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by Melissa Melons
25 Oct 2020, 22:48
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: What is your current/was your last: selfbondage experience?
Replies: 478
Views: 139412

Re: What is your current/was your last: selfbondage experien

So I (finally) moved and Melissa fully came into being last night. October 24 will now be my birthday :) I've not much in the way of equipment yet but have a (slightly) damaged bodystocking and plenty of zip ties and a timed padlock. Now when I viewed my new place I was concerned with the day-to-day...
by Melissa Melons
24 Oct 2020, 00:30
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Newbie heels question
Replies: 59
Views: 8787

Re: Newbie heels question

Well in the end I bought a pair of size 12 court shoes with four inch heels. I cannot wait for them to arrive! Thanks for the advice, I'll be sure to let you know how I get on
by Melissa Melons
23 Oct 2020, 11:45
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Newbie heels question
Replies: 59
Views: 8787

Re: Newbie heels question

Thank you. I want to be "bothered" and reminded. And I don't expect to be able to do a days housework the first time I put them on either. I just don't want to put them on and be in unintentional self bondage!
But you make it sound like I could manage.
by Melissa Melons
23 Oct 2020, 09:50
Forum: Crossdressing
Topic: Newbie heels question
Replies: 59
Views: 8787

Newbie heels question

I'm going to purchase my first pair of heels today but I'm not sure whether to go for a pair of four inch open toes or two inch court shoes? The last time I wore heels was 30 years ago but I have no idea what height they were and besides I was a lot fitter and supple back then! I intend to lock them...
by Melissa Melons
19 Sep 2020, 00:36
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Taken the plunge (sort of)
Replies: 2
Views: 1282

Re: Taken the plunge (sort of)

Well only 1/3 of the delivery turned up on time - the bodystocking. Good old Royal Mail! But I've improvised a bit and have some rice in socks as boobs, wearing the body stocking and cut an old t-shirt up as a crop top and skirt. It's very rudimentary but already the boobs are annoying :) and I'm fe...
by Melissa Melons
17 Sep 2020, 01:07
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Why having a backup is important
Replies: 5
Views: 1835

Re: Why having a backup is important

For the initial scenarios I have in mind - which largely involve me being able to move around to do chores so with my hands relatively free - I think a hasp lock with two timed padlocks would work for me and a pair of boltcutters. Backup is simple, money is tight and I can't afford to break the lock...
by Melissa Melons
17 Sep 2020, 00:59
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Taken the plunge (sort of)
Replies: 2
Views: 1282

Taken the plunge (sort of)

I'm very excited as I've just ordered a bodystocking and cock cage which should be arriving on Friday and I've got the house to myself this weekend. It won't be long before that is the norm but I've decided to take the risk on delivery and dip my feet. I wish I could have ordered some heels as well ...
by Melissa Melons
08 Sep 2020, 17:57
Forum: DIY
Topic: VR goggles to watch yourself???
Replies: 5
Views: 4393

Re: VR goggles to watch yourself???

Without having tested myself this should be really easy and cheap to achieve. You can pick up a cheap VR headset for around £15 in the UK. On your PC or laptop download Contacam (which is is freemium software, but you don't need to donate if you don't wish) you can use this to stream your webcam fro...
by Melissa Melons
01 Sep 2020, 22:26
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Newbie to chasitity
Replies: 6
Views: 2040

Re: Newbie to chasitity

A belt is really not an option for me when the time comes at the moment. I have to keep my costs down (and given I need a wardrobe, toys etc as well) then firstly the cost is slightly prohibitive but also I'm in the mindset that I don't want to spend a lot on things only to find they don't float my ...
by Melissa Melons
30 Aug 2020, 22:01
Forum: Chastity
Topic: Newbie to chasitity
Replies: 6
Views: 2040

Newbie to chasitity

As the title says I'm (almost) completey new to this. I have made a fairly effective if very rudimentary home-made device which I have only used for a few hours at a time but that's about it. The main question I have is about size - which also links into the other question I have. What I don't under...
by Melissa Melons
30 Aug 2020, 01:40
Forum: New member introduction
Topic: Hi
Replies: 11
Views: 2129

Re: Hi

Thanks everyone for your welcoming messages. As I say, I'm not completely new to all this but ironically I'm soon to have a lot more freedom to be restricted My first big question is on a chastity cage which I will post in the relevant section but I know that two posts are needed to be able to contr...
by Melissa Melons
28 Aug 2020, 22:32
Forum: New member introduction
Topic: Hi
Replies: 11
Views: 2129

Hi

Long time lurker and now due to a life change I've joined up as even though what I'm going through is very difficult, it means I will be able to finally explore the "other side" of me. I've always secretly cross-dressed and been into self-bondage. The secrecy won't really change, but Melis...