally I close the estim closer so it hurts more too. This time, the clamps themselves did not even hurt, but it was okay. I wanted the pain on my nipples so I turned the estim back on, manually this time and slowly increased it back to 80, which I could still take well. I raised it to 83 and that felt surprisingly painful. It was the feeling I was after, but I could take it, so I thought, lets try to go to 90. At 85 however it was very painful and I felt I had enough, so I aborted.

Now came the good part. My nippleclamps were fused to my nipples by the candlewax but were allowed to be taken off. If I could at least.
I was letdown by the fact that the clamps were not tightened more and as such they were not hurting my nipples, so I could take all the time to get them off.

And time I definitely needed. My mistress ordered me to first try and take it off in one go to test if I had done my job. So all wax was grabbed from the chest and lifted up and the clamp buried inside held ground. The clamp was now haning on my nipple with a chunk of was attached, but was not coming off easily.

I tried turning the sides to loosen the clamps, but was impossible. I had to remove wax first. It was a slow and time consuming job but eventually with just enough wax removed, I could loosen the clamps just a little bit. Not enough to get my nipples out, but enough room to start getting the wax moving and out. All in all, I think it took 30 minutes to get the wax and clamps removed. Would've been really great if my nipples were aching from the clamps as I definitely felt some pain with certain actions trying to get the wax off.

My nipples are very sensitive right now, hours after the session, which is great. Probably also because of last night's session.

Definitely a session I will repeat.
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KinkInSpace wrote:Definitely a session I will repeat.
If you do it again: try putting unfolded paper clips - which are braided together - in a tea lights holder. At the top they form one spread area for collecting the candle wax, at the bottom one point where the wax runs off. It is then easier to direct the drops where they should end up.

Some of the wax will stick to the paper clips, but if the flame is hot enough, enough will still drip off.
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KinkInSpace wrote:Definitely a session I will repeat.
If you do it again: try putting unfolded paper clips - which are braided together - in a tea lights holder. At the top they form one spread area for collecting the candle wax, at the bottom one point where the wax runs off. It is then easier to direct the drops where they should end up.

Some of the wax will stick to the paper clips, but if the flame is hot enough, enough will still drip off.
I have no idea what you mean here... Can you make it and post a photo?
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I agree. A little confusing. But sounds fun.
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KinkInSpace wrote:I have no idea what you mean here... Can you make it and post a photo?
I had tried it with a single unfolded paperclip. The problem was that sometimes the drops of wax dripped down next to the paper clip.
That's why I thought that if you use different paperclips that you put side by side with the candle between the candle and the metal casing, all the liquid wax will follow the path of the paperclips.
If you fold it together and let it end at a point, the drops will all run through that point.
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I see. I just use a regular stick candle and rotate it. It drops down very precisely. The only problem is, if you don't rotate it enough times, its shape changes and can become a problem and may lead to an increase of wax produced which could increase in temperature too.
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Ahh, wicking method. I get it.
Yeah, wax left to heat in a bowl, like in those votive candles can reach scaulding temperatures. As the bowl empties of solid wax, its internal shape changes to the point where it takes more force to pour and has more liquid having been heated. Things a dom/domme has to keep in mind if playing with a sub.
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KinkInSpace wrote:I see. I just use a regular stick candle and rotate it. It drops down very precisely. The only problem is, if you don't rotate it enough times, its shape changes and can become a problem and may lead to an increase of wax produced which could increase in temperature too.
A new idea for the developers in the making :idea: :
a candle stick attached to a device that rotates the candle at a certain rate with a motor, while the whole can move along the x, y and z axes according to what has been programmed in advance.
However, this requires a lot of experimentation because the position of the flame must be determined very accurately by sensors. :rofl:
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I thought of something like that too. Short of a machine that can heat, then drip the wax in a controlled manner is all I would ever plan to use.
I stopped thinking of a Pee-Wee Herman mouse trap-like device when I realized that I would be playing with open flames out of my reach and control, in bondage. I am sure you thought that way too.
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Shannon SteelSlave wrote:I am sure you thought that way too.
Of course! :wink:
Would do it without bondage, only holding my hands at the back of my head. Just enjoying whichever random path the wax will take as I lay on an iron table. :twisted: :mrgreen:
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