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by copperfox
12 Nov 2023, 02:27
Forum: Bondage
Topic: Bondage is self bondage, with a partner?
Replies: 15
Views: 4491

Re: Bondage is self bondage, with a partner?

I agree, BDGBlue, as I’ve always thought of bondage with a partner this way as well. A lot of times, I’ll ask my wife to keep me tied up for some amount of time (half-hour, maybe an hour) after orgasm. But, of course, bondage isn’t as fun post-orgasm, so sometimes I’ll ask to be let out early…and, o...
by copperfox
19 Mar 2023, 04:16
Forum: Bondage
Topic: First Time Bound by Others
Replies: 29
Views: 9541

Re: First Time Bound by Others

Writing about this old experience has me thinking about needing to find a bondage partner. I imagine that need is common to most who visit this site. Nothing sexual, simply someone male or female or a couple that can be trusted and enjoys the helplessness or enjoys causing the helplessness. Having ...
by copperfox
19 Mar 2023, 03:43
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Discrete Bondage to Be Worn Under Clothes
Replies: 24
Views: 5698

Re: Discrete Bondage to Be Worn Under Clothes

I like a metal chain around the waist locked with a pad lock. You can choose the tightness. Also rings around the ankles so it hurts while walking. I went to blood donation with this setup, it felt like I was exploited, haha That’s a great option. My go-to discreet bondage is either my 2”-wide lock...
by copperfox
13 Mar 2023, 04:11
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: What made your SB experience significantly better?
Replies: 15
Views: 4494

Re: What made your SB experience significantly better?

Wearing maximum absorbency diapers has made bondage/self-bondage sessions much more fun and comfortable. Diapers aren’t necessarily a fetish of mine, but I generally have to pee (at least a little bit) after an hour or so of being tied up. I also have locking (Segufix-style) diaper shorts as well so...
by copperfox
12 Mar 2023, 05:10
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Best Cuffs
Replies: 9
Views: 1303

Re: Best Cuffs

Definitely looking for comfort. Metal is out of the question. I live in a small town and work in a professional field. So finding somebody local isn’t an option. Online will have to be the mode. Amazon has a lot of sets but pretty sure a lot are cheaply made and more Velcro. I’ve checked out a coup...
by copperfox
12 Mar 2023, 04:53
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Sleep in Selfbondage
Replies: 12
Views: 2123

Re: Sleep in Selfbondage

I don’t sleep in bondage very often, but when I do—it’s definitely on a weekend! And keeping things simple has helped. I keep the more complex, really restrictive stuff to daytime sessions. Since I can’t get into a comfortable position with my hands or feet tied together, I’ve found that just lockin...
by copperfox
23 Jun 2020, 06:25
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Next best toy?
Replies: 8
Views: 1582

Re: Next best toy?

Welcome, BobyCatz! Random thoughts, in no particular order… If you're referencing Amazon Prime in your post, there's actually quite of bit of good/decent gear that you can buy if you go that route. However, it can be hit-or-miss as there are numerous storefronts for third-party sellers...with some b...
by copperfox
07 May 2020, 03:06
Forum: Bondage
Topic: Best and most comfortable total lockdown hood.
Replies: 5
Views: 3972

Re: Best and most comfortable total lockdown hood.

I have a couple leather hoods from Mr. S Leather (based in San Francisco) and they are both excellent quality. The first is the Isolation Hood (https://www.mr-s-leather.com/bondage-bdsm/bondage-hoods-muzzles/leather-hoods-muzzles-masks/isolation-hood-with-padded-ears), and with all the padding, it’s...
by copperfox
21 Oct 2019, 06:04
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Wondering about the psycology behind
Replies: 27
Views: 10341

Re: Wondering about the psycology behind

For me, kink is a sort of glitch in me. Not all glitches are bad, or not well understood. I choose not to look too deep into its construction because I feel that breaking it into pieces and sorting it out neatly would ruin it. Its whole is worth more than the sum of its parts. It’s very interesting...
by copperfox
21 Sep 2019, 07:31
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Self bondage lock
Replies: 4
Views: 3055

Re: Self bondage lock

Please post your experience, as we are all curious, and were looking for a tester. They generally work fine, but I recommend always using two for redundancy, in case of a firmware glitch or other events. Unlike the small chinese timer locks that have a wire as a shackle, these are strong enough tha...
by copperfox
19 Sep 2019, 02:27
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Time Lock Safes
Replies: 6
Views: 1961

Re: Time Lock Safes

Thank you for the link, Shannon. It was a very helpful review of a couple of the locks that I been previously looking at as well. However, I’d like to get a “professional grade” lock (to lock a small steel box) or (more preferably) an electronic timed safe that can only be opened (via the keypad) du...
by copperfox
18 Sep 2019, 03:59
Forum: Selfbondage discussions
Topic: Time Lock Safes
Replies: 6
Views: 1961

Time Lock Safes

I’ve seen some discussion recently about the “timer lock” padlock and the “kitchen safe” locking plastic container being used to keep keys out of reach during self-bondage, but I don’t think I’ve seen anything regarding timed locking safes. There’s two on the market right now that I’ve been looking ...