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by Lyn
02 May 2022, 02:46
Forum: Everything else.
Topic: Protonmail.
Replies: 7
Views: 748

Re: Protonmail.

Sorry my response is so late, I've been real busy. Yes, I have it and like it very much. You can send it like regular email to any other email domain however, it will lose its security if the recipient uses an insecure service like gmail. But you can "lock" the message with a passkey, and ...
by Lyn
10 Oct 2021, 18:13
Forum: Bondage
Topic: Being submissive vs being a slave
Replies: 29
Views: 7830

Re: Being submissive vs being a slave

Bear in mind that in most countries that slavery is outlawed total slavery, if discovered by some third party, could end up before the courts. Courts will not put a lot of faith in any testimony that it was 'all consensual on both sides' if it is clear the 'master has total control of every aspect ...
by Lyn
11 Sep 2021, 15:45
Forum: Bondage
Topic: Guess what, I have a real life bondage date!
Replies: 14
Views: 3218

Re: Guess what, I have a real life bondage date!

It sounds like you handled things very well, both of you, and had a good time even if it wasn't everything you wanted it to be. Not bad for a first venture into something new. Thanks for posting the story.
by Lyn
10 Aug 2021, 18:09
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: The Thrill is Gone
Replies: 13
Views: 1958

Re: The Thrill is Gone

I went through something very similar and it turned out that my hormone levels were low mostly due to a med I was on and partly age. First thing I would check is to go to doctor and get a physical and check your hormone levels. . You beat me to it! I was going to say this exact thing. For both men ...
by Lyn
31 Jul 2021, 15:40
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: gettin away with something dumb when I could have easily not
Replies: 5
Views: 1960

Re: gettin away with something dumb when I could have easily

The biggest risk I see here is taking stairs that I'm guessing were concrete and/or steel with boots and a skirt, with hands cuffed behind your back, drunk. Big risk of falling and not being able to break your fall with your hands, risking head injury. Better a broken wrist than closed head bleed wh...
by Lyn
28 Jun 2021, 18:14
Forum: True Stories
Topic: Did you ever leave something out that a visitor found?
Replies: 13
Views: 4319

Re: Did you ever leave something out that a visitor found?

We've not been caught so far, but we worry what happens if we both die in a plane crash. Our children, being adults and not knowing about our kink, would go through our things. So I have told my sister that if we both die, get to the house before the kids do, and go through the master bedroom closet...
by Lyn
01 Jun 2021, 15:39
Forum: New member introduction
Topic: Curious
Replies: 20
Views: 2720

Re: Curious

Welcome! If you choose to use your hunting knife as a release, be very careful. Pointy ends are likely to find skin. Much safer would be a pair of safety shears, (or EMT shears as they are sometimes called). I would start with some light restraints, just tying my ankles together, then maybe add tyi...
by Lyn
01 Jun 2021, 15:27
Forum: New member introduction
Topic: Curious
Replies: 20
Views: 2720

Re: Curious

You might want to consider carabiners, you know, those metal spring loaded things that rock climbers use. Just for convenience, we keep rope knotted on the carabiner. We have leather cuffs with multiple slots for size and a metal loop that goes through the slot, and all my partner has to do is clip ...
by Lyn
31 May 2021, 14:32
Forum: New member introduction
Topic: Curious
Replies: 20
Views: 2720

Re: Curious

YES! I totally relate. I also cannot stand being confined in real life unless I am able to easily and instantly release. But at the same time I love being restrained. Unlike most here I don't do self bondage (for some reason it never occurred to me) but I love to be bound by my partner. I've had a f...
by Lyn
21 May 2021, 14:29
Forum: True Stories
Topic: confessions of a single dad (part 2)
Replies: 5
Views: 1630

Re: confessions of a single dad (part 2)

Wow, that's quite a life story. Kudos to you for being a good dad. I understand about not having anyone to tell your story to, although I'm married and can share with my husband, still it is limited, there are some things I don't even share with him, and I don't tell anyone else about our kink life,...
by Lyn
28 Apr 2021, 18:37
Forum: Everything else.
Topic: Seriously?
Replies: 69
Views: 6296

Re: Seriously?

That is hilarious! Probably someone that likes to provoke or shock, or either is inexperienced like the aforementioned 18 year old and just doesn't know any better. I think your response to him is perfect! The only time that sort of thing would be okay is if you are on a server that by default, just...
by Lyn
22 Apr 2021, 15:12
Forum: Everything else.
Topic: self-bondage = self harm?
Replies: 9
Views: 1590

Re: self-bondage = self harm?

I think both self harm and kinky pain/bondage trigger endorphins. The self harmer needs the endorphins to escape emotional pain. We do it just for the high and associated sexual pleasure. Self harm is usually associated with psychological disorders such as depression, anxiety or BPD, and often a his...
by Lyn
13 Apr 2021, 23:20
Forum: Bondage
Topic: Punishment for using safeword
Replies: 20
Views: 3982

Re: Punishment for using safeword

If your partner doesn't keep you constantly restrained they feel intense anxiety. This is a compulsion, something that must be done that has become a "rule" in the mind of someone with OCD or an anxiety disorder, and keeping you restrained is the treatment for the anxiety. It is similar to...
by Lyn
11 Apr 2021, 17:14
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Need help with anxiety!
Replies: 15
Views: 2921

Re: Need help with anxiety!

I have this too. When my husband restrains me, it has to be such that I can free myself if he were to keel over from a heart attack. Nobody knows we do this and no family live near us that would check on us if we didn't contact them in a day. I could be stuck for days or more and with a dead body at...
by Lyn
07 Apr 2021, 23:22
Forum: Bondage
Topic: Torture mask
Replies: 9
Views: 5040

Re: Torture mask

I see hoods online that seem to have no holes at the nose for air. They have a mouth hole but come with a penis gag that doesn't appear to allow air in, likewise might have holes for the eyes but a leather blindfold can cover them. When the gag and blindfold are on, I can't see how any air gets it, ...