Bored in bondage: What can I do about it?

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So I have a pretty good setup for my scenarios. I have an empty barn in my back yard and cleared out a large stall as a private "dungeon". Rubber floors, more joists than I can hang stuff from, complete privacy (isolation), electric, and finally some warm enough weather.
My wife knows all about it and my fetish but just isn't into it so I play on my own.
Last night, the first time this season I got out there for some "me" time, I set up and locked into one of my favorite scenarios: standing spread-eagle. Spreader bar hung from the ceiling with wrists cuffed high overhead, spreader between the ankles, gagged and locked into a stainless head cage also suspended from the ceiling. I set up a scenario for three hours just to be brave right out of the gate during the start of what I call "barn bondage season". I also used a timer to turn off the lights for an hour and a half in the middle --- slightly unnerving as it is pitch black in there. I've done this scenario many times in the last year or two.
I was tied so tight I could barely move and couldn't even make a sound. The only relief was standing up on my toes for a few seconds to relieve the strain. It was pitch black. The only sound was chain swinging and clanking softly and my breathing. I have no emergency release. There is only time.

...and then I got bored...with an hour to go.

I use a few timed releases plus backups so I always go the distance whether I like it or not. Not that I didn't enjoy last night (I'm really sore today :D) but my original goal was to get to 8 hours incrementally this summer and I'm not sure I want to do that any more. I need a bit more drama I guess.

My question for you is this: how would you bring some pain or pleasure to this experience? I have no internet out in the barn but tons of outlets and timers. I've thought about this for a long time but can't think of anything that's safe enough. I have zero tech knowledge but can work out mechanical stuff usually.

All ideas are appreciated and I will post pics of anything I rig up.
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lostcomm1 wrote:how would you bring some pain or pleasure to this experience?
  • Use one of your timers to turn a strategically placed vibrator on and off in a hard to predict pattern.
  • Stand on a metal plate that is big enough to make sure you can't get your (bare) feet next to it. Connect the plate to one pole of a TENS unit or electrostimulation device. Connect the other pole to your body by means of a sticky pad or metal buttplug or conductive rubber cock loop or some such. Use one of your timers to turn the TENS unit on and off. When it switches on and you don't like the sensation, just lift your feet :D
My own self bondage predicament setups are way more elaborate than this, but they involve lots of electronics and programming.
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It sounds like you want to trade time tied for predicament. Not holding an uncomfortable position brings about pain, or other unpleasantness. Is that about right?
Not sure why you need internet access in the dungeon, privacy to browse Bound Anna . Com, maybe? A USB wireless network adapter could provide a decent signal from your router to a laptop computer or a desktop you could put out there. If you are unfamiliar with how to get wireless, maybe one of your vanilla friends could set it up, they can do this anywhere in the house, don't have to see the dungeon. Good luck, and have fun!
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Buy yourself a good electrostim device, I strongly recommend the Erostek ET312. Without doubt, the best unit out there. A bit pricey, but worth every cent. My favourite mode is the audio mode using a little microphone which picks up sound and uses it to stimulate what ever part of your body you have attached the electrodes. Ideally of course, your penis, and perhaps nipples. Trust me, that'll keep you from getting bored.
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Introduce some hypnosis to the scenario, plenty of options out there, I am partial to a bit of feminisation hypno when locked up.
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I'd imagine you'd try to chase the holy grail of bondage which is maddening nonstop orgasms like in certain manga. (Often combined with sensory overload, like a tickling machine of some sort. Really, someone should make that. #SpareNoExpense)

It's alot easier and fulfilling for rich people, sadly, but there's also the ol' roleplay being a sex slave of a machine overlord, but you'd have to program your favorite AI assistant for that. (Think Alexa or Siri or watshername from Google) It would involve some combination of wiring the aforementioned sensory overload machines with a warmed dildo with accurate artificial cum (since nobody likes biohazards and we're losing the war against broad-spectrum antibiotic resistant microbes) going nonstop through your ring gag, etc etc.

For the average joe, they'd probably just be stuck with having a wireless mouse nearby or some other means of controlling a screen and watching some movies TV shows, porn.... (Porn being the toughest since the majority of free porn is, no offense to any1 secretly in teh business, UGLY AF. Like honestly! OF the few who ARE cute, the content is so vanilla and fake. It revolves around stereotypical dudes' idea and has the female subject wanting everything and is simply illogical :shock: Not saying they have to struggle or cry or anything, but a better bet would be reading H manga where the subject is heavily restrained and feelings of fear and embarrassment are heavily overridden by orgasms which have a mind blanking effect where the subject isn't quite all there anymore. I suppose you could have an automated system of flipping the pages of an H manga for you, and then you could easily pass the time.)

