I am new to self bondage. My wife is not interested at bondage, so after I found self-bondage (a day ago..) I was immediately hooked. After watching all kink porn for 2 decades I can't imagine how this one was not found anywhere before this. For now, I have no much gear to work on, except some ropes, belts, ties and handcuffs and butt plugs. I am looking to get huge orgasms from this and I am planning to get prostate massager, ball gag and nipple clamps at least to get on track. I think the best thing while being bound is to feel the sensations quite different form being free and to lose the ability to control. I have some time alone so I can workout these things while kids and wife aren't present. Not sure how far this can go, compared to being bound by a lady domina, but looking forward to it. I bet it's way better than the regular missionary.
If there are suggestions how to make p-spot orgasms while being bound, happy to try those. One of my fantasies is being bound and getting first teased, edged and then forced to orgasm mercilessly several times. I am also interested about spanking and pegging and I think anal play is something I will involve for this for sure. Another thing is that I need to hide gear from my kids at least, also practicing self bondage will be challenging, though I can lock me up behind two doors so I get some sense of peace during late nights.
I noticed there are some scenarios in the forum, but got way too excited and couldn't help myself to sign in here and start the journey. Feels good to write this stuff, right after 30 years of first bondage experience (a little playful event with friends, which turned out quite different for me). Oh, I'm dripping already
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