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- 04 Feb 2024, 17:33
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: Is it wrong to give chastity keys to someone other than wife?
- Replies: 8
- Views: 670
Re: Is it wrong to give chastity keys to someone other than wife?
It rather depends on the relationship you have with your wife. If you give someone else the keys, this implies you will be wearing the device all the time until released. This would be difficult for your wife not to notice, so she must be aware of your desire to be locked. Perhaps she doesn't mind b...
- 02 Feb 2024, 15:10
- Forum: Chastity
- Topic: Do any better versions of these exist?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 878
Re: Do any better versions of these exist?
the short answer is yes! but at a cost as ruru points out, sizing is very important. The diameter of the base ring needs to be loose enough, but not too loose, the gap between the base ring and the cage needs to be small enough to stop a testicle pulling through (and you REALLY don't want that happe...
- 16 Jan 2024, 18:36
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: How do I tell her?
- Replies: 15
- Views: 925
Re: How do I tell her?
that's great news.
I suspect she may have picked up on your kink from the previous "escapes" (the boots, etc) but not wanted to interfere - difficult cnversations go both ways !
good luck with your kinky future
I suspect she may have picked up on your kink from the previous "escapes" (the boots, etc) but not wanted to interfere - difficult cnversations go both ways !
good luck with your kinky future
- 13 Jan 2024, 19:19
- Forum: Crossdressing
- Topic: How do I tell her?
- Replies: 15
- Views: 925
Re: How do I tell her?
At the age of 31 the OP is entitled to have whatever kinks he has. His mother is entitled to have hers (or not have any). However, the parent-child relationship rarely includes discussions on sexuality or kink in either direction. This is further complicated by the roles in the house they share - do...
- 18 Dec 2023, 20:48
- Forum: Everything else.
- Topic: I have this constant sensation I can't get rid of
- Replies: 8
- Views: 7044
Re: I have this constant sensation I can't get rid of
"terminal complaint" sorry, didn't mean to cause confusion with a joking comment to explain, "terminal complaint" is using a medical term, terminal as in "you will die from it" -"life is a sexually transmitted terminal disease" - we are alive as the result of ...
- 18 Dec 2023, 17:56
- Forum: Everything else.
- Topic: I have this constant sensation I can't get rid of
- Replies: 8
- Views: 7044
Re: I have this constant sensation I can't get rid of
OP, I hate to say this but you are suffering from a terminal complaint you are male!!!! Whilst the effect may reduce over time, the male response to a stimulus, whether it is a fetish, a female (or male depending upon your sexuality) or simply a smile from the right person, is arousal to some extent...
- 10 Dec 2023, 10:28
- Forum: Everything else.
- Topic: questions to admin
- Replies: 13
- Views: 5755
Re: questions to admin
Shannon and Riddle have largely answered the question - Anna has a very low active profile and leaves the running of the site to the Moderators, though she does occasionally drop in. If any member wants to ask a specific question relating to the running of the Form, contact any of the moderators - w...
- 01 Dec 2023, 14:00
- Forum: Funny things
- Topic: Images that made my day
- Replies: 2337
- Views: 375500
Re: Images that made my day
Top/bottom is about "giving and receiving" the sexual act. So it's possible to be a sub top or a dom bottom. being a bit picky, but Top/bottom (or sub/Dom) need not relate to a sexual act, unless you define anything we do in kink as sexual? For example, on many occasions at play-parties I...
- 30 Oct 2023, 18:08
- Forum: Site feedback
- Topic: no "new topics" page
- Replies: 7
- Views: 8796
no "new topics" page
After the software upgrade, which happened during a period I was away , so I missed the warning of its impending arrival (so things suddenly looked a bit different and my brain took a while to work out what had gone...) but is there something I need to "switch on" or does the "new top...
- 19 Oct 2023, 12:14
- Forum: Everything else.
- Topic: Bondage at home
- Replies: 33
- Views: 5273
Re: Bondage at home
Dilly, I don't know the extent of your experience in the BDSM world, but it looks to me as though you haven't had a great deal (that's not a criticism, none of us did to start with, and a good many here and on other sites have kept their kink secret. The downside of this is you can only see what oth...
- 14 Sep 2023, 10:52
- Forum: Bondage
- Topic: Post a bondage picture for "do this to me"
- Replies: 1748
- Views: 610810
Re: Post a bondage picture for "do this to me"
I would agree with Jenny (always the safest bet anyway :lol: ) floggers can be anything from a feather touch to a battering ram. I have used (and received) ones made from thin bungee cord inner through to chain, via leather, rubber and hard plastic. they can be applied with a light touch or maximum ...
- 21 Aug 2023, 13:41
- Forum: DIY
- Topic: Self Bondage Mummification Machine *Demonstration Video*
- Replies: 63
- Views: 12572
Re: "Ghetto" Self Bondage Mummification Machine *Update*
Before this thread gets out of hand, please NO LASERS in self-bondage. Any loss of control, random reflections etc and permanent damage to flesh and eyesight can happen in a fraction of a second. Just get some "ER shears", they are cheap and designed to cut effectively without significant ...
- 09 Aug 2023, 12:22
- Forum: Bondage
- Topic: Post a picture for don't do this to me
- Replies: 214
- Views: 476397
Re: Post a picture for don't do this to me
That scenario reminds me of an event at a play-party. A male cross-dresser, suitably attired in black underwear, stockings and high heels wanted to be secured in a similar metal cage, asked me and another Top to do the job, with a few interested spectators. So I cuffed him, wrists and ankles to the ...
- 29 Jul 2023, 09:10
- Forum: Selfbondage discussions
- Topic: Is there a Safe way to do suspensions?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 2182
Re: Is there a Safe way to do suspensions?
I have taken the decision to lock this thread. One of the difficult parts of being a Moderator is to keep threads within the chosen limits of the site - avoiding censorship whilst preserving our aim of promoting safe enjoyment of our kinks. When something appears on the web, it acquires an authority...
- 12 Jul 2023, 13:03
- Forum: DIY
- Topic: high tech sound eliminating gag
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3130
Re: high tech sound eliminating gag
The OP needs to define the desired situation. What is the desired result? Sound cancelling by generating an anti-phase signal only works if the receiver of the noise gets the two sound waves of exactly the same volume and spectrum, so in-ear and over-ear systems succeed because the sounds can be cor...