Hello from Iowa

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Hello from Iowa

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Hi all! I’m Sarah Elizabeth. I’m a 42 year old CD living in Central Iowa, USA. I’ve had two experiences with self-bondage, and both were somewhat dangerous and stupid failures. They were also incredibly arousing in a terrifying, I-want-to-do-it-again way. My goal in being here is to learn new methods as well as how to provide for a safe, somewhat timely escape….and maybe venture into “dare” territory.
Thanks for reading and I hope to hear from you soon!
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Aloha from Bound Anna, Sarah.
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:hi: Welcome to the forum. I am sure we should be able to aid you in your quest.
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Welcome to the forum, Sarah_Elizabeth.
You have come to the right place and there is already a lot to read here for you, such as the post 'Selfbondage safety'.
Always have at least 2 backups that work independently of each other. :hi:
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Thanks for the welcome! I’m very eager to work my way up as someone who can provide friendship, laughter, and perhaps some fun, sexy entertainment. Also, thanks for the advice on keeping multiple backups.
I’ve got all the standard bondage fare- handcuffs, rope, zip ties, duct tape, etc…just looking for new and creative ways to put it all together. :D
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Welcome to the forum. We have a bunch of great ideas for self-bondage releases and would love to help you get something setup that will work for you. Looking forward to hearing more from you.
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Welcome aboard
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Welcome to the forum! :whip:
Sarah_Elizabeth wrote:They were also incredibly arousing in a terrifying, I-want-to-do-it-again way.
Oh, so true. The first times are always like that.

Eventually we get over the terrifying part and let the I-want-to-do-it-again (fun) part take over. 8)

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Welcome!
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Thanks for all of the messages and interaction in general!
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