Hi everybody
Posted: 02 Apr 2021, 15:21
I'm a married female, my husband and I do kinky stuff but nobody knows, and I am really shy to talk about it so I don't know how much I will, however, sometimes you open up over time so who knows? We have been married a very long time. I've always had BDSM fantasies and before we married I told him, and he said he was on board to try it, we did a little, but then kids came along and it all went away while we raised children. Now they are grown and gone so now we feel safe to start doing it again. We have some cuffs and rope, a cat'o nine, a crop and a single tailed whip, and a few other toys. But my favorite is good old fashioned leather belt. I'm sub and he's dom and it's not a lifestyle, neither of us rules in our vanilla life. In fact he'd probably tell you that I do. But really I think we are equal partners.
We are both professionals. I present to the world as maybe a bit uptight, conservative, and I don't think anyone would guess I'm into this kind of thing. In real life I'm very averse to being controlled by anyone. It has been difficult to make a small portion of my fantasies into reality but what we do is great fun! My husband was at first a bit reluctant but he has grown to love it. He says he was always a dom at heart but never actualized it until I made him realize that yes, I really do want to be controlled and hurt - in this specific arena. We do have a safeword but I've only used it once. That was when he wanted to put me up on the kitchen counter and fuck me but the windows were open and the possibility for neighbors to see is not gonna happen. I've never safeworded out of a whipping though.
We are both professionals. I present to the world as maybe a bit uptight, conservative, and I don't think anyone would guess I'm into this kind of thing. In real life I'm very averse to being controlled by anyone. It has been difficult to make a small portion of my fantasies into reality but what we do is great fun! My husband was at first a bit reluctant but he has grown to love it. He says he was always a dom at heart but never actualized it until I made him realize that yes, I really do want to be controlled and hurt - in this specific arena. We do have a safeword but I've only used it once. That was when he wanted to put me up on the kitchen counter and fuck me but the windows were open and the possibility for neighbors to see is not gonna happen. I've never safeworded out of a whipping though.