I'm a 29yo boy, and I love selfbondage. I'm married but my wife is not into bondage.
We've tried to play some soft-bondage but she doesn't find it hot
I have an inflatable butt-plug (she doens't know that yet) and I always think about what to tell to her if she ever find my bondage toys.
for me, the inflatable plug is a mix of humilliation and pleasure, but I find that by the moment it's impossible to explain to my wife .
I was wondering if the ladies in this forum do play anal in selfbondage and if so, if you do it too when having sex with a partner
(sorry for the bad english)