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Hello,

I am a long-time lurker first-time poster. Lockdown has encouraged me to go solo, and I have been playing with self-bondage for months now. I've played with handcuffs, rope, duct tape, and even a straitjacket. I once got stuck in a sleepsack too, which was scary but thrilling. Anyway just wanted to say 'Hi'. Hoping to meet likeminded folks for chat, ideas, and general fun.

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Welcome to Bound Anna, Elvish. There is a certain mental leverage, and at least for me, a kind of self induced madness to my self kink.
We certainly have members here who like sack play. I am afraid I can't help much there, not my "bag". (Giggity) Since I don't know your experience level, I would encourage you to search out our advice on handcuffs. They require so little discipline to bind effectively and securely, that people have gotten stuck and put their lives in serious jeopardy. A few basics : Never tighten too much, always double lock to avoid over tightening, avoid locking yourself immovable ojects and make sure you can reach the key holes some way, especially when using thumb, rigid, or hinge cuffs.
Sometimes, I punish myself by forcing me to sit in front of a computer with yards of rope around, and watch videos about rope tricks and practice them, for hours. I like the predicament types that are a sort of pain or strain, that force you to hold an awkward position, or be subject to a greater discomfort, and forces me back to the awkward position, switching back and forth for relief from one or the other, just to keep it from being boring.
Straight jacket solo play is something I would like to hear more about, as I am personally curious. Please post your experiences for us.
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Welcome to the forum! :whip:

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Shannon SteelSlave wrote:Welcome to Bound Anna, Elvish. There is a certain mental leverage, and at least for me, a kind of self induced madness to my self kink.
We certainly have members here who like sack play. I am afraid I can't help much there, not my "bag". (Giggity) Since I don't know your experience level, I would encourage you to search out our advice on handcuffs. They require so little discipline to bind effectively and securely, that people have gotten stuck and put their lives in serious jeopardy. A few basics : Never tighten too much, always double lock to avoid over tightening, avoid locking yourself immovable ojects and make sure you can reach the key holes some way, especially when using thumb, rigid, or hinge cuffs.
Sometimes, I punish myself by forcing me to sit in front of a computer with yards of rope around, and watch videos about rope tricks and practice them, for hours. I like the predicament types that are a sort of pain or strain, that force you to hold an awkward position, or be subject to a greater discomfort, and forces me back to the awkward position, switching back and forth for relief from one or the other, just to keep it from being boring.
Straight jacket solo play is something I would like to hear more about, as I am personally curious. Please post your experiences for us.
Well, I feel I am introducing again, so I will yield the floor.
So I've had accidents with all three: handcuffs, straitjackets, and sleepsacks.

The handcuffs was a rooky error: (a) cuffing behind my back without checking, and (b) cuffing 'upside down' so the keyhole was facing up the length of my arm. It was a pretty scary experience (first time stuck) but I eventually finessed my way out with the the help of a mirror and some dexterity.

I have modified a straitjacket with a super-long arm strap on one hand and the other a tension lock on the other. So, basically, I strap myself into the jacket as normal, then I make an extra-large loop with the arms, which I can do because of the length of the strap. Then I attach the free end of the strap to a door handle and pull. It works really well. 90% of the time, I can get out again within an hour just by struggling furiously. I have gotten stuck before though!

As for the sleepsack, I used the trick of tying a chord to zipper and a bedpost. Wouldn't advice this, though, as I did it once and the chord snapped off past my shoulders leaving me trapped inside with no way out…
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Welcome!
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Welcome Elvish_Presley. Also note: since a zipper blocked I no longer use this with my self-bondage.
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:hi: Welcome to the forum. Yes all three can have there problems, getting released can be the problem :oops: :oops:
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Welcome aboard.
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Welcome to the forum Elvish!
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:hi: welcome Elvish
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Hi Elvish and welcome to the forum :hi:
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Hay Elvish_Presley, I can wait to read your sleepsack story in the True Stories section.

Welcome to the forum!!!
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