A wild newbie appears...
- ticklishbondageboi92
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A wild newbie appears...
Howdy folks, new member here - here’s a little about me
I’m a 27yo guy from the UK, got loads of kinks but my main 3 fetishes are bondage (obviously) feet and tickling (sadly the latter can’t be done solo lol)
My reason for joining is I’m interested in learning more about self-bondage, I’ve done partnered bondage ever since I started being active in the fetish world (which was since I was 18) but I’ve always struggled finding a like minded bondage buddy, usually I can get one session every other year which IMO is kinda shocking, wouldn’t say I was the elephant man lol
And what really was the final nail in the coffin was a few years back I met someone off of recon, seemed legit - did some stuff not involving bondage to start with, then moved on to bondage sessions which was fine at first - then he slowly demanded more and more (even though I wasn’t comfortable with certain stuff) and from day 1 I always said I don’t do sex at all, anal, oral etc - big no no for me - well he ended up ignoring my limits and I gets raped - and since that day I’ve given up on the fetish community, I don’t bother doing the events/clubs and haven’t met anyone for kink (well except for a pup dude in guernsey, we met up at a bar for a chat n pizza, no kink, was fun, the pizza was terrible though haha)
So that’s pretty much why I’m here now, going to give the self bondage community a chance, hopefully get some fun ideas to try then maybe think up my own once I’ve learned what can and can’t be done
I’ve got a load of situations and gear I’d love to try that I feel I’m missing out on (every time I watch bondage porn I get the sense of missing out haha) so hopefully I can just crack on alone without the need and drama of a buddy/partner (At least until the one comes along, but I’m pretty certain the one for me doesn’t exist lol)
Thanks for reading
I’m a 27yo guy from the UK, got loads of kinks but my main 3 fetishes are bondage (obviously) feet and tickling (sadly the latter can’t be done solo lol)
My reason for joining is I’m interested in learning more about self-bondage, I’ve done partnered bondage ever since I started being active in the fetish world (which was since I was 18) but I’ve always struggled finding a like minded bondage buddy, usually I can get one session every other year which IMO is kinda shocking, wouldn’t say I was the elephant man lol
And what really was the final nail in the coffin was a few years back I met someone off of recon, seemed legit - did some stuff not involving bondage to start with, then moved on to bondage sessions which was fine at first - then he slowly demanded more and more (even though I wasn’t comfortable with certain stuff) and from day 1 I always said I don’t do sex at all, anal, oral etc - big no no for me - well he ended up ignoring my limits and I gets raped - and since that day I’ve given up on the fetish community, I don’t bother doing the events/clubs and haven’t met anyone for kink (well except for a pup dude in guernsey, we met up at a bar for a chat n pizza, no kink, was fun, the pizza was terrible though haha)
So that’s pretty much why I’m here now, going to give the self bondage community a chance, hopefully get some fun ideas to try then maybe think up my own once I’ve learned what can and can’t be done
I’ve got a load of situations and gear I’d love to try that I feel I’m missing out on (every time I watch bondage porn I get the sense of missing out haha) so hopefully I can just crack on alone without the need and drama of a buddy/partner (At least until the one comes along, but I’m pretty certain the one for me doesn’t exist lol)
Thanks for reading
- bound_jenny
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Re: A wild newbie appears...
Welcome to the forum!
I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for here. We're a friendly, welcoming community that doesn't judge.
Jenny.
I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for here. We're a friendly, welcoming community that doesn't judge.
Jenny.
Helplessness is a doorway to the innermost reaches of the soul.
If my corset isn't tight, it just isn't right!
Kink is the spice of life!
Come to the Dark Side - we have cookies!
If my corset isn't tight, it just isn't right!
Kink is the spice of life!
Come to the Dark Side - we have cookies!
- Shannon SteelSlave
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Re: A wild newbie appears...
Welcome, Boi! I hope I can help you somehow, just let us know, and I am sure we can try
Bondage is like a foreign film without subtitles. Only through sharing and practice can we hope to understand.
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
Re: A wild newbie appears...
Welcome to the forum. Sorry to hear you had a bad experience, but I am sure there is enough SB information and scenarios here to satisfy you.
Never confuse your ambitions with your abilities. If you can't free yourself, who will?
When your helpless, you have no choice but to wait.
When your helpless, you have no choice but to wait.
Re: A wild newbie appears...
Welcome aboard.
Sorry to hear you got abused by a bad apple of the kink scene.
I'm sure you can find the info you're looking in our cozy corner of the web.