A more elaborate escape but fun scenario also involves an AI assistant subjecting you to an infinite orgasm loop and it will only deem you worthy of release when you can solve differential equations under the influence of orgasm or something. All very riveting stuff, but sadly most of it in the realm of fiction for now.
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Oh and also regarding the previous scenarios, if you're going the egotistical AI dom route, you'd obviously have on a school uniform just to match the theme, but it should be... not a normal one, but the "Sexy" school uniforms are overdoing it too much. As the theory goes, you should feel vulnerable just enough but not have the outfit explicitly scream "cheap whore". Something more like this https://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=692183
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I would suggest a vibrator and timer. I would also recommend maybe spicing up the initial set up. Add some tights, high heels, maybe even ballet boots. Then you really will be on your toes.
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https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php? ... 82b944fc9a

Just saw this and was like AGGGGHHHHHHHH THE SOLUTION WAS SO OBVIOUS!

Basically that, but with fucking machines running the whole time, have a game running, and just play it while trying to focus

Could play Control or one of those JRPGs. As long as you're not spreadeagle or something you could still play games tied up
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I have done some long and even very long self bondage sessions. Yes, boredom is part of it. I have a very active imagination, and that helps. There have been times where due to the circumstances, I couldn't tell how long it had been. That leads to thinking the release method failed and has even led to my attempting to escape my bondage. Since, I'm good at securing myself, escape usually isn't happening. I have done many overnight sessions that lasted longer than 8 hours. They are some of my best ones.

One thing to note, is you mentioned no release other than time. Do you want to elaborate more on your release method? I used ice as my release method for a long time but have moved to a magnetic door lock mechanism with a smart outlet as the primary. That is plugged into a mechanical timer outlet as a back up. When power is interrupted, the lock releases.

There are many ways to avoid the boredom while restrained in self-bondage. You could put a shelf in your stall to set up a television to watch some bondage videos. But a great one for me is erotic fiction. Audible has erotic fiction. You could use air buds connected to your iPhone or a speaker. I almost always gag and blindfold myself during my adventures, this also takes away my ability to hear. Below is an example that is over 14 hours long.

https://www.audible.com/pd/37-Explicit- ... roduct_1_2
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CD Tammy wrote:I have done some long and even very long self bondage sessions. Yes, boredom is part of it. I have a very active imagination, and that helps. There have been times where due to the circumstances, I couldn't tell how long it had been. That leads to thinking the release method failed and has even led to my attempting to escape my bondage. Since, I'm good at securing myself, escape usually isn't happening. I have done many overnight sessions that lasted longer than 8 hours. They are some of my best ones.

One thing to note, is you mentioned no release other than time. Do you want to elaborate more on your release method? I used ice as my release method for a long time but have moved to a magnetic door lock mechanism with a smart outlet as the primary. That is plugged into a mechanical timer outlet as a back up. When power is interrupted, the lock releases.

There are many ways to avoid the boredom while restrained in self-bondage. You could put a shelf in your stall to set up a television to watch some bondage videos. But a great one for me is erotic fiction. Audible has erotic fiction. You could use air buds connected to your iPhone or a speaker. I almost always gag and blindfold myself during my adventures, this also takes away my ability to hear. Below is an example that is over 14 hours long.

https://www.audible.com/pd/37-Explicit- ... roduct_1_2
i just recently got a set of bluetooth ear buds and today i chained myself up in a spread eagle with a medical tape gag and blindfold, with tape holding the ear buds in my ears and was playing music from my phone for the hour or so i was restrained. it was AWESOME! having music playing vs plain old ear plugs even takes away the sound of your breathing and makes for more of a sensory deprivation experience! definitely wasnt bored while i was like this!
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TNTBound wrote:
CD Tammy wrote:I have done some long and even very long self bondage sessions. Yes, boredom is part of it. I have a very active imagination, and that helps. There have been times where due to the circumstances, I couldn't tell how long it had been. That leads to thinking the release method failed and has even led to my attempting to escape my bondage. Since, I'm good at securing myself, escape usually isn't happening. I have done many overnight sessions that lasted longer than 8 hours. They are some of my best ones.

One thing to note, is you mentioned no release other than time. Do you want to elaborate more on your release method? I used ice as my release method for a long time but have moved to a magnetic door lock mechanism with a smart outlet as the primary. That is plugged into a mechanical timer outlet as a back up. When power is interrupted, the lock releases.

There are many ways to avoid the boredom while restrained in self-bondage. You could put a shelf in your stall to set up a television to watch some bondage videos. But a great one for me is erotic fiction. Audible has erotic fiction. You could use air buds connected to your iPhone or a speaker. I almost always gag and blindfold myself during my adventures, this also takes away my ability to hear. Below is an example that is over 14 hours long.

https://www.audible.com/pd/37-Explicit- ... roduct_1_2
i just recently got a set of bluetooth ear buds and today i chained myself up in a spread eagle with a medical tape gag and blindfold, with tape holding the ear buds in my ears and was playing music from my phone for the hour or so i was restrained. it was AWESOME! having music playing vs plain old ear plugs even takes away the sound of your breathing and makes for more of a sensory deprivation experience! definitely wasnt bored while i was like this!
It's even better with sexy podcasts or audiobooks.
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lostcomm1 wrote:..and then I got bored.
Yep!

Predicaments or a playmate.
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