I am a mid 30's guy living in Europe. Native to UK and recently moved country. Fun but stressful times
I think I feel comforted that this appears to be a friendly corner of the internet, where people enjoy being tied up. Which for me feels like a in-built desire I've had from a very young age, however irrational. I have made the decision to accept it, and this site seems an awesome place to share thoughts, with openminded and fun people.
For me an important creed I have adopted is the Wiccan "do no harm". I think this sums up the way I wish to live my life (I'm not a Wiccan though.) Incidentally I discovered it from an internet dating profile of a Wiccan I bumped into back in my single days. While she was not what I was looking for (or her me for that matter, plus I admit I was far too timid to make contact with such a powerful woman), it was absolutely fascinating how open she was, how reading her words brought herself and her culture alive. The final punchline was this inspired me to modify my own profile, which worked as not long afterwards, I met a wonderful woman. And still happily married to her!
Oh and the name, I feel very at home wearing leather knee high boots. Found some mens versions (think outdoor country/horsey) recently which I finally took the plunge to start wearing regularly in my new city. Loving it! No idea why I like them so much though, I do know it is not a crossdressing thing for me personally. I will also confess my heart gives a flutter seeing a woman in a pair of sleek black knee high stiletto boots!
I also have a deep respect for the bravery evident and sense for beauty amongst the CD's on here! 
Have a nice day everyone. Goodbye!
MIB.
