TNTBound wrote:sounds like she knew what she was doing!
i would LOVE to hear about the next conversation you two had!
The next morning when she walked into the kitchen while I was having breakfast was embarrassing for me
. The first thing she asked while trying to hold in her laughter was "Did you enjoy yourself last night?". My first response was "What do you think" still sore from being tied up for a lot longer then what I was used to.
After a few real bad jokes about not hearing me say anything when she entered the room
. The feeling of embarrassment started to fade away, until she explained how she knew what she was doing the other night (making the hogtie even thighter). She herself had been into BDSM since she was about 18 or 19 years old ( she is 22 now). She explained that she like the idea of teasing me when she found me all tied up and helples against her. Before she continued talking she apoligised for if it was rude or not wanted in any way.
After telling her my own story why i did it and how I tied myself she came up with a preposal and a list of terms we would both sign if we agreed like a contract.
in short the preposal was about helping each other out if we wanted to try any sort of SB or bondage in general, this to make it saver for both of us and being able to get tied easier and in a lot more ways then posible by our selfs.
the rules are just to prevent a bad experiance.
After we made up a document we both signed it. it was almost 12:30 and I was planning on going to the local hardware store to look for some new stuff I could use.
But before I even put my plate in the dishwasher I got asked what gear I had and if I would like to she her's. After seeing what I had hidden behind my desk she looked a bit dissapointed. She grabbed my hand and dragged me to her room where she opend a big crate filled to the top with different kinds of outfits, toys, Bondage gear and a few books on how to tie different things. Fully excited about not having to hide it anymore she told me I could use her gear if we would do something and that she would like to try out a few ties on me she came up with after finding me all tied up.
Being a bit scared of what she might do to me I suggested that we would take turns tieing each other up with a maximum time of 1h for each tie. With a bright smile on her face she went through the crate looking for anything she needed to prepear. Today (arround noon) we will start with trying out 3 ties each and we discused what we
Absolutly didn't want to do and both gave the list to the other. The last thing we talked about before heading out to work was the ideas we had on how to tie the other.