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Kinky Canadian

Posted: 10 Mar 2017, 01:53
by vm1971
I'm 45, male and I've been doing selfbondage since I was a kid.

Things I find mandatory when doing selfbondage:
- Crossdressing
- Gag
- inescapability (not actually but as close as possible)

Because I always imagine myself as a damsel in distress, I have to crossdress. This includes pantyhose, heels and a short dress. I don't do makeup, wigs or breastforms but I'm not necessarily opposed to the idea.
My favorite gag consists of a ballgag, 3 strips of duct tape over the lips, 2 strips under the chin and 3 more over the lips. Finished off with self-sticking bandage wrap. If I could handle mouthpacking, I'd do small mouthpacking before putting in the ballgag.
It's about 50/50 when I blindfold myself. If I don't, I'll put on some bondage porn to watch on my phone while struggling. Before anyone says anything, I have an app that hides all of it.
My favorite position is the hogtie, with rope. I will sometimes use leather cuffs for expediency but if I have the time, it's rope all the way. I am able to tie my elbows together as close as 8" apart. I am also able to tie my wrists behind my back in such a fashion as to require a knife to get free. I don't waste any rope. I will tie my feet, ankles, calves, below the knees, above the knees, thighs, wrists, waist, elbows and chest. The more rope the better.

I'm otherwise a pretty normal, straight man.

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 10 Mar 2017, 09:14
by bound_jenny
Welcome to the forum! :hi:

Jenny (another crazy Canuck... :lol: ).

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 11 Mar 2017, 03:01
by ponylady
welcome aboard.
vm1971 wrote:

I'm otherwise a pretty normal, straight man.
you just made my day.

and i sure hope you don't live in nova scotia since my daughter will be there for 12th grade.

EDIT: well, she just came home from our bookdealer (if you'd know her you would treat amazon as a last resort) with her last order.

and it was shades of grey # 1 (she's not yet 16)

looks like i'll have to stow away my toys.

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 11 Mar 2017, 03:30
by bound_jenny
ponylady wrote:and i sure hope you don't live in nova scotia since my daughter will be there for 12th grade.
Pony's already taking a big risk of sending her up here because of me... :rofl:

Jenny.

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 11 Mar 2017, 03:45
by vm1971
ponylady wrote: and i sure hope you don't live in nova scotia since my daughter will be there for 12th grade.
Slightly confused by this comment as I have no interest in 16 year olds... My sissy aura isn't visible to the human eye so I blend in pretty well nor is it contagious :)

I'm also a west coaster.

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 11 Mar 2017, 08:08
by ponylady
vm1971 wrote:
ponylady wrote: and i sure hope you don't live in nova scotia since my daughter will be there for 12th grade.
Slightly confused by this comment as I have no interest in 16 year olds... My sissy aura isn't visible to the human eye so I blend in pretty well nor is it contagious :)

I'm also a west coaster.
just kidding, vm.

but maybe i can arrange a visit with jenny, considering my daugther's literature interests.

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 11 Mar 2017, 09:21
by bound_jenny
ponylady wrote:but maybe i can arrange a visit with jenny, considering my daugther's literature interests
Then you wouldn't have to hide your toys... :mrgreen:
vm1971 wrote:Slightly confused by this comment
If you think you're confused now, just wait. We haven't gotten into hamsters (especially zombie hamsters), ice, corsets, computer games (nearly) everyone's forgotten, and various and sundry other subjects that would even confuse Mr Spock (there's another subject - Star Trek).

In a nutshell, you ain't seen nothin' yet... :rofl:

Jenny.

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 11 Mar 2017, 12:02
by Gregovic
ponylady wrote:welcome aboard.
vm1971 wrote:

I'm otherwise a pretty normal, straight man.
EDIT: well, she just came home from our bookdealer (if you'd know her you would treat amazon as a last resort) with her last order.

and it was shades of grey # 1 (she's not yet 16)

looks like i'll have to stow away my toys.
Well, either time to stow your toys or time to have the "extended" talk about continuous enthusiastic consent, domination, submission and why Christian Gray is a TERRIBLE Dom. :mrgreen: . Or just drop enough hints that she "gets" what you are into. She'll be too embarrassed to even think about it in future :rofl:

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 13 Mar 2017, 16:27
by ponylady
bound_jenny wrote:
ponylady wrote:but maybe i can arrange a visit with jenny, considering my daugther's literature interests
Then you wouldn't have to hide your toys... :mrgreen:
she just may take you up on that offer.
:mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 18 Mar 2017, 06:45
by cdinbonds
Welcome!

Re: Kinky Canadian

Posted: 19 Mar 2017, 04:16
by Hitmeup
Welcome Fellow west coaster