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by lj
04 Feb 2024, 17:33
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Is it wrong to give chastity keys to someone other than wife?
Replies: 8
Views: 655

Re: Is it wrong to give chastity keys to someone other than wife?

It rather depends on the relationship you have with your wife. If you give someone else the keys, this implies you will be wearing the device all the time until released. This would be difficult for your wife not to notice, so she must be aware of your desire to be locked. Perhaps she doesn't mind b...
by lj
02 Feb 2024, 15:10
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Do any better versions of these exist?
Replies: 5
Views: 868

Re: Do any better versions of these exist?

the short answer is yes! but at a cost as ruru points out, sizing is very important. The diameter of the base ring needs to be loose enough, but not too loose, the gap between the base ring and the cage needs to be small enough to stop a testicle pulling through (and you REALLY don't want that happe...
by lj
16 Jan 2024, 18:36
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: How do I tell her?
Replies: 15
Views: 909

Re: How do I tell her?

that's great news.

I suspect she may have picked up on your kink from the previous "escapes" (the boots, etc) but not wanted to interfere - difficult cnversations go both ways !

good luck with your kinky future :-)
by lj
13 Jan 2024, 19:19
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: How do I tell her?
Replies: 15
Views: 909

Re: How do I tell her?

At the age of 31 the OP is entitled to have whatever kinks he has. His mother is entitled to have hers (or not have any). However, the parent-child relationship rarely includes discussions on sexuality or kink in either direction. This is further complicated by the roles in the house they share - do...
by lj
18 Dec 2023, 20:48
Forum: Everything else.
Topic: I have this constant sensation I can't get rid of
Replies: 8
Views: 7035

Re: I have this constant sensation I can't get rid of

"terminal complaint" sorry, didn't mean to cause confusion with a joking comment to explain, "terminal complaint" is using a medical term, terminal as in "you will die from it" -"life is a sexually transmitted terminal disease" - we are alive as the result of ...
by lj
18 Dec 2023, 17:56
Forum: Everything else.
Topic: I have this constant sensation I can't get rid of
Replies: 8
Views: 7035

Re: I have this constant sensation I can't get rid of

OP, I hate to say this but you are suffering from a terminal complaint you are male!!!! Whilst the effect may reduce over time, the male response to a stimulus, whether it is a fetish, a female (or male depending upon your sexuality) or simply a smile from the right person, is arousal to some extent...
by lj
10 Dec 2023, 10:28
Forum: Everything else.
Topic: questions to admin
Replies: 13
Views: 5667

Re: questions to admin

Shannon and Riddle have largely answered the question - Anna has a very low active profile and leaves the running of the site to the Moderators, though she does occasionally drop in. If any member wants to ask a specific question relating to the running of the Form, contact any of the moderators - w...
by lj
01 Dec 2023, 14:00
Forum: Funny things
Topic: Images that made my day
Replies: 2337
Views: 374519

Re: Images that made my day

Top/bottom is about "giving and receiving" the sexual act. So it's possible to be a sub top or a dom bottom. being a bit picky, but Top/bottom (or sub/Dom) need not relate to a sexual act, unless you define anything we do in kink as sexual? For example, on many occasions at play-parties I...
by lj
30 Oct 2023, 18:08
Forum: Site feedback
Topic: no "new topics" page
Replies: 7
Views: 8681

no "new topics" page

After the software upgrade, which happened during a period I was away , so I missed the warning of its impending arrival (so things suddenly looked a bit different and my brain took a while to work out what had gone...) but is there something I need to "switch on" or does the "new top...
by lj
19 Oct 2023, 12:14
Forum: Everything else.
Topic: Bondage at home
Replies: 33
Views: 5189

Re: Bondage at home

Dilly, I don't know the extent of your experience in the BDSM world, but it looks to me as though you haven't had a great deal (that's not a criticism, none of us did to start with, and a good many here and on other sites have kept their kink secret. The downside of this is you can only see what oth...
by lj
14 Sep 2023, 10:52
Forum: Bondage
Topic: Post a bondage picture for "do this to me"
Replies: 1748
Views: 609750

Re: Post a bondage picture for "do this to me"

I would agree with Jenny (always the safest bet anyway :lol: ) floggers can be anything from a feather touch to a battering ram. I have used (and received) ones made from thin bungee cord inner through to chain, via leather, rubber and hard plastic. they can be applied with a light touch or maximum ...
by lj
21 Aug 2023, 13:41
Forum: DIY
Topic: Self Bondage Mummification Machine *Demonstration Video*
Replies: 63
Views: 12442

Re: "Ghetto" Self Bondage Mummification Machine *Update*

Before this thread gets out of hand, please NO LASERS in self-bondage. Any loss of control, random reflections etc and permanent damage to flesh and eyesight can happen in a fraction of a second. Just get some "ER shears", they are cheap and designed to cut effectively without significant ...
by lj
09 Aug 2023, 12:22
Forum: Bondage
Topic: Post a picture for don't do this to me
Replies: 214
Views: 475999

Re: Post a picture for don't do this to me

That scenario reminds me of an event at a play-party. A male cross-dresser, suitably attired in black underwear, stockings and high heels wanted to be secured in a similar metal cage, asked me and another Top to do the job, with a few interested spectators. So I cuffed him, wrists and ankles to the ...
by lj
29 Jul 2023, 09:10
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Is there a Safe way to do suspensions?
Replies: 6
Views: 2148

Re: Is there a Safe way to do suspensions?

I have taken the decision to lock this thread. One of the difficult parts of being a Moderator is to keep threads within the chosen limits of the site - avoiding censorship whilst preserving our aim of promoting safe enjoyment of our kinks. When something appears on the web, it acquires an authority...
by lj
12 Jul 2023, 13:03
Forum: DIY
Topic: high tech sound eliminating gag
Replies: 8
Views: 3087

Re: high tech sound eliminating gag

The OP needs to define the desired situation. What is the desired result? Sound cancelling by generating an anti-phase signal only works if the receiver of the noise gets the two sound waves of exactly the same volume and spectrum, so in-ear and over-ear systems succeed because the sounds can be cor...