Sorry to hear you got abused by a bad apple of the kink scene.
I'm sure you can find the info you're looking in our cozy corner of the web.
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- Shannon SteelSlave
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Re: A wild newbie appears...
We can play William Tell. I could go for some apple sauce. Mmmmmmmmmm...apple sauce
Anyway, in self bondage, you deal with a higher class of people.
Anyway, in self bondage, you deal with a higher class of people.
Bondage is like a foreign film without subtitles. Only through sharing and practice can we hope to understand.
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
- bounddosster
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Re: A wild newbie appears...
Hello, welcome to the fun place.
Nice to see someone else from the UK on here I don't think there are that many of us here.
Nice to see someone else from the UK on here I don't think there are that many of us here.
That's my excuse and I'm sticking to it.
Re: A wild newbie appears...
I was... until I moved!bounddosster wrote:Hello, welcome to the fun place.
Nice to see someone else from the UK on here I don't think there are that many of us here.
- ticklishbondageboi92
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Re: A wild newbie appears...
Big thanks to everyone who’s posted welcoming me to teh forums - and if this is a higher class community then I can always say I’m a upper class kinkster (just a shame real life is working class lol)
What I will clarify is this was the gay fetish scene, personally I’ve never done fetish stuff with females before, partly because gay fetish forums/sites are more readily available - Fetlife being the exception but I don’t like that websites layout so I don’t use it - certainly not opposed to female bondage playmates, just never had the opportunity - basically I’m an equal opportunist, that’s my sexuality
Can’t even say it was just the one bad apple, I did make public what happened and the fall out from that was unreal, I got banned from a fetish gear store’s event because of it (won’t name n shame but it’s the only uk fetish shop that has an event that they do) sooo including the death threats I’d say that’s bout 20 bad apples, enough to justify calling the food inspector hahaponylady wrote:Welcome aboard.
Sorry to hear you got abused by a bad apple of the kink scene.
I'm sure you can find the info you're looking in our cozy corner of the web.
What I will clarify is this was the gay fetish scene, personally I’ve never done fetish stuff with females before, partly because gay fetish forums/sites are more readily available - Fetlife being the exception but I don’t like that websites layout so I don’t use it - certainly not opposed to female bondage playmates, just never had the opportunity - basically I’m an equal opportunist, that’s my sexuality
- ticklishbondageboi92
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Re: A wild newbie appears...
Yay a fellow uk person - love your avatar as wellbounddosster wrote:Hello, welcome to the fun place.
Nice to see someone else from the UK on here I don't think there are that many of us here.
Should’ve stayed in the UK, it’s the bestsweh wrote:I was... until I moved!bounddosster wrote:Hello, welcome to the fun place.
Nice to see someone else from the UK on here I don't think there are that many of us here.
Re: A wild newbie appears...
Welcome!
There's a fine line between cuddling and holding someone down so they can't get away.
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons - for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
The beatings will continue until morale improves.
Do not meddle in the affairs of dragons - for you are crunchy and good with ketchup.
Re: A wild newbie appears...
It's missing something important... the Lady I love! She's why I movedticklishbondageboi92 wrote:Should’ve stayed in the UK, it’s the bestsweh wrote:I was... until I moved!bounddosster wrote:Hello, welcome to the fun place.
Nice to see someone else from the UK on here I don't think there are that many of us here.
- ticklishbondageboi92
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Re: A wild newbie appears...
Fair pointsweh wrote: It's missing something important... the Lady I love! She's why I moved
- Shannon SteelSlave
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Re: A wild newbie appears...
Sweet avatar. I picture you with a lap top and a pair of handcuffs as you type messages to us.
Bondage is like a foreign film without subtitles. Only through sharing and practice can we hope to understand.
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
A Jedi uses bondage for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
I am so smart! I am so smart! S-M-R-T!....I, I mean S-M-A-R-T!
- ticklishbondageboi92
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Re: A wild newbie appears...
glad you like - i wanted something that showed my face along with what i like, so i felt this captures everything wellShannon SteelSlave wrote:Sweet avatar. I picture you with a lap top and a pair of handcuffs as you type messages to us.
took an age to get it down to 9kib though, i always seemed to be 0.1 kib over haha
if i had my way, i'd soo be someones bondage prisoner - like spending the day either handcuffed or tied to something then at night locked in a cage or cell - but apparently for me its not to be, but atleast i can be cruel to myself instead ^_^
good idea with the handcuffs though - that might be my new chillaxing thing, in stocks and wearing handcuffs using a laptop for watching tv and browsing the forums hehe