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- 02 May 2022, 02:46
- Forum: Everything else.
- Topic: Protonmail.
- Replies: 7
- Views: 750
Re: Protonmail.
Sorry my response is so late, I've been real busy. Yes, I have it and like it very much. You can send it like regular email to any other email domain however, it will lose its security if the recipient uses an insecure service like gmail. But you can "lock" the message with a passkey, and ...
- 10 Oct 2021, 18:13
- Forum: Bondage
- Topic: Being submissive vs being a slave
- Replies: 29
- Views: 7912
Re: Being submissive vs being a slave
Bear in mind that in most countries that slavery is outlawed total slavery, if discovered by some third party, could end up before the courts. Courts will not put a lot of faith in any testimony that it was 'all consensual on both sides' if it is clear the 'master has total control of every aspect ...
- 11 Sep 2021, 15:45
- Forum: Bondage
- Topic: Guess what, I have a real life bondage date!
- Replies: 14
- Views: 3220
Re: Guess what, I have a real life bondage date!
It sounds like you handled things very well, both of you, and had a good time even if it wasn't everything you wanted it to be. Not bad for a first venture into something new. Thanks for posting the story.
- 10 Aug 2021, 18:09
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: The Thrill is Gone
- Replies: 13
- Views: 1961
Re: The Thrill is Gone
I went through something very similar and it turned out that my hormone levels were low mostly due to a med I was on and partly age. First thing I would check is to go to doctor and get a physical and check your hormone levels. . You beat me to it! I was going to say this exact thing. For both men ...
- 31 Jul 2021, 15:40
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: gettin away with something dumb when I could have easily not
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1962
Re: gettin away with something dumb when I could have easily
The biggest risk I see here is taking stairs that I'm guessing were concrete and/or steel with boots and a skirt, with hands cuffed behind your back, drunk. Big risk of falling and not being able to break your fall with your hands, risking head injury. Better a broken wrist than closed head bleed wh...
- 28 Jun 2021, 18:14
- Forum: True Stories
- Topic: Did you ever leave something out that a visitor found?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 4332
Re: Did you ever leave something out that a visitor found?
We've not been caught so far, but we worry what happens if we both die in a plane crash. Our children, being adults and not knowing about our kink, would go through our things. So I have told my sister that if we both die, get to the house before the kids do, and go through the master bedroom closet...
- 01 Jun 2021, 15:39
- Forum: New member introduction
- Topic: Curious
- Replies: 20
- Views: 2725
Re: Curious
Welcome! If you choose to use your hunting knife as a release, be very careful. Pointy ends are likely to find skin. Much safer would be a pair of safety shears, (or EMT shears as they are sometimes called). I would start with some light restraints, just tying my ankles together, then maybe add tyi...
- 01 Jun 2021, 15:27
- Forum: New member introduction
- Topic: Curious
- Replies: 20
- Views: 2725
Re: Curious
You might want to consider carabiners, you know, those metal spring loaded things that rock climbers use. Just for convenience, we keep rope knotted on the carabiner. We have leather cuffs with multiple slots for size and a metal loop that goes through the slot, and all my partner has to do is clip ...
- 31 May 2021, 14:32
- Forum: New member introduction
- Topic: Curious
- Replies: 20
- Views: 2725
Re: Curious
YES! I totally relate. I also cannot stand being confined in real life unless I am able to easily and instantly release. But at the same time I love being restrained. Unlike most here I don't do self bondage (for some reason it never occurred to me) but I love to be bound by my partner. I've had a f...
- 21 May 2021, 14:29
- Forum: True Stories
- Topic: confessions of a single dad (part 2)
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1630
Re: confessions of a single dad (part 2)
Wow, that's quite a life story. Kudos to you for being a good dad. I understand about not having anyone to tell your story to, although I'm married and can share with my husband, still it is limited, there are some things I don't even share with him, and I don't tell anyone else about our kink life,...
- 28 Apr 2021, 18:37
- Forum: Everything else.
- Topic: Seriously?
- Replies: 69
- Views: 6318
Re: Seriously?
That is hilarious! Probably someone that likes to provoke or shock, or either is inexperienced like the aforementioned 18 year old and just doesn't know any better. I think your response to him is perfect! The only time that sort of thing would be okay is if you are on a server that by default, just...
- 22 Apr 2021, 15:12
- Forum: Everything else.
- Topic: self-bondage = self harm?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 1590
Re: self-bondage = self harm?
I think both self harm and kinky pain/bondage trigger endorphins. The self harmer needs the endorphins to escape emotional pain. We do it just for the high and associated sexual pleasure. Self harm is usually associated with psychological disorders such as depression, anxiety or BPD, and often a his...
- 13 Apr 2021, 23:20
- Forum: Bondage
- Topic: Punishment for using safeword
- Replies: 20
- Views: 3991
Re: Punishment for using safeword
If your partner doesn't keep you constantly restrained they feel intense anxiety. This is a compulsion, something that must be done that has become a "rule" in the mind of someone with OCD or an anxiety disorder, and keeping you restrained is the treatment for the anxiety. It is similar to...
- 11 Apr 2021, 17:14
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: Need help with anxiety!
- Replies: 15
- Views: 2924
Re: Need help with anxiety!
I have this too. When my husband restrains me, it has to be such that I can free myself if he were to keel over from a heart attack. Nobody knows we do this and no family live near us that would check on us if we didn't contact them in a day. I could be stuck for days or more and with a dead body at...
- 07 Apr 2021, 23:22
- Forum: Bondage
- Topic: Torture mask
- Replies: 9
- Views: 5042
Re: Torture mask
I see hoods online that seem to have no holes at the nose for air. They have a mouth hole but come with a penis gag that doesn't appear to allow air in, likewise might have holes for the eyes but a leather blindfold can cover them. When the gag and blindfold are on, I can't see how any air gets it, ...