Found a new feet fetish friend but she needs strong dom if..
Posted: 15 Dec 2017, 18:45
113 views of that was enough !
First, take a breath.
next
take another !
and several more...
so you like massaging ladies feet. This does not mark you out as a Dom. You therefore have to ask yourself if you could be. Unless you are sure, take another breath. Then look at what might work.
There is this strange term in BDSM circles "switch". I know a bit about this, being a switch, though with a preference for being submissive. So forget the labels and look at this as a mature couple enjoying each other.
Being abusive isn't being a Dom, it's being an abuser. A Dom cares for his submissive, giving her what she wants and needs, with mutual consent. Or be Top and bottom, give her a good thrashing when she indicates she wants one, a foot massage when she wants one. That's what a switch does. Takes both roles.
You just need to take another breath, and ask her what she needs. Tell her what you need.
Good luck !