I’m a 27yo guy from the UK, got loads of kinks but my main 3 fetishes are bondage (obviously) feet and tickling (sadly the latter can’t be done solo lol)
My reason for joining is I’m interested in learning more about self-bondage, I’ve done partnered bondage ever since I started being active in the fetish world (which was since I was 18) but I’ve always struggled finding a like minded bondage buddy, usually I can get one session every other year which IMO is kinda shocking, wouldn’t say I was the elephant man lol
And what really was the final nail in the coffin was a few years back I met someone off of recon, seemed legit - did some stuff not involving bondage to start with, then moved on to bondage sessions which was fine at first - then he slowly demanded more and more (even though I wasn’t comfortable with certain stuff) and from day 1 I always said I don’t do sex at all, anal, oral etc - big no no for me - well he ended up ignoring my limits and I gets raped - and since that day I’ve given up on the fetish community, I don’t bother doing the events/clubs and haven’t met anyone for kink (well except for a pup dude in guernsey, we met up at a bar for a chat n pizza, no kink, was fun, the pizza was terrible though haha)
So that’s pretty much why I’m here now, going to give the self bondage community a chance, hopefully get some fun ideas to try then maybe think up my own once I’ve learned what can and can’t be done
I’ve got a load of situations and gear I’d love to try that I feel I’m missing out on (every time I watch bondage porn I get the sense of missing out haha) so hopefully I can just crack on alone without the need and drama of a buddy/partner (At least until the one comes along, but I’m pretty certain the one for me doesn’t exist lol)
Thanks for reading
(just a shame real life is working class lol) 
