Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort

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Nervous About This, But Leaning Into Discomfort

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Hello everyone,
Please call me either Jessie or Jessica depending on your preference. It has been a long time since I participated in any kind of online forum. As someone who does not like having too much of an online presence these days, I am nervous about putting myself out there again. I do, however, believe in the importance of leaning into discomfort in order to better oneself, so here I am. I recently graduated from college and moved out of a shared bedroom into a shared apartment with my very own room. As someone who has been into bondage since the age of 5, a calculation based on the awakening I experienced watching Xena: Warrior Princess on TV, I'm overjoyed to now have the freedom to pursue all of my kinky desires in a private space. This is especially true now since COVID has limited everyone's ability to engage in BDSM events in my area. So, I am here to join in the conversations, get ideas, and offer support if and when I can.
Thank you all,
Jessie
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Welcome to Bound Anna, Jessica. Feel free to discuss anything, and I promise not to tell. Shan'
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Welcome to the forum! :whip:

You don't need to feel uncomfortable here - you're among friends, people like yourself, who seek others like themselves.

Feel free to mingle and browse, have fun, and be safe.

Jenny.
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:hi: Welcome to the forum. You can always rely on Jenny to settle you in, (she has cookies) and the rest of us are friendly, if happily kinky. :hi:
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JIMDINI wrote::hi: Welcome to the forum. You can always rely on Jenny to settle you in, (she has cookies) and the rest of us are friendly, if happily kinky. :hi:
Nope that didn't hurt.

I'm always here too, Jessie. Just a private message or reply away.
You have more greetings from others who are equally as wonderful coming, so I'll step aside.
Bondage is like a foreign film without subtitles. Only through sharing and practice can we hope to understand.
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
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:hi: welcome
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Welcome Jessica, have fun and stay safe. :)
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Welcome! :) you're having the luck (freedom) I expect to have when I graduate from college soon :)
Like jenny said, we're all among people with the same kind of desires
Have fun and stay safe!
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Welcome!
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welcome Jessica. if you just need to talk os tell me what to do just ask.
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Welcome aboard
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