A long few months

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A long few months

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I’ve broken into a new phase, I’ve been pushing to dress in public so I urged myself to do it, I went underdressed into a shopping centre the other week and brought my self a new red leather skirt, headed to the stools and got dulled up. I just couldn’t get the courage to step out the stool, I was in there for 30 minutes. Then crept the door open and a guy clicked eyes with me and saw me standing there in my skirt and bra I freaked out and shut the door, he washed his hands for 20 minutes longer than he should have shall we say 😂

I want someone to give me that encouragement to step outside the stool as I kicked myself when I headed home for not doing it, so please encourage away !

Next,

I have now started parking up in a secluded car park most nights in my skirt and whole other outfit and heading off for a walk across the fields, I want someone to see me so I’m trying to head out earlier

Next,

On the way back from shopping I pulled over into a services as I was kicking myself for not stepping out that stool. I parked right down the back of the car park and jumped out in my heels and red skirt and yes lots of other parts of my outfit. Long story short a guy was walking his dog and I wanted to be seen cross dressed so I stood my ground and set myself a goal to walk past him where he didn’t even batt an eye lid !

The shopping centre which is a much more public option is the one I want to do !

(Would love to post some photos for all you to see me but again I don’t have the courage)
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The shopping centre is probably the easiest place to be honest. Somewhere busy, everyone is going about their own business and don’t really care what anyone else is wearing. The key is blending in (which is maybe even more important than passing).

Take a look at what other women are wearing and dress similar. Don’t overdo the make-up. Sometimes less is more. You will get noticed in a shopping centre though in a red leather skirt!!!

And the longer you sit in the car, the less likely you are to get out!
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I guess I forgot to mention it’s more of a berry coloured leather look skirt from a department store, I also havnt gone down the makeup route yet with my X dressing I guess that’s the next step,
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Check the link it’s the skirt

https://www.next.co.uk/g92155s3/504424#504424
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That’s nice! I buy a lot of my clothes from Next.

I’d feel like all eyes were on me if I were to wear that shopping :shock: What are you wearing with it?
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Hannah_G wrote: 18 Nov 2023, 15:36 That’s nice! I buy a lot of my clothes from Next.

I’d feel like all eyes were on me if I were to wear that shopping :shock: What are you wearing with it?

Well the obvious full set of lingerie underneath for my naughty know only then a simple white blouse with white heels and pink bows, yes I know far from subtle ha but it just feels like the type of thing I want to wear
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Hannah is right that skirt is designed to get you noticed.
For me I would wear something like that to go clubbing or nights out if I wanted attention or if I was going out on a date and hoping for something to happen. Very cute skirt though.
Basically anything that short if it’s a dress or a skirt is for attention. Showing that much leg there is a purpose. Date wise I would normally wear a dress as I feel more flattering than just sexy.

If you are looking for an outfit to wear while you are shopping pick something that is comfortable and lets you blend into the crowd. When we go out shopping that’s what we want to do. Think more about what you want to do and dress accordingly. That’s my advice.

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Decades ago, when I was much slimmer, I used to shop at Zayre discount stores.
They sold dancewear. I would enter wearing tights and t-shirt, select a leotard, and go into the changing booth.
Out I came in the leotard & tights, and I would go to the full-length mirror to see how I looked.
(It was helpful to have a very small "package.") If there were any ladies around, I would ask their opinion.
Zayre has been gone a long time, and no general department stores seem to stock leotards, especially in x-large sizes.
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Personally, my favorite place to go out enfemme is to casinos! They will take my money m=no matter how I'm dressed! And I always swear a dress or a skirt. Really don't want to blend in! And no one cares, they are all busy playing slot machines. Just don't take photos of you on the casino floor. Got yelled at a number of times by security guards... though they were very polite! lol
